Gymowner

i cant believe how grown adult men get caught up constantly thinking (or hoping) that a very attractive male escort will become best of friends or better yet, having the notion that the said hooker will hopelessly fall in love with the old guzzard and live happily ever after. its unbelievable to me. this is a business transaction. not a bad thing at all. keep it that way and no one gets emotionally hurt. case in point. there is a newer dancer at one of the clubs where i live. big muscle guy. handsome but after chatting with him a few times can tell he is somewhat of a wild guy. not bad just young with that sort of energy that when not focused can be dangerous. i chat with him and give him a few bucks now and then yet he seems to always say or do something that is off putting to me. so i go a few weeks ignoring him and it drives him nuts. well last night he comes up to me and asks how i am. i told him i have been having some health issues lately. he looks at me and says "lets talk about it when i get done with my next set in 30 minutes". ok i thought. the nice side comes out. so i eventually go over to give him a few bucks while on the box dancing as a nice gesture to his kind words. first thing out of his mouth when he bends over is "yeah..i knew you couldnt stay away from all this hotness for long". he wasnt saying it with any kind of brevity. more like a "i got you you fag...no one can stay away from this hot straight guy" type of talk. fine in the bedroom but not at all appropriate where it was being said. i was putting my second dollar in his g string when he said this. right at that moment i not only stopped putting the second dollar in there, i took the first one out. i looked up at him and said " the smile is nice, work on the muscles getting harder and the big mouth has to go for sure". guys...you have to always remember... these guys have what you WANT but more importantly we have what they NEED. keep this in mind and you will have very little problems.

aw's site has him constantly having sex with guys on camera with a look like it is being secretly taped to look natural and not staged. if this flight attendant knew anything about aw he would know this. to me, and this is just a hunch aw told him that the videos would be part of his collection that he makes money from. many of these porn guys have this in their grindr and scruff ads willing to have sex with guys and use the vids for their personal gains. done all the time nowadays. the kid was more than willing to do his part. it is very easy to recant your story once you get caught. again...just a hunch.

Hired him about a year ago in vegas. Very nice guy. Was at the time out of shape. Had a gut on him.Still had an ok time with him being that he was so cool.

my point on this matter is that a true straight man by inclination is attracted to women. big deal right? yet if he can perform to your standards then it doesnt matter what you look like at all. he can take his mind to where it needs to go for you to have a good time with his body. i know that some will say "but i want him to want ME". yeah right. grow up. have you seen how most guys look that hire? a gay guy, he will have to be able to do the same. many can. most im afraid by nature will sum up the looks of the guy in front of them and that will create the level of performance for them. a natural instinct.

married? deal breaker for me. there is an extremely handsome escort that i hired recently and found out that he is married as well. done.

there hasnt been an adonis event in las vegas for about 4-5 years

Your "label" then would be inclusive of who you date/marry/fall in love with. You may also be a bisexed heterosexual if you feel your lifestyle is in tune with the heterosexual world.

Hot white I totally understand. I didnt want this to go down a road that was not the intention.

poolboy is on the right track. guys please do not look too much into things and make false conjectures that others will claim as truths. it could hurt an escorts lively hood and thats quite honestly not right

guess it doesnt matter if top if 4" or 10". when the head only goes in 1" its a 1" pecker!

Oh here we go with the liberal PC bullshit now. Your statement "of course to the rational mind" is as berating and arrogant as can be. Hip hip... "if one doesn't think like my college snop mind then one is irrational and also stupid" How on earth does anyone make the assumption that AW did not get verbal consent? The kid when in trouble may try to backtrack out of the situation.Do we not know that in the heat of passion the kid could have thought getting banged and shown on the internet by a stud could make him a hero of his friends? No we do not. Just as well we do not know what was totally said in that bathroom and on the flight leading up to the romp. Get real guys. The kid is at fault. AW is a total jerk. Get over it all.

I've had a regular very similar to this as well in the past. If I had to label the situation I would call your guy a bisexed heterosexual and you a bisexed homosexual. But what in a name? Lol

Oh God the drama with hot gay porn stars. What's next for this clown? A stint in fashionable rehab? I mean cmon...one in the "pretty" gay world does have to fit in doesn't one?

I met up with him for lunch recently. Nice nice guy. Havent hired as of yet. He was very willing yet I have to say if you seem to be able to bring more to the table than an hourly fee, your chances go up proportionately.

To each there own! Makes the world go round!

Marylander... do you really think he is thinking about YOU when doing the do? At least if he is thinking about a woman it doesn't matter if you are the hottest 24 year old guy getting banged. He is still thinking about a woman and not passing judgement on how he is going to get thru the session. Just recently someone said they had a session with a hot well known gay porn star. The session was ok but the customer "really wasn't the escorts type". Give me straight boys any day!

Now that's another story. If AW posted and makes money, the kid can more than likely press charges. Who would want the embarassment of going to court and being grilled by prosecutors? And what does the porn star have? Probably flat broke. More than likely a deletion of the video with an "I'm sorry" will sufice.

look at the tattoo on his chest. "dig deep and conquer"! the muscle bull sure took those words to heart and did so!!! lol

this kid is totally at fault for his actions and nothing whatsoever of a victim. im sure there are cameras all over an airplane. forget that AW had a phone recording this. what if they snuck in and another flight attendant saw this and reported it? and had the camera recording in the airplane as proof? this kid is immature at best and negligent at worse. there has to be training about conduct on an airplane on duty and off. he screwed up and will get fired. hopefully, he will learn from this and most likely need to get employed in another field. i cant imagine the unions would allow him to work in that field again. if i take a recording of you robbing a bank and put it online and it causes you repercussions...so be it. you are at fault...period. my god this world and "the victim card" has got to stop!

Manmed... I dont know what it is with most of these guys but those actions are becoming more and more prevalent nowadays. I emailed a guy in L.A. last night I was interested in. He responded back right away. I told him what I was interested in and what was his fee. Again..he responded back right away. I then asked in a third email if he was available this Wednesday. Crickets. And no response back today either. So many seem to be knee jerk reaction sort of horned up muscle monkies and not guys looking at the impact of a career. Workers in their trade not businessman working on their trade. But then again the same said muscle monkies in any form of work would have the same mentality working at a job and not working in a career.

Yeah that a line made famous by Clark Gable.

When people wrote glowing things about kc I said "yup... that's kc (really keese) alright". When people wrote bad things about kc I said "yup that's kc alright". When I met him it was just a fluke in chicago. He lived with a lawyer in his basement near midway airport. He then moved with his girlfriend to an apartment on Melrose in Lakeview. I'll never forget the time I mentioned "boy I'd like to go see the musical evita". Kc picked up the phone "so and so... is that your production playing in chicago? It is? I need 2 tickets front row for thursday. Good. Thanks". And off we went. When kc was good, my God he treated you like royalty. When drugs and anger fueled him. Oh boy you better get out of the way.

Many many times. The first guy I ever dated was back in 1997. Come to find out after the fact it was chicago kc. What a hot tumultuous guy he was. He passed away a few years ago. I dont think he ever thought he would live as long as he did. Rest his soul

and everyone acts on them...thats a fact. blacks act on them, asians act on them and so forth. i have a good friend half black and half russian. he told me the story that his grandmother on his fathers black side of the family when he announced he was dating a white woman, would not allow her into the house. when she became pregnant with my friend the grandmother would not allow her black son into the house. he had to stay at the screen door to visit his father. no racism? oh...its totally ok when its against white people. get over your bigoted attitude. you mentioned the guys in the steam room getting up to leave. they have every right to leave if they want to. you dont know why they left. now... to bar someone from going into the steam room...thats another story and thats why there are laws to protect people. there are no laws that anyone has to participate with anyone they do not want to participate with. when segregation hit the books that was a good thing. but it didnt mean that anyone had to become friends with anyone they didnt want to be friends with. my best friend growing up was black. he and his sister were the only two blacks in my middle school. she was valedictorian and he was the most popular person in school. guess when he had problems? when we went to high school and there were many blacks in the school. THEY had a problem with him being as the said "so white acting". hmmmmm mother was a school superintendent and father a businessman. maybe they should have renounced their educations and status in society? they were being racist to those in their own race according to the high school blacks. so should the other blacks have felt bad about their positions in society due to my friends parents success? it made them feel a certain way according to your philosophy. my point is their is prejudice in every walk of life. big deal. grow up and get a little thick skin.

latbear is correct. EVERYONE has bias and prejudice in our blood. on an individual basis it cannot be denied. what many focus on now is the prejudice that the white male has in society. that in itself is prejudice. seems perfectly ok for those to have bias. get over it boys. you are just as prejudice in your lives as any other. you just feel a moral high ground to justify it. get over yourselves. i cant get enough of smooth hot blond haired blue eyed straight males. hmmm. so i must be in disgust with dark skinned, effeminate homosexuals eh? no. its just not my preference.