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And what would that do? Don't tell me you believe in that old trope that a cop “has to tell you he’s a cop,” do you? I mean, my god, every mafia investigation, major drug investigations, gun runners, etc. could all be shut down instantly with one question? Do you really think that?

For reference, this is probably the ad the OP is referring to. https://rentmen.eu/LEANDROBIUNCUT Also advertises on MB: https://www.mintboys.com/male-escorts/long-island/60a2886bc2c4da5cccb8a92c

I’ll be very generic and say that seeing a muscle guy is one thing, seeing him in a tight shirt where you get more of a hint of those muscles, then the shirt slowly comes off is quite another, to me anyway. I asked him for general things that I enjoy and he touched on all of them without making it like it was a list of things he had to do. Some of them were very subtle but he remembered them and they worked for me.

I agree, @crushme99, he seemed like a genuine nice, intelligent and engaging guy, which was why I was so surprised. I haven’t totally given up on him, but a quick text or email “hey, I got your texts but I’m going through something right now and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can” isn’t too much to ask I don’t think.

Got a private video from Bobby that was terrific. He hit all the bases I asked him to. It was so good I wanted a private session. Suffice it to say Bobby got in touch with me and there’s a reason. Stay tuned! If we are eventually able to meet in person I’ll let you know.

Hey! I represent that remark!

We gather today to mourn @Beancounter. You were a good man with quirks, but your posts…. What? He’s still alive? Well there’s a shocker!

Skinny Asian twink, @cf1180. I also recommend him for what it’s worth.

Much to the bane of @Axiom2001, with whom I agree wholeheartedly. Alas, that time has passed, Axiom. As for your first name and ‘Mr.,’ bostonman, when I was growing up I was not permitted to call any adult anything without a Mr. or Miss. It was always “Mr. Jones,” or if I couldn’t pronounce their last name, it’d be “Miss Shirley.” My parents were very strict about that. To this day I call my friend’s parents Mr or Mrs. [last name] and was appalled when I heard a group of his son’s friends, all around 14–16 years old, refer to my friend as “Daryl,” not “Mr. Smith.” My friend shrugged and said it’s the times we’re in.

Dollars?!!

I like your idea, OP, but if you hire William Shatner to do anything, I’m out! You’re like a poet!

I’m with the OP. I hate it and it’s a turn off. Especially “babe” or “baby.” We haven’t even met yet, plus it’s so feminine, which I am not.

Just my two cents, @jetlowbut in your negotiations with him, you can specify you’re NOT into P&P and don’t tolerate it. You can even be polite and say, “Just so you know, I don’t do any substances at all. A good friend of mine died from an OD and I’ve been clean ever since, so I hope you’re the same.” Then, if they show up high it’s buh-bye!

Thank you, @Rand. I did it this weekend, changed the name. I had no idea and wish I knew that ahead of time.

Thanks for the tip. I didn’t know that was possible. I’ll check into that.

I wouldn’t pay regular prices for a massage on a bed. I’ve declined meets that were cheaper because the masseur didn’t have a table. I’ve been massaged on a bed twice. Despised it both times. Never again.

And just like that @manmedbecomes a legend! Oh, that was fantastic!

Does Zelle offer anonymity? I know from personal experience Venmo doesn’t. I used it once with a provider and was mortified when he said “Got it. You’re [my full real name], right?” Won’t use Venmo anymore until they change that.

Not all of us. Believe me, not all of us. 😂

Claudio appears therapeutic only. Didn’t check off boxes for sensual or erotic.

@Islesguyme neither in September. Quite sad now. 😭

I hope he comes back and answers crushme’s question about traveling for worship sessions. @Bobby Biceps do you ever make it to Long Island?

@nycmanLord have mercy on my soul!

Yes, OP, I’ve noticed an uptick in my experience. The last two guys I hired asked me to put the cash on the table before we began. One was worth it, one was not. As someone else has said, though, usually the ones that ask are not worth it. On a side note, I make sure they count it out in front of me. I had one guy I paid his full fee, left, and he texted me shortly after that I shorted him $40. Bullshit.

Weren’t there people here as early as a few weeks ago saying how an escort asking for a deposit is the norm and should be paid? Yeah, this is why I don’t. I’m sorry this happened to you, @nysouthpaw.