I’ve had a few massages at strictly legit, high-end spas turn interactive—twice in San Francisco and twice in Vegas. Needless to say, now I keep my hopes up every time I get a massage. I agree—the best approach is to play it cool and let things go according to the masseurs’ plan. They need to decide when and if it is worth the risk, given it is their livelihood we are dealing with. For me, getting a hard-on has been the most obvious way to get things going, but I usually get hard if I detect a vibe from the masseur and it has not always panned out. Sometimes they just ignore it and move on and then I just get into enjoying the massage, despite the massive amounts of precum on the sheets! ?