bostonman

He really should let the hair grow back. ?

Some stuff I'd love to try - Since my fascination with spit started with watching baseball players do it a lot, I suppose my ultimate fantasy is finding a baseball dude who would give me the real stuff. Maybe someday...;-) (In general, getting it from any bona fide jock guy would be awesome, but baseball spit would be the dream.) I'd love to do a threesome with 2 spitters. All sorts of possibilities there. Getting it from both of them at once, having them take turns, having them do silly little competitions like who can spit the biggest wad, or aim the farthest - or stuff like I'd be blowing one guy while the other is keeping my face wet, etc.

It's funny, because again, I don't tend to think of myself getting into hardcore dom play, but yeah, I've also had guys with their hand on my chin, holding my mouth open for them to spit into - and there is something about feeling his hand doing that that I find exciting. But I think in general I enjoy the feeling of having my face handled - I love when a guy play with my head and face while I blow him, for instance. I hired one escort twice (he's long since retired as far as I know) that got into the kinds of fetish play I liked (pits, feet, nipples, etc), and was happy to get into my spit fetish as well. I remember this particularly amazing thing he did where he'd get my face soaking wet, then he'd rub his hands in my face and have fun with the slimy messiness he was causing. And he'd keep spitting to add to the mess, sometimes spitting into his hand and wiping it on me. It was very intense and goofy and hot. "Swapping spit" has always been a euphemism for deep kissing. But I love when it can get really literal as well - really slobbery kissing , faces getting all wet, drool dripping out, etc. The messier, the wetter, the better. I suppose the kinkiest thing I've done was the "toothpaste hazing" thing I mentioned earlier. I'm almost amazed that the guy I suggested it to actually wanted to try it, lol. But he really made it hot. He would brush and then spit into a cup, and afterward I'd have to drink it all down. I had to hold the cup, and he (deliberately) missed his aim a few times so the stuff got all over my hand. (We also were trying to roleplay the hazing idea, so I was the "innocent" one that just had to keep holding that cup for him lol.) It was exciting (and appropriately disgusting lol) watching him spit that goop into the cup. After he was done was when he told me I'd have to drink it. I pretended to hem and haw for a minute, but then did as he said, as he watched. It was pretty thrilling and weird. I'd totally get into it again lol.

Since we've started up this thread again, I'd love to share more feelings/fantasies/stories about spit play - stuff you've done, or have wanted to do, etc. Let's have some fun...

Oh, be still my heart...

Love this. I'd suck that swear finger too. ;-)

I think just pure spit would be better lol. The only reason I was willing to try beer was because it seemed to fit the scenario - not because I wanted alcohol per se. The only other time I did something with "flavor" - I had read about a school football team hazing ritual where everyone brushed their teeth and spit into a cup, and had the new guy drink it. I mentioned this once to a guy and he was willing to give it a shot. So we did that, and it was kinky as hell but also pretty sexy. But in general, just the spit itself is what I crave. I do enjoy getting it in my mouth. But also getting it all over my face. For me it's a very sensual thing, not so much a BDSM/humiliation thing, but sure, there's also that aspect to it. There's something very hot about the crudeness of it. But I also find it very intimate and male-bonding. And yeah, sometimes romantic and appealingly goofy. Once, a guy took a spit-wet finger and traced his name on my face, which was a very playfully romantic kind of gesture to me. I've had other guys do that as well. It all depends on the way the guy doing the spitting and I relate to each other. And I miss this kind of play so much. I know it's going to be a while before it feels even the least bit safe to do it again. But I'm holding out hope...

I had the same thought. Are we sure this is the same guy?

I tried a scene like this once. I've never been into beer (really don't like the taste or the smell), but I had a chance to do a roleplay with a frat/jock type guy, and he knew I loved spit, so it just kinda happened. The scene was extremely hot, but it just confirmed for me how much I don't like beer lol. I'm not an extremely kinky guy, but being spit at is something I really find smoking hot. The really sad thing is that there's just no way I can engage in this kind of thing for the forseeable future - just too risky. Longing for the day when we can do stuff like this again...

This guy was just in Boston - I didn't hire him but wondered if anyone has. Might like to see him if he comes this way again. Any info or thoughts? https://rentmen.eu/ConnerJacobs

It's funny how much we've talked and talked about this guy who seems to be bad news by most accounts so far. But then again,. that's one reason this forum exists.

Cute guy (aside from being an amazing violinist lol). Though he has also had very good marketing over the years, which helps...

Ick. I have colleagues that use that term and it drives me insane. As for gender name calling, I used to hear gay guys call each other "Mary" all the time - but I think that's out of fashion now.

Someone should do a porn film about that wedding night...????

Count me out of that one.

Man woman person camera TV. Easy. (Well, imagine trump taking an actual COMPREHENSION test???:eek:)

Well, if Mitch wants to be in this thread, he'd better raise his arms...

It's like she has some strange tic, lol.

Surrender, Dorothy?

I don't disagree, but it also has a lot to do with how they advertise themselves. Some do, thankfully, present themselves like human beings, for those of us who want that kind of interaction. Some, though, do present themselves as, well, "meat."

I hadn't seen Morgan on MSNBC for a few weeks, I think - but he was back this morning. Turns out he got Covid-19. He talked about it a bit, saying he was still dealing with some symptoms but otherwise much better, and glad to be back reporting again.

The only odor I really enjoy is armpit odor, and that can be fresh or stale. Crotch-wise, I prefer very clean. Maybe very slightly sweaty, but not very much. I'm also not generally a fan of colognes or similar body wash type scents - unless they're very slight - just to provide a little enhancement, not becoming a walking advertisement for the scent lol. I'm an Ivory soap guy myself, and prefer the same clean smell on a guy. (But again, a slight bit of something is ok, maybe even more than ok.)

Or more to the point, the necessity is to maintain physical distance - it was never meant to be about loss of relationships/communication/etc.

It's also a wrong term. It really should be "physical distancing." But too late now...

This is assuming you don't like that smell (some guys do, lol). If things have been going well up to that point, I think you have the ability to stop and gently ask if it would be a problem for him to wash up down there. Maybe you could even offer to help, lol - make it part of the sensual fun. Don't otherwise make a huge deal about it. If he seems put off by the request, maybe things weren't worth it after all.