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If you do (have mutual friends), remember the info you hold about the arrangement is just as powerful as the info the other party holds. One should never break the confidentiality code between provider/client, but if you need to feel at ease, remember the other party’s anxieties per discretion are equally if not more challenging to navigate than your own.

No, my comments are honest and it’s a tough pill to swallow for those who do not want to accept the business is fabrication and fallacies, but I digress. Lol welp. Happy Delusion Solstice and good luck to you, I guess.

Escorts hate hearing this phrase lol. At minimum you should anticipate paying double his weekend rate. There should be a little wiggle room for negotiation as you’re paying travel expenses, etc but I wouldn’t expect a 50% off deal. You are still paying for his time. Cruise or not, it’s only a holiday for you; he’s still working. You have to consider how much money he could potentially make in a week if he doesn’t join you on the cruise. Don’t negotiate to the point he’s getting the short end of the stick.

It doesn’t apply only to porn stars; I have a rather large archive. I do not mind being recorded during a session so as long as my face is not in the video. I even request to record the session on occasion for new content to put on my ad as I have videos there. It is not sleazy to ask.

Punctuality, Mutual Attentiveness, Mutual Respect Making trustworthy recommendations within your network of providers when you are not available for your client. Aiding your client navigate the intricacies of hiring a provider. When introducing a new element into the arrangement (a 3some or more), choosing the participants together. Checking in with your client when (and if) appropriate. ..to name a few.

A client expecting a provider’s advertising to be legitimate and truthful is naive. An escort may advertise as straight, and from what you gather upon his arrival, he fits the part, but for all you know that man may have never touched a woman in his life. You do not know if the product advertised is the product delivered if the escort is doing an exceptional job of what he has been hired to do: sell you a fantasy. Nor does it matter. You bought into a visual and some keywords. If you believe it is authentic. You are undoubtedly naive.

Yes but straight men don’t have the option to have a vagina from which to technique-pull. Gay men are afforded the opportunity to switch roles. They just choose not to.

@bendable2019 Most escorts that advertise “top” on Rentmen actually bottom in their personal lives. Only a bottom who has been on the receiving end knows specifically what works and what does not. A top who has never had a penis in his ass is likely not an exemplary one. Why? Because he has no idea what it feels like. Have you never heard the saying “the best bottoms make the best tops.” Additionally, advertising as a bottom is stigmatized within the community so many bottoms actually prefer to advertise as top for that reason. “Bottom-shaming” extends to the world of sex-work also.

I respect your opinion, but I don’t agree. Nor is your sentiment the majority of the response I get per my feedback. I think me speaking so transparently about the logistics of the business (which is foreign to a lot of members) only comes across as “evasive” or “deceptive” to those who choose to remain aloof or naive about the realities that steer the client/provider dynamic. The escort narrative is lacking on the forum, so I feel someone may interpret my feedback as you have because you’re likely an advocate for “the client is always right” mentality. Which is untrue. I am not always right either, and I have no issue admitting that openly. But I think it’s important you’re at the very least exposed to a perspective other than the client’s. I don’t really give a shit if you agree or not, but at least you hear me. The mute feature is an excellent resource if you’re for whatever reason, idk, bothered.

This is the majority’s standard. But you must offer services, use the platform and know how the business works from the inside more than I, huh? Projecting, again. I have no issue, I was simply offering a different perspective.

“Know” what? That you’re paying for a fantasy? What’s advertised and what’s real life seldom correlate. You’re spending money on a meticulously crafted facade, fantasy, presentation tailored to you. There’s very little truth in most advertising. If escorts made “truth in advertising” a focus, no one would be hiring; no one would be making any money. Escorting is one big marketing strategy. Bizarre. With all due respect, all of these replies read very naive and I find it fascinating that so many of you base your decision on orientation when a provider’s choice is not based on the truth but rather what he thinks will be most monetary and how well he can execute said role. All of you are paying for “lights, camera, action.” Nothing more, nothing less. I also think it’s fascinating that one would make it a rule to “never” hire someone with Ask Me in their profile, not done by the escort because it’s a secret, by any means, but because putting “top” or “bottom” may limit someone’s visibility in search results and provider’s also like the option to be able to choose what role they’d like to fall into for whom, just like a client is able to make the same decision about a provider. If you are able to decide for whom you top and bottom, why can’t an escort? I think a lot of you believe you put a quarter in the machine and the escort does the same jig for everyone; you are highly mistaken.

...usually. Laugh a little my friend.

Just for clarification, “available now” does not mean quick replies via text. It means we are available anywhere from a window of 1-6 hours (which we are able to choose from a drop down menu). It does not mean we are waiting for your text, or a client or available to come to you “right now.” It means, within that window, we are able to work if not already preoccupied. You’re projecting. I didn’t create a post out of frustration nor get upset about an unanswered text. It’s also rude as hell for clients to not respond after you’ve followed up with them. Additionally, we are able to reach out to clients who have viewed us, and they don’t always reply either. But you don’t hear anyone weeping about it on the forum. It’s the nature of the territory you’re navigating. I would encourage you and the OP to grow thicker skin and not be so emotionally dependent on a text. The rentmen catalog is HUGE. There are so many men readily available and swift with the replies. You could also, idk....pick up the phone and call a potential provider if you were THAT adamant on meeting him.

ANNNND cue another 50 page topic about conflicting beauty standards/preferences that will turn into an argument. Awesome.

Because an escort must assess how monetary the answer on an invidual-to-individual basis.

I can’t wait to read the lies.

Contrary to belief, escorts do have functioning lives outside of answering ones text about getting fucked (or sucked). Mind blowing, I know. It’s not always about you and and your personal need to get off. An unanswered text is no reason to get “butt hurt.” An escort is entitled to decline service or not respond; everyone has different business practices. If the escort responded “no”, “fuck you”, “I’m busy” or “I don’t take clients who are 60 and overweight” ...the client still would’ve been frustrated. You can’t please everyone. If you have time to create a post on a forum based on assumptions, you have time to actively search for another provider. Period.

An unanswered text should warrant none of the above. You’re being dramatic. An unanswered text is an unanswered text. Stop painting an individual who said absolutely nothing to you as a bad person and find another provider. Assumptions, meh.

A good number of escorts take appointments with the mentality that you are paying for a visual, not a service. And that is why someone meticulously crafted with sub par service will run you more than someone who is out of shape.

I’m nauseous.

The only thing central Florida is teeming with is Palmetto Bugs and crystal meth.

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Do whatever you need to do to feel “safe” but truthfully, you’re doing a lot for what ultimately won’t protect you from meeting a “freak” or “flake.” Not even entirely sure what you’re looking for? A background check? A resume? Photos of the provider getting baptized? A full name? None of which would still confirm whether he was a freak or flake, as you say. Guess what? Providers with good track records can be kooky and flaky also. Then what? Use the resources readily available (this forum) and seek commentary from fellow members. Phone number verification isn’t...idk? Productive? I would imagine this would be more of a concern for escorts who blindly meet clients, every single day. We don’t even know whose answering the door.

I’ve worked alongside Remy and he is friendly, professional and that cock is beautiful. I can’t speak to his 1-on-1’s with clients but from what I gathered he was a nice guy.