Because I wanted to get a good night’s sleep. Even with overnights, I ask the provider to sleep in the guest room so that we can both get a good night’s sleep. I’m not the type of client who demands sex all night.
A few years ago I was in bed with a young provider who was hitting the poppers a bit too much. He got dizzy and almost passed out. I got him some water and put some electrolyte powder in it, which did the trick. He had a 45-minute drive, so we agreed that he should spend the night in the guest room. I was afraid that I’d have to take him to the ER.
When I host, I always hide my wallet and other valuables (car keys, watch) before the provider arrives. Of course, I don’t do this with regulars. Over 20 years, I’ve never had anything stolen.