MsgFantasy

Texted him earlier this morning, but no reply yet...

Bump again!

I've already PMed the original poster my recommendations, so I don't feel too bad about steering the discussion off topic. I'm Asian, I'm not hung, and I'm around 30 pounds overweight. I've hired 4 L.A. area masseurs in total so far mostly based on rate and whether or not they can do outcall to my location. I've had good experiences with 2 of them, and I don't want to hire the other 2 any more because their extras were too much. Therefore, it's absolutely inaccurate to say most masseurs in L.A. are anti-Asian. Honestly, as someone who immigrated here from China, I don't understand how people, who grew up here, can live their life seeing every obstacle they encountered as a result of racism. That's a big turn-off for me in a man of color, actually. Granted, most of the men I've been with are white, but that's after growing up in China seeing millions of skincare commercials about whitening, hearing how other older Chinese people complimenting white skin, big eyes, and tall noses. Maybe the beauty standards I grew up with are racist, but it wasn't my fault, nor was it any white person's fault. It also f**ked me up too, I have small eyes and wide nose, so I had to grow up thinking I'm ugly. Coming to America makes me realize that there are people who appreciate how I look, and I also learned to appreciate the beauty of people with darker skin: I've had encounters with Latino, black, and mid-eastern men. Therefore, you can call people racist, or you can give them a chance to learn and appreciate you. It's always hard to be refused, but as long as I still have a type, I can't bring myself to blame others for not being into me. Yes, you can always argue masseurs shouldn't discriminate, but we are not talking about masseurs that work out of your chiropractor's clinic, are we?

Bump!

I'll be visiting San Francisco around Martin Luther King's day weekend, so I'm thinking about meeting someone up there. Here's his profile on RentMasseur.com. If anyone have any experience with him, please feel free to PM me since his profile has plenty to imply. I'm also considering Allen Silver, but his time is obviously more valuable.

My usual masseur wasn't available during the Christmas weekend, so today I got a little bit desperate, and started looking among masseurs that were "available now." I eventually hit up this dude on RentMasseur.com. You know we always say YMMV, so when we try someone new, we really don't expect much. Then, if it escalate too quickly, and we'll probably just like "Whoa! I really didn't sign up for that!" That's what exactly happened. Other people here, however, may be interested, so you could PM me for the details.

Anthony: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/932/ Clark: https://rentmasseur.com/Clarkmassage Anthony apparently is a 4-hand partner of Clark’s.

If anyone here had a 4-hand massage with both Clark & Anthony, please PM me with some details. Thanks!

If anyone here had a 4-hand massage with both Clark & Anthony, please PM me with some details. Thanks!

I have been recommending Clark here, but personally I never said it was his massage that was excellent, and I believe many people who tried and liked Clark also mentioned he’s not a professionally trained masseur but he does try. This is a forum where gay/bi/curious men are mostly looking for massage with extras, and that’s why people recommend Clark. Even that, I always tell others not to expect more than just a regular HE because it always depends on the masseur’s connection with the client. Masseurs are not chiropractors, so to me relieving some back pain is important, but at the end of day, massages can’t heal my back pain. It takes both chiropractics and excercises to achieve that, so why not cut the masseur some slack as long as the extras are better than usual?

I'm 30 years old, and I prefer white or latino men, older than me would be better. I prefer some body hair, but that can be optional too. I fantasize about bottoming, but I don't it often enough, so I don't need a huge cock; a 6 to 7-inch one would be fine. I need someone who's patient and can show some genuine affection in the process. I know some people will recommend Rod Hagen. I've met him, but we really didn't click; to the point it took me a while to get off... He did try to be patient and affectionate, but I think it's because I have theatre backgrounds, it didn't feel genuine enough for me. Thanks.

Definitely Clark; now that I see I share Clark with this many people, I’m starting to feel a little jealous, lol—He’s that good!

Jack’s good-looking, but not off the chart, or super characteristic. Thinking back, I’d say he looks like a very tan hippy version of Jesse Tyler Ferguson (definitely not as flamboyant as JTF) with full ginger facial hair, and somewhat thin faux hawk hair. Maybe?

Bump, been curious about him too!