Ajac

Yes this has always been an issue for me. Almost mid 50s' (wow where did that time go) I always feel like uncle pervy if I am getting a massage from someone in their 20s. Though I do on rare occasion. I have had really good massages from every age group over the years. Though some of the worst have been older guys 30's to 50's. Age doesn't always bring expertise and some just have natural skills at an early age. I think if you are hiring someone in their 20's read the text in the ad carefully. That and the pictures are good clues. If it is all about them and little about the client experience you shouldn't be surprised by a bad massage. A photo of the massage space is a great clue to the type of experience you might encounter, a 20 something that has taken the time and effort to create an environment conducive to a relaxing massage is usually one that cares about his clientele. In all honesty when we were in our 20's we probably would have preferred to massage athletes and models over paunchy old guys but that is the trick, finding a person who generally cares about the client no matter what age or how he looks.

Does anyone remember Hank Eddelman? HE Photography? He was a southern California based massage therapist/photographer he did some really beautiful nudes , but a search now finds very little on his works.

Gotta love a guy that flambes shirtless.

Wow the site just expired last month. .

Yes I remember his site well. One of the few times I honestly thought of traveling to another state just to get a massage.

Yes I had a thing for Randsome after I had seen one of his wrestle/sex vids. But after I had heard rumors of his attitude he became ugly to me. Just like Malachai Marx. I have a nice guy fetish so those two got axed off my list. On the original topic I had hired Trey Rexx for a massage but wish I had hired for more. I also had a 4 handed massage where Mark Slade was one of the pair of hands. What a truly sweet guy. Though it was a very interactive experience it would have been amazing to have gotten to know him better.

Yes Maximus is a super nice guy. Was bummed last time he was in LA I could not see him.

Hey Dutch Maybe save the political pics for the politic forum. Not that I am taking a stance for either party. It is just nice to have a place to go that we can be free of any of it. Thanks Ajac

Yes I tried a spa that was advertised like this on Backpage. Located in Sunland. Was expecting a masseur and a masseuse started the massage I then had to try and communicate that I preferred a masseur. Finally the guy in reception finished the massage. Just a massage nothing else which was fine since it was just on a whim I don't usually do the spa or massage parlor thing. Too many memories of old cop movies showing raids on these establishments LOL. There are a few guys that advertise on m4m and when you call it is a spa and you don't get who you are calling for. So there is that situation to be aware of too.

I had seen Andreas a few times a few years back. Super nice guy enjoyed my massages with him a lot. He used to work from a site that offered nude workouts or massage. It was located in an industrial park office. I loved the location but alas the site went down. When I found him again he only did out call. He looks like he may have put on a bit of muscle since then but the smile in the pictures is just the same and pretty much the reason I first hired him.

Funny I don't particularly remember his voice being annoying. He seemed like a nice enough guy when I saw him years ago. I think i saw him twice first time massage 2nd time a bit more. He was really into dirty talk and to be honest I always want to laugh when I hear really bad porn dialogue in real life. I think it was what kept me from seeing him again. Some people love that I just find it silly. I guess the massage itself wasn't that awesome or I would have put ear plugs in and gone back.

Yes I found Max a very nice guy. Though his body is not as it was in his photos ( he has lost 25 lbs ) he is still very sexy.

He was at the Roosevelt. Landmark old hollywood that is falling short of it's potential. Must have been something in its heyday. Room was nothing special but acceptable. Walk outside and it is wall to wall tourists, Homeless on the sidewalk and obnoxious people in tacky costumes hustling people for money... so that kind of sucks.

Yes I will give Max a try if scheduling works. I did read his reviews and there were quite a few that specifically said he was just a really nice guy no matter what the client looked like. I just like to get the spa forums feedback. I stopped going to one of my favorites when he changed his set up from a room where you can watch him while he worked to a pitch dark room where you could not see your hand in front of your face. He said it was for his shyer 1st time clients. I had been there at least 5 times before. I do have a belly on me but I am no Jabba the Hutt. I am a very visual person and had to fantasize at the end when there was a masseur right there.What's up with that. I should go back to him and wear night vision goggles LOL.

OK here is my problem. I find this guy so incredibly good looking I am intimidated to hire him. lately i have been hiring from ads that say they do not discriminate on age or body type. Just can't seem to get motivated to get back in shape. I have hired good looking masseurs before but this guy… woof. I guess my question is has anyone here hired him and do you think he would be be nice to a less than perfect client. here is the link http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/maxftl.shtml Ajac

Great looking...that is where it ends. Bad experience.

As I had said in a PM I had seen Josh for the first time years ago. It was a great experience. Great personality great massage great environment. Felt like I was having a school kid crush on him. After a few more great massages (including the next level) it all changed. He's seemed angry even the massage itself seemed angry. I could not think of what I might have done. I asked if everything was OK he said yes. I chalked it up to a bad day on his part and tried again... Same attitude. I get a massage to ease stress not get more. So I stopped seeing him. I discussed this with another board member years ago who seemed to know him better. There seemed to be some major issues he was trying to workout . I hope there is still a part of the Josh I had met years ago still in him, he was such a great easy going guy. Ajac