Jump to content

xax

Members
  • Posts

    69
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Reputation Activity

  1. Love
    xax reacted to Moke in 411 MassageByHunter San Francisco   
    @xax good news. Hunter and I reconnected. He was away traveling. Still a totally sweetie pie. Still totally hot. 
  2. Thanks
    xax reacted to + aeikaryoko in Sydney Australia recs   
    Ryan: Massage was strictly therapeutic, but it was worth it. Ryan was very chill and his massage was a very good deep tissue. 
    Jeff: Massage was pretty good, but amazing extras from a handsome fella. Price was $200 AUD for a 90min session. Well worth it for me. One of my best experiences in 2022. 
  3. Agree
    xax got a reaction from Dr.Daddy in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    Does anyone know who this model is? Or if there’s a link to a version with audio? I actually can’t decide if this is hot because there’s no audio LOL
  4. Applause
    xax reacted to Simon Suraci in Anyone noticing a drop in massage rates?   
    Thanks for the contribution @BeefyDude. Traveling guys are all a little bit different. I agree the pricing should be as transparent as possible, but if they are at least quoting you upfront when you inquire, that should be ok.
    Traveling has many costs. Fuel, transportation and accommodations are the big ones, but also the time it takes to travel between cities. For example I had a four city tour last month and was driving all day between each city, and two days for the first stretch. That’s at least 6 days for that tour and those are whole days I am spending considerable $ but not making anything.
    In addition to travel costs you’re still paying for all your normal expenses at home like rent/mortgage, utilities, maintenance, etc. We have to charge what makes sense to cover ALL of that AND make a profit above and beyond what we normally make in order for it to make sense to travel. Otherwise, we’re busting our butts and going way out of our way for the same or less as we would get working out of our home cities. Has to make economic sense!
    For my last trip, I tallied my total income minus expenses and it was higher than my average monthly income but not by a huge margin. It basically bought me a week off which I sorely needed after working so hard hustling for 3-4 weeks…and I used that week to move out of state to California, which was not exactly a vacation lol. Frankly I’m not surprised other guys might charge a bit more when they travel. Opportunity is high, but so are the costs.
    Ads are a lot to manage when you’re going on a trip. I have at least five different ads plus my personal website. I’m not going to update rates on all of them and then change them right back 1, 2, or 4 weeks later. Meanwhile confusing my home city clients who view my ads at all times whether I am away or at home. I update my travel plans on ads that offer that feature, but not the other stuff.
    I don’t change my rates when I travel. The main benefit is that I’m booked back to back every hour of every day when I am in another city. I charge the same but do more volume than I do on an average day in my home city. It’s quite exhausting working 13+ hour days one after the other after the other, but it can be great for a short stretch. Some guys change what they charge to cover travel expenses and/or adjust for a different market, whether that be higher or lower pricing.
    I can’t replicate my incall experience when I travel but I get as close to it as possible. I’m in the minority in that regard. I refuse to book hotel rooms because they are so impersonal and almost always lack the space I need to set up a table and move around it freely. I refuse to give crappy bed massages. I need a table to provide a proper massage. And I’m not paying for a suite $$$.
    So…I rent AirBnBs and set up in a manner as close as possible to my home setup. I bring a towel warmer, stone heater, extra large table, all my own linens, aromatherapy, products, speakers, waters, cleaning and laundry stuff, and everything you could think of. And I have access to a washer and dryer. I can’t understand how the hotel guys do it. If you’re giving multiple massages per day, that means you’re re-using dirty linens! 
    If you ask me, you’re getting a killer deal considering my prices are the same and yet I’m doing a lot more and spending a lot more to make an excellent massage experience available to a client in another city.
    If a masseur quotes you something a little bit more when he’s traveling, have some grace. If it’s too much, decline and move on. It shouldn’t be outrageous. A nominal upcharge is not that crazy, especially if the masseur’s regular rates are reasonable to begin with AND he delivers a high quality experience. If he’s charging 200+ for “massage only” I have no pity. If he’s charging 120-160 or possibly less (per hour), I find that pretty reasonable. 
    My pair of pennies.
  5. Thanks
    xax reacted to njr47 in Info on MormonMan in SF   
    I saw him Monday night.  I enjoyed his massage (and company) sowell that I plan to see him again in 3 or 4 days. Fine massage skills.  Even better erotic massage skills. He is handsome and fun too
  6. Agree
    xax reacted to Michael PhD in Info on MormonMan in SF   
    Let us know how it goes! He’s totally my type!
  7. Like
    xax reacted to njr47 in Info on MormonMan in SF   
    Haven't seen him yet, but have set up a meeting for Monday.  Communication has been easy and straightforward.  At least from the messages, he seems to be a nice guy.
  8. Thanks
    xax reacted to Simon Suraci in Info on Simon Seraci in Dallas   
    Anyone feel free to PM me directly with questions or comments, or reach me on any of my several ad platforms or website. Or private message other members who have seen me to get their insights. My contributions here will necessarily be biased.
    I’m posting this message for everyone to know where to reach me and then staying out of this thread. I’d rather  clients comment on me candidly here. I’ll do my best to not take things personally or try to influence conversations about me here. It’s important to share info freely and not feel like you’re being monitored. Even though it’s kind of difficult for me to ignore…I will try to.
    My contributions in the forums are often long winded, yes, but also quite thoughtful. At least that’s what other members I respect say about me.
    I’m moving to San Diego, CA in August 2023. You may find me traveling to other cities here and there in the future, but my home base will be San Diego for the foreseeable future. The past two years I’ve spent in Dallas, TX. Many clients in the DFW area can speak to the quality of my work, or those who have traveled to Dallas and seen me there.
    My specialty is deep tissue massage. Clients enjoy the balance I offer between quality therapy and sensual / erotic elements.
    Have fun, keep calm, and get a massage!
  9. Thanks
    xax reacted to BuddyWorker in NYC/NJ Masseurs - Post-Pandemic Experiences   
    Here's my NYC/NJ masseur collection post. It's been a while since my last posting. I added which quarter of 2023 I saw them to provide some "freshness" or "good by this date"  Again as I have mentioned before these are MY massage experiences and may likely be different for you when you get to see them. My photo in my avatar is me since I get asked that question a lot in my DMs and if you look at my profile, you'll see MORE of me. But looks and body type are just one of the many variables that come into play when one sees a massage therapist. So not all sessions, even with the same therapist and client, are alike. I also don't ask anything prior to any session, no expectations except for a massage, then the magic happens...   MT=mutual touch; HE=happy ending; YMMV=your mileage may vary (one cannot guarantee that the extras I received will also happen to you). Feel free to DM me if you need any more info. I have other postings from my many visits to Chicago, Fort Lauderdale and LA. Just need the time to write them.
    Nik (Q1 2023)
    https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/17974/
    https://rentmasseur.com/coltmassage
    Nik is a wonderful, sweet guy. I first saw him at that massage place on 14th street. Then afterwards at his place in the UWS. He looks like his photos. He has a table set up in his studio apartment and there is a shower available with a clean bathroom. Nik is quite slim, lanky and tall and his technique is very good with evidence of training. He uses long gliding strokes during the session with occasional stretching. He massages in his underwear during the session. He adds sensual elements throughout. And you know what they say about thin tall men - they have BIG…FEET! I will be back. MT/HE and of course YMMV
    Ron (Q1 2023)
    https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/43658/
    https://rentmasseur.com/RonMasseur
    Ron, originally from Costa Rica, is very nice. He has his table set up in his small bedroom which was ok but leaves him not much. room to maneuver. He’s quite good with his massage strokes and really places a lot of pressure despite his thin frame. Not so sure that he has formal training but it did feel quite good. He uses a combo of lotion/oil. I would definitely repeat. MT/HE and of course YMMV
    Anton (Q1 2023)
    https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28165/
    Anton is such a quiet guy. Hairy, cute slim guy who lives in a clean apartment in Brooklyn. He definitely looks like his photos. He works on a table in a separate room that also doubles as a bedroom. He is very hairy and I found it very stimulating as he massaged my body. He was naked throughout using Swedish strokes. It was a good massage and he adds sensual elements throughout. Not sure I’ll be coming back soon. MT/HE
    Ken (Q/Q2 2023)
    https://rentmasseur.com/Ken_NYC
    Ken has been talked about in several posts. Don’t be discouraged that there are no face photos. I have seen him several times including early in the post pandemic period and just recently as last month. He has certainly shed his excess weight and rocking those abs again and his body is definitely firmer. He has a tiny sliver of an apartment in Hell’s Kitchen. You’re literally in the kitchen but don’t let that disturb you. He has to work closer to the table and those errant hands have to land somewhere He is also such a sweetie and I have definitely been a repeat offender (sorry customer). MT/HE and of course YMMV
    Dmitry (Q2 2023)
    https://rentmasseur.com/dmitrynyc
    Dmitry is a nice guy who works on the UES close to 96th street subway station. He (again!) has a relatively slim and lanky frame. It’s clean and he has a designated area for the massage. He is very sweet but his massage techniques leaves something to be desired. I felt I was “lightly touched” the entire time. He has several price points for what you may want from the massage. Since I am primarily looking for a massage, I may not come back. He also gives you a small parting gift at the end which was sweet. MT/HE
    Carlos (Q2 2023)
    https://rentmasseur.com/CarlosUES
    I know he has been discussed in here. And I do agree that he looks better in person. He lives in an apartment in UES with a table. Clean and tidy. He has very good massage skills (which other posters have mentioned he has worked or continue to work in a spa before). He uses long gliding strokes but also incorporates kneading techniques. I appreciate the fact that he knows his way around a person’s body highlighting his training. He also incorporates sensual elements into his session. I will definitely be back. That massive mirror next to the massage table came into good use! MT/HE and of course YMMV
    Jhonny (Q2 2023)
    https://rentmasseur.com/Jhonny
    I believe I talked about this guy before. I find him really really cute. His smile melts me! I saw him once before and he has shed his COVOD weight. He is much trimmer and defined. He greeted my in his skivvies in an AirBNB in midtown. He has a table set-up and as always, starts with a hug and kisses to your back and ass cheeks which to me is very ’tiltillating” LOL He has nice massage technique, no training but at least he knows his muscles. He has a very smooth body and uses it on you once while on your back and again while facing up. I found that very sexual especially his tiny kisses along the way. Overall it was a sensual experience and definitely will come again! MT/HE and of course YMMV
    Rosario (Q2 2023)
    https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/43288/
    I find Rosario to be a handsome guy. He looks like his photos on the site. His place is all the way uptown - way uptown! It’s unfortunate since his place is nice, airy and also clean. He has a massage table placed close to the window and was comfortable. He massages with his clothes on and magically disappears at some point when you turn around He uses Swedish strokes and you can tell he does have training. I will definitely be back. MT/HE and of course YMMV
    Nick (Q2 2023)
    https://rentmasseur.com/Nick_Massage
    I saw him in NJ when I was around the area. He lives in a. House and ha s a large bedroom for his massage. He is very professional and lets you know what is going to happen next. I respect that. He uses Swedish strokes coupled with some targeted deep tissue. He also uses his entire body on to you. He was wearing shorts which again magically disappeared afterwards. He has a tight defined body which was evident from his pictures on his ad. The session was passionate and he really likes what he’s doing as per his ad. I would surely be a repeat. Just need to get my ass to NJ. MT/HE and of course YMMV
    Marko (Q2 2023)
    https://rentmasseur.com/MarkoMassuer
    https://rentmen.eu/Markoship
    This guy is SEXY! With a hard rocking’ body and a killer smile. He’s new and he has quite limited English proficiency. He’s Colombian but said he lived in Argentina for 10 years. What he lacks verbally, he surely make sup physically :D. He uses baby oil (not my preference) really, and massages on a bed (claims to have a broken table). Massage on the bed was OK and was also a bit awkward because his bed is also quite small. He was wearing underwear during the session. It was quite a session. We were both exhausted afterwards I know he escorts but I only paid for the massage and I think I got a bonus! Definitely would repeat! MT/HE and of course YMMV
     
  10. Thanks
    xax reacted to EastbayMike in 411 on BalancedBodywork in SF   
    He's been around for at least 20 years advertising on various sites and I think print ads in the BAR.  Nice looking guy. Never hired. 
  11. Thanks
    xax reacted to Marc in Calif in 411 on BalancedBodywork in SF   
    He offers Erotic massage. And his private pics are mostly of his genitalia and his butt. You can now draw an appropriate conclusion.
  12. Like
    xax got a reaction from sbguy in 411 re: Brian Mike or Paul in SF   
    Mike has excellent technique and you can tell he’s had proper training.
  13. Agree
    xax got a reaction from ontheroad in 411 re: Brian Mike or Paul in SF   
    Mike has excellent technique and you can tell he’s had proper training.
  14. Applause
    xax got a reaction from kyleham in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    https://www.myvidster.com/vsearch/263856687/Massage_Demo_turns_Into_A_Hot_Sweaty_Daddy_3way__at_Tubeloadco
    ^that escalated quickly but my god these men are hot 😳 anyone know their names or if this is a part of a longer video?
     
    https://mymusclevideo.com/67306/harley-everett-and-ben-statham/
    also this one, wish the massage lasted a little longer but 😱😱
  15. Like
    xax got a reaction from kyleham in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    This was really hot, even though it didn’t go all the way to anal, sometimes it doesn’t need to go all the way there to be good!
    https://www.myvidster.com/vsearch/275272533/XVideosRed_-_Secret_Massage_amp_Diego_Mineiro_-_GayGuyTop
  16. Like
    xax got a reaction from NilsEast in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    This was really hot, even though it didn’t go all the way to anal, sometimes it doesn’t need to go all the way there to be good!
    https://www.myvidster.com/vsearch/275272533/XVideosRed_-_Secret_Massage_amp_Diego_Mineiro_-_GayGuyTop
  17. Like
    xax got a reaction from Kody S in 2021 and the industry has changed: SF recommendations?   
    I know this probably isn’t what you meant in this particular case since it seems like the inconsistency for SFGoodBoy goes to areas beyond the massage skills and extras, but you spurred some thinking on my end:
    I think consistency is important when it comes to massage skills and overall demeanor towards clients, but is it a little unreasonable to expect consistency when it comes to “extras”? If I’m seeing a massage provider, the primary goal is to get a massage, and anything beyond that is extra, even if I’m paying for a sensual/erotic massage, because I think that choreographing everything that you expect to happen kind of ruins the experience. If it proceeds to the point of full on penetrative sex, I mean, everyone has a preference/position right, and we can’t expect a provider who prefers bottoming to top a client or a provider who doesn’t like to receive oral sex to want to let their client do that with them.
     
    So when someone says “the extras were good”, it’s really subjective to what that person brought to the table and whether it was a match with the provider’s preferences. That’s why I appreciate when I reach out for more specifics on someone’s experience with a provider, so I have a better idea of what to expect (or what not to expect!) before deciding if I want to take a chance or not.
  18. Agree
    xax got a reaction from btsk in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    This was really hot, even though it didn’t go all the way to anal, sometimes it doesn’t need to go all the way there to be good!
    https://www.myvidster.com/vsearch/275272533/XVideosRed_-_Secret_Massage_amp_Diego_Mineiro_-_GayGuyTop
  19. Like
    xax got a reaction from MmM in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    They’re actually a married couple, and that’s their shared account.
  20. Applause
    xax reacted to LA90046 in I offended a provider on a hookup site   
    No offense, but I cannot imagine any context where the question "I had the impression that you are a sex worker" would be well-received.
  21. Like
    xax got a reaction from maninsoma in I offended a provider on a hookup site   
    Question: is this hookup site like a Grindr type thing where he’s just looking to meet up to play (without money involved) or specifically for matching providers to clients?
    if the answer is the former, then I don’t think this was the right forum for you to be asking about his rentmen profile, and I could see why he was turned off by it and suspicious of your line of questioning.
  22. Like
    xax got a reaction from acks01 in I offended a provider on a hookup site   
    Question: is this hookup site like a Grindr type thing where he’s just looking to meet up to play (without money involved) or specifically for matching providers to clients?
    if the answer is the former, then I don’t think this was the right forum for you to be asking about his rentmen profile, and I could see why he was turned off by it and suspicious of your line of questioning.
  23. Like
    xax got a reaction from + BenjaminNicholas in I offended a provider on a hookup site   
    Question: is this hookup site like a Grindr type thing where he’s just looking to meet up to play (without money involved) or specifically for matching providers to clients?
    if the answer is the former, then I don’t think this was the right forum for you to be asking about his rentmen profile, and I could see why he was turned off by it and suspicious of your line of questioning.
  24. Like
    xax got a reaction from former lurker in I offended a provider on a hookup site   
    Question: is this hookup site like a Grindr type thing where he’s just looking to meet up to play (without money involved) or specifically for matching providers to clients?
    if the answer is the former, then I don’t think this was the right forum for you to be asking about his rentmen profile, and I could see why he was turned off by it and suspicious of your line of questioning.
  25. Surprised
    xax reacted to xanadulvr in Hottest Massage Video Ever?   
    This is a long one but so worth it!  I have been unable to locate part 2
    https://thegay.com/videos/1038461/tantra-masseus-gives-cory-jared-xxx-massages-part-1/
×
×
  • Create New...