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Yummy.

As a long-term hobbyist, I’ve never been asked for a deposit. Never.

I’d pay $350.

I’ve heard similar stories of amazing Grindr hires. I just dread downloading that app, or any similar ones. I’m trying to be more “analog” in my life these days!

Also, Forever 28. Wasn’t that a mall store? He’s been advertising in SoCal since 2008 at least.

Unless he’s a UT fan or looking to enroll, why would he be in Knoxville? Dollywood, Gatlinburg? Highly suspicious.

Agreed. They like cash or CashApp.

I’d say less than 5% of providers have ever asked for a deposit. In two cases, I sent $50 and both flaked. One always pings me when he’s in my area and offers a discount, but you know the old adage! Once I paid airfare for a little blondie with whom I had a hot time in the past, also with a prepaid flight. He never showed, so I just shrugged and decided never to do that again. Small risks in retrospect compared to all of the delightful experiences over the years!

Aren’t debit cards much more susceptible to hacking? There’s no recourse if there’s a dispute, unlike credit cards. I only use mine for ATM purposes.

New Hope and gentrified Lambertville NJ across the old iron bridge over the Delaware still have sizable gay populations and are very gay-friendly; however, only The Cub Room in New Hope remains. Like Laguna Beach, the area’s real estate values have skyrocketed and many residents have been priced out. When I was in college, it was booming with at least 2 gay clubs and maybe two more bars. Although not exclusively gay, the historic Swan Hotel in Lambertville was a fabulous old bar, with two great seating areas. The co-owner was gay and an art teacher at a nearby prep school. He invited a best friend and me to his very cool house one night after closing and regaled us with stories about the Chez Odette and Rive Gauche days on the River. Great memories. The clubs and Sunday tea parties drew big crowds from New York and Philly, not to mention nearby Bucks County, where I lived growing up. I have great memories of those days— going over to Lambertville for dinner and drinks since the NJ legal drinking age then was 18 and then winding up at The Raven before heading home. The New Hope Diner a few hundred yards away was 100% gay from 2 am to dawn.

Yes, New Hope isn’t that gay anymore. I used to go there in my early ‘20s. There’s a fairly new place called The Cub Room, which I’ll have to check out the next time I’m in the area. The Cub Room WWW.THECUBROOM.COM

Better than serving on the Donetsk front, I reckon!

When I’m in bucolic place like the Maine coast, I’m generally more interested in enjoying the scenery and sailing or hiking than hiring from afar, but that’s just the way I roll.

Perhaps you didn’t, but your moniker oddly appeared in my quote.🤔

Are you referring to the spring 2021 double doses and the late 2021 pre-bivalent booster?

PA Germans (aka Dutch) also included Lutherans, German Reformed and the former Evangelical United Brethren, now part of the United Methodist Church, in addition to the Mennonites, Brethren and Amish. One might also include some of the smaller denominations like the Moravians and the Schwenkfelders. I’m half Pennsylvania German and grew up among them.

I’d start be applying baby oil to those bulging muscles. He’d be a whole night project.

Cash only, but Zelle for two very long-term providers. Never an issue. I always found CashApp a bit worrisome for some reason, so I’ve never used it.

OMG. That ass!

Yep, I host at my places. Never had an issue. I do the necessary vetting and also have a “back-up” option if things got threatening, but they’ve never even remotely reached that point. I also exude a strong “man of the house” vibe, if you know what I mean.

That’s well put. And I’m going to start using “honorarium” myself!

I believe this topic has arisen often over the years. I’m currently close friends with a young man who has left the business. He told me that after spending time with me, too high a bar had been set and he couldn’t get excited about other clients. His exact words. We’ve set healthy boundaries. For example, no moving in together. Over the years, there have been others. One well-known provider from years ago invited me to his 21st birthday in Key West after only six months of sessions. We had a great time with him, his older brother and a few friends, all off the clock. I have fond memories of all of these unexpected friendships, but understand that they can be fleeting because of the age differences. They need to be savored while they’re going on.

Planning to see him in early November in Atlanta.

I wonder if he’d leave his harness on during the massage?

Given “events” elsewhere, expect a further spike in gas prices.