I can’t help with current recommendations @silvdilfbttm but I’ve done this in the past.
I found the easiest way to approach this was to date one muscleboy and then ask him about his friends. Even if he is discreet and doesn’t want his friends to know, he may well have gym-buddies he can ask.
If you’re bold, you and he can go out on a date and maybe pick up another guy at a bar. I did this a couple of times. It worked because being an older in-shape man with a hot young muscleboy excited some comment and attention, even in a mixed bar. When asked if we were a couple, I was direct and said Yes but we’re looking for a 3rd guy. You never know who may be interested in a 3some until you ask.
My general advice would be twofold:
1. It’s best to have a date with the second muscleboy (just you and him) before you have a 3some. This will ensure you’re compatible.
2. Be very clear about what you like to do and enjoy having done to you. I never met a muscleboy who was a mind-reader.
Which of these LA men would you recommend? I know some of them have been discussed in previous posts. I'm looking for feedback from guys who have met with them recently.