I’d agree with @ffdave re his experience. Met him in Seattle. Very talented orally, though, but he doesn’t kiss. Complimented me on my girth. His harnesses are really well-crafted, though. I may buy one.
Not so much an expression, but my father made us call farts “wind drops”. And, if one of us broke wind, my mother would tell us how impolite that was, but my father would chuckle “better out than in”!
I usually start out on my knees with them sitting on the edge of the bed and massage their legs with a light oil, like jojoba. I love when their toes play with my balls and hard-on while doing it.
It is, but several young providers I know wear make-up and lip gloss regularly and wouldn’t mind that at all. One twink I know is even mildly disappointed that I ask him not to wear either since there are other attributes of his that I find most erotic.