I agree with you and have nothing against the sound of hip hop but it would not relax me for a massage. I found this one to be too long and drawn out. Maybe even more so because there was no action. For a guy to endure that much oily rubbing especially on the inner legs right up into the butt and not pop a boner, they would have to either be unconscious or have some serious ED issues. Most of us would have had multiple cummings!