Your 2nd experience was my 1st experience! I visited Ryan during his recent NYC trip with such high expectations. The message itself was good if you like deep, he performs naked, has a great muscular body but the overall connection was lacking. After spending most of the session on my stomach, he asked me to flip over. Then said to sit up so he could do my neck which was OK. Then lay back down on my back. He straddled me in a 69 position and just went for my cock. There was no messaging of the front in any way, no work- up to the grand finale; just a quick grab and go like you were milking a cow. I was far from pleased and told him so. Let's face it from the little conversation that we had, he's purely in it for the $$$$. I figured that I was #5 in early evening and he had 2 more sessions to go before the night was over! How can you show TLC to 7-8 guys in one day? Is there even time to shower between each one? The guy puts in a full month's work as an ER nurse in 3 weeks of the month on the west coast. Then he travels to NYC to message as many guys as possible for the week to make $$$$ for medical school. I do give him credit for his hard work ethic but it's taking its toll on him. Maybe one of his regulars would be more sympathetic but I'm not seeking a repeat visit.