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I’m using a mobile device and it does not work. When searching your username, your profile appears. Maybe provide the link here to make it easier for forum members.

It takes a vigilant, consistent and intelligent escort to survive NYC on escorting alone. Three qualities very few escorts possess. Escorting in NYC is one of the most intensive and aggressive markets in the country..by far. I don’t think it’s good for one’s mental health to work full time in New York. It’s feast or famine in the big apple.

Your link doesn’t work.

For whom?? I can’t relate. My dick, nor behind are a compass. Takes 30 seconds to weigh pros and cons of a sticky (no pun intended) situation. But I realize everyone is not me.

Well let me be compassionate by saying one should use better judgment.

Oh god yes. Some of the dads on the upper east and west sides of New York pushing strollers are so jacked. I’ve received many a curious stare from dads (and the confused mom) for gawking on many-an-occasion. Uff. I’ve also been hired by many bi dads.

Understood, but to stay after someone has blatantly lied to you because you found them attractive is a recipe for disaster, no?

He’s had an account for less than 5 days. He has no reviews. And no discussions of him on the forum. “Buyer beware” or did you jump the gun?

@Mocha, there is no definitive answer. It’s counterintuitive to even read so deep into the information you’ve provided and no feedback will aid you in finding an answer. Why? Because each escorts experience is unique. It really all comes down to what you’re selling, how you’re selling it, who wants it....and when. If someone tells you a city is a gold mine, that doesn’t mean you will thrive there. If someone tells you a city is a dead zone, doesn’t mean you will tank there. So many factors go into how monetary this business is from one person to the next, there is no concrete answer.

This read very peculiar to me for a number of reasons. The question at hand and what you wrote don’t really correlate. I hope you don’t mind I ask a few questions: If you hired him for an hour and he gave you the time you paid for, and you tipped him (signifying you somewhat enjoyed the experience). Does it matter? If this was not a bareback session and you were not seeking to collect his load. Does it matter? Did you finish? If so, does it matter? How do you even know he “faked” it? We are hired to get YOU off, and while that’s “courteous” of clients to keep our pleasure in mind..it is for you more than it is for us. If you did not communicate to your provider that him having an orgasm (a real one) was of importance to you, then whether or not he faked it really has no significance. You hired him to get you off. He didn’t hire you to get him off. We’re here for your pleasure and if your pleasure is reliant on the escort having an orgasm, you must communicate it. Speaking personally. I take all my sessions seriously, regardless of time. One hour clients are not looked down upon. Some escorts prefer longer, some do not. Same goes with clients: some want a very quick session, others want an extended experience. You wanting one hour doesn’t make you a cheapskate, it means you want one hour. You’re overthinking.

Agree. The city will be grid locked by foot, train and vehicle.

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Kind of messy to elaborate so thoroughly on what happen imo. I understand communicating to everyone his bf was contacting clients (in the event any one on the forum was, idk, “alarmed”) but the rest was unnecessary.

I think a lot of people are unaware of what’s actually going on. New York has been chosen by InterPride to host World Pride, meaning NYC will host pride for the entire world. It happens every two years in a different location. The previous location was Madrid and the scale of the events were monumental. Think the scale of the Olympics, if not larger.

Awesome!!

In my experience, what I find to be the most organic and comfortable is to meet the client first, we have some fun solo and then decide on a 3rd we both agree on. Three complete strangers meeting for the first time can be a sticky situation. Additionally, having the escort reach out to the potential 3rd may work in his favor more than it may work in yours, only because we know how to communicate with one another per the details of a scenario. Be transparent and communicate how you would like to relay the situation through the escort and...good luck. I’m way more receptive to an escort reaching out to me and inviting me than I am a client reaching out and saying “hey! I’m with another escort!” Ok? There’s no favoritism but clients don’t often do the best job of elaborating what’s going on and it can be off-putting.

Situation by situation basis. Some escorts require it to stay hard regardless of client head-count per day, some do not. My penis has never been sore in all my years of glorious penetration from excessive sex...unless I used, say, Trimex. I’d see a urologist or get a good silicone-based lube.

World Pride has never happened in NYC so it’s hard to forecast what the situation will be come next week. I anticipate all of next week leading up to the weekend should be good for business. The weekend could go either way. The market in NYC is already oversaturated. You have the largest pride in NYC history (quite possible the US and the world) about to roll through, which means, more escorts will be in town. It is going to be a rat race. I say maximize on clients rolling into town early as even getting to clients come next weekend will be a struggle.

Zero lies detected, but I don’t see the relevance.

The TWA Hotel at JFK is now open. You could always get a room there and have a masseur or escort come out to you for some fun. http://www.twahotel.com/sites/default/files/2017-11/home-1920x1080.jpg

Um, it’s definitely in Queens.

The emergence (or re-emergence) of puppy play amongst “dads” and their “pups.” It’s hot, I suppose. To each their own but I can’t commit to wearing dog accessories and a padlock everyday.

You haven’t had casual sex in nearly 3 years? If not too personal a question, do you feel escorting has affected your personal sex life? As I would anticipate you’d like to have casual (free) sex, no? Unless you view sex strictly as a transaction. Again. If too invasive of a question. I respect you not answering.

“Lies”’ per your escort friend turning down free rides. Don’t take this personal, it’s not an attack, but I’m not a fan of clients so quick to elaborate on the escort experience in the “Ask An Escort,” section of the forum. I value many a perspective but what one allegedly heard from a close escort friend is hearsay. And then topics like this turn into glorified hearsay. Thank you for sharing but I’d love to hear more feedback from actual escorts. Let the escort share the escort experience?