Ludo

Curious as well- though I think that spelling of his name may be new and he may have been discussed here before.

Apparently @wooly doesn't get free texts on her Jitterbug.

I'm loving it now more than ever!

I have two pet peeves: Do not try to wipe my cum off my cock with toilet paper. We all learned this was dumb when we were first jerking off. Don't. If you're going to step away to grab something (a warm, wet rag perhaps?) then just say something and don't be gone for more than 45 seconds.

It's as much your right to be offended by the word as it is my right to use it.

If you sucked it without paying the $60 is that shoplifting or rape?

Right!? I mean, just speaking from a point of basic logic, I know not every escort or masseur I have hired has found me hot. A few have, and a few have probably been repulsed. But each of them has made a choice in life, and has decided that rubbing me down, swallowing my dick, or giving up their ass was worth the price they were going to charge me regardless of true attraction. And I'm totally fine with it.

Since my original post says nothing about the bait you're trying to throw, I have to assume you're a dickhead for other reasons.

I understand what you're saying- but that's not really what I'm talking about. I imagine escorts have sex with a LOT of people they aren't attracted to. Then again- I've read a lot of reviews on here about escorts and masseurs who don't come through with services advertised or aren't as playful as the client expects which could be indicative of some lack of attraction. I read a quote from a porn actor who basically said he doesn't think every guy he fucks is hot, and most of them are not his type, but money gives him a boner.

What do you mean?

I've been seeing a lot of posts with people arguing over whether it is OK to not be attracted to certain body types, or people being worried about if they have the "right type" of body. And while I recognize that as a society- and even more specifically- in gay life there are "commonly accepted" standards of what's attractive- everyone should remember this: You may be the juiciest, ripest, most-delicious peach... and there's still always going to be someone who doesn't like peaches. Yeah- it sucks when it happens, but not everyone is going to be into what you have to offer. I have a rocking dadbod so the boys who like hairy bellies and thick thighs are into me. The guys who want a skinny dude or muscle guy are not... AND THAT'S OK! Own what you got. And if someone is not what you want- don't be a dickhead.

I haven;t seen them in person, but it comes across in some of the youtube videos ad I hear it's very real IRL.

Except it's not about "stepping out" after realizing "oops, I'm in the bad here because this space isn't really for engaging in sexual acts". It was heavy sighs, verbal comments directed to the person that they didn't want looking, and at least one racial slur used to explain that there's a lot more of a certain group who frequents there now, so maybe they need to raise the price. Everyone is going to have a different experience. Some days will be great and others will be terrible. Sometimes the hottest dude with the biggest cock at one of those places isn't even there to do anything but experience the space for what it is - a public spa facility. My advice to all the "hot" guys: if you want to go there and you want to be horny and jerk your cock with some other dudes- at least be polite. And maybe even let that guy you aren't attracted to watch. Because some day you may be the old, hairy, fat, disabled one and maybe someone will show some politeness to you. Besides- it's not a sex club. And don't forget- they are holding your photo ID at the front desk. =)

FWIW - my friend told me about a crazy hot night he got "Muscle Adonis" to agree to sit in a rim chair and get his ass licked for an hour. My bud said it was the best of both worlds- he got to focus on the dude's best assets and not have to see his crazy eyes.

Thank you. Not even if you squint.

He has some hilariously bad youtube videos. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXh1rSzVOmrUcqCFLVVbwEg

I've seen other threads, but almost all of them are a few years old and include guys who no longer seem to exist. Any fresh faces or solid recommendations in the SFV? While I do have an appetite for younger dudes (18-24) I am also really open minded about other ages, ethnicities, and all types of bodies.

THIS is exactly what I was talking about. I wasn't being salty about myself- in fact several of the guys wanted to play with me but I was put off by the fact that they laughed at an older guy and left the steamroom, they literally flocked en masse to the outdoor space and fled as soon as a black guy dared to go out there, and there was more than one occasion where someone told another person they were "being a creep" when ironically what made them a creep was watching while these dudes were jerking off in public. There also seemed to be some serious drug use going on based on some of the behaviors. And as far as your question @thedanNYC - if I am attracted to someone I'm attracted to them. Sometimes they have big dicks, small dicks, sometimes they are really gorgeous and other times they are attractive in other ways. The dick wants what the dick wants... but I am never rude, cruel, or forgetful that if I am going to show off my dick in a public place I can't also expect to limit the people who get to see it. It's a shared public space, not a private home.

I went to Century Day & Night Spa based on this thread. While there was a lot to look at, there was so much attitude it was insane. I'm not model gorgeous, but I'm in decent shape and have a very large unit, so that got me somewhere, but there was open hostility towards anyone outside the "tolerable" body size, age, or skin color ranges. It was sort of sad. A lot of bitchy boys who think they are too good to go to the gay bathhouse, turning it into a gay bathhouse.