My providers often speak of bad experiences they’ve had with clients. I’m a curious man, so I enjoy hearing their stories, sometimes in detail. I rarely remember much afterwards. I rarely ask them directly, they usually bring it up unbidden. They’re also rarely in a hurry to leave, so it’s usually me who suggests that it’s getting late. I imagine they tell friends and other providers about me since I sometimes get “heys” from their associates, often leading to a fun session.