Ajac

OK I haven't seen this douchebag listed anywhere in quite a while. Just want to warn all the newbies to avoid him like the plague. http://www.malemasseurs.com/profile.cfm?CID=100307#_self Horrible person... scammer...Beware!

Funny thing when I saw him I thought he looked like a guy I saw on bluecam.com (aka chaturbate). I thought that looked just like him just aged 15 to 20 years. I wonder if it is him. Though as adventurous as the bluecam guy seems I doubt his massage would not include happy ending.

Yes bigvalboy is on the mark. He is one of my reasons for avoiding "straight" masseurs. If it is a location thing maybe try https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/jakesuave2.shtml Similar in look in the same area. I only went to him once but remember him as polite with a decent massage in a nice space. It has been quite a while so maybe someone can chime in with a more recent experience

Mark is a sweetheart of a guy that I don't see often enough.

No just a handful of weird ones over a long period. Way more great experiences but that is a whole other thread.

OK one more post... These are not really worst experiences but a few oddities. Photos of wife and children prominently displayed...Gee look who your Daddy is doing to this stranger. Several taxidermy pets around the room....Very Norman bates. Watching a reality show for the entirety of the massage. Fashion show of every sparkly or leather outfit in his closet that he found sexy... I found them all ridiculous. Going to a regular masseur who suddenly changed to a pitch dark room not even a candle. Maybe it was to experience the sensation of what a massage was like for Hellen Keller.

Newports guy sounds like a guy that was discussed here before. Advertised as A college bodybuilder. Way older than college. Located in the valley, pulled the same routine on so many guys. As far as Josh Big Texan goes he was the Jeckle and Hyde of masseurs. Started out as a favorite ended up upsetting quite a few clients.

Bummer, I had meant to try him when he was near me in the Valley and now he has moved to Culver City. He had great reviews I believe. You can probably find posts on this board about him.

Ok this one goes back awhile. Back to the years of finding masseurs in the ad section of Frontiers Magazine. Before the advice of forum members. There was a guy whose body was amazing kind of like the guy from Tarzan movie with Bo Derek ... Miles Okeef I think. ( 20 somethings start googling). Any way I arrived at a dingy little apartment. He seemed pretty out of it. He in told me to go ahead and lie face down on the bed which was unmade and sheets were obviously not fresh. ( OK let me say it is amazing what you will let slide when some one is extremely good looking. ) He then lay on top of me and kind of kneaded my shoulder with one hand occasionally mumbling incoherently. On a side note his hair was shoulder length but more little lord Fontleroy then Sexy romance novel and obviously had not been washed in a very long time. I digress,the strange Kneading continues until it becomes obvious he has dozed off. Yes full dead weight on top of me asleep. So he come to as I writhe about a bit. continuing to mumble and pinch. At this point I initiate the turn over and just want it all to end. So I am a bit fuzzy on this but there was some sort of HE, more Hurried than Happy. The kicker, as I am getting dressed he decides it is time for him to prep dinner. This is a one room with kitchenette so I get to watch as he waves a huge knife around and tries to make small talk. Now had it been a paring knife to cut his potato no biggie but this was a fight crocodiles in a swamp knife so I was wondering if was ever going to be seen again. I go into compliment mode, going on and on of what a great time it was as I dressed and edged toward the door. I made my escape to home and a very long shower.

Yes that is why I stressed how I enjoyed all my past experiences with Pan. I think had he just said you are fat I could have dealt with it better than the heart attack thing. I am sure it is cultural. That being said I honestly wish him the best in the future and recommend him to anyone where weight is not an issue. That is why this forum is a valuable tool to find the right fit for everyone.

Yes for years I had seen him with no incident always polite and enjoyable which made his comment that much more disconcerting. I was actually kind of glad reading on the forum that it wasn't just me.

Very Out of the blue. I had seen him many times before and always looked forward to seeing him whenever he was in LA. I never had any indication prior to that that he had weight issues. Now I admit I was carrying more weight at the time than I should have but I am not Jabba the Hut need to buy two seats on an airplane big. His body is amazing his massage is very good but I think even if I were to reach my goal weight I doubt I would see him again. I want to get a massage to feel relaxed not bad about my self or stressed about my health. I did send him an email calling him out on the comment. If he does have an issue with HWP it should be noted in his ad not in the last 10 minutes of the massage. (On a good note it did get me to my yearly physical)

Yes I use to see him whenever he came down to LA. Until he made comments to me about me having a heart attack. Which I guess was his not to subtle way of saying I was overweight. That being said if you are not carrying an extra 30-50 lbs he is great.

Client arriving too early is not good but booking two clients that close in time is not good either. Unless the client was 3 hours early.

Also you find the perfect fit then they retire or move to another state.

being not bing... correction for the typo police. LOL

Thanks EV Dude, Yes that is it exactly, some young guys actually prefer the Daddy type. I was just saying I have issues in that area. In the straight world you might hear "She's young enough to be his daughter" so those thoughts do get ingrained. So no need to take exception. But my apologies for not bing more PC in this very sensitive world. Life is short just enjoy what ever experience makes you happy as long as all involved are on board.

Yes this has always been an issue for me. Almost mid 50s' (wow where did that time go) I always feel like uncle pervy if I am getting a massage from someone in their 20s. Though I do on rare occasion. I have had really good massages from every age group over the years. Though some of the worst have been older guys 30's to 50's. Age doesn't always bring expertise and some just have natural skills at an early age. I think if you are hiring someone in their 20's read the text in the ad carefully. That and the pictures are good clues. If it is all about them and little about the client experience you shouldn't be surprised by a bad massage. A photo of the massage space is a great clue to the type of experience you might encounter, a 20 something that has taken the time and effort to create an environment conducive to a relaxing massage is usually one that cares about his clientele. In all honesty when we were in our 20's we probably would have preferred to massage athletes and models over paunchy old guys but that is the trick, finding a person who generally cares about the client no matter what age or how he looks.

Does anyone remember Hank Eddelman? HE Photography? He was a southern California based massage therapist/photographer he did some really beautiful nudes , but a search now finds very little on his works.

Gotta love a guy that flambes shirtless.

Wow the site just expired last month. .

Yes I remember his site well. One of the few times I honestly thought of traveling to another state just to get a massage.

Yes I had a thing for Randsome after I had seen one of his wrestle/sex vids. But after I had heard rumors of his attitude he became ugly to me. Just like Malachai Marx. I have a nice guy fetish so those two got axed off my list. On the original topic I had hired Trey Rexx for a massage but wish I had hired for more. I also had a 4 handed massage where Mark Slade was one of the pair of hands. What a truly sweet guy. Though it was a very interactive experience it would have been amazing to have gotten to know him better.

Yes Maximus is a super nice guy. Was bummed last time he was in LA I could not see him.

Hey Dutch Maybe save the political pics for the politic forum. Not that I am taking a stance for either party. It is just nice to have a place to go that we can be free of any of it. Thanks Ajac