Sexymonk I couldn't have said it any better!
Helping another "person" in life is one of gods gifts he gave to us. But it has to be genuine and real. Not a self meditated "brokered" relationship. In other words, if the person left you tomorrow, would you still be proud and satisfied that you helped that person better himself in some way? Or will you be distraught that your deeds werent reciprocated?
Be careful guys.