Sorry to hear, what a bummer. I look for a 80-20 combo between therapeutic and sensual (never erotic). i was almost ready to message him, but you saved me my hard earned bacon.
Big Dale - aren't you tired of being a bully and hypocrite? Stop pretending to be all righteous and good to gain other's sympathy.... you have already been exposed. i only wish that you were more content in life so as not to spew your toxicity on others. Being nice isn't that hard if you try.
I met him in NYC last year. The entire session lasted about 45-50 min, massage was good/decent (B-), friendly guy, open to extras. No regrets seeing him once, but I'm not sure if I would repeat.