You guys DO realize that masseurfinder and massagem4m has put so many rules and regulations and censorship on the massage ads since the rentboy sting that most of the guys have trouble actually advertising what they do, right? I understand what your frustrations are, but you should blame the websites and the government for forcing this o the massage community, not the guys who are trying to figure it out with all of these stupid regulations. Even our customer reviews are up for serious censorship. I tried to post my review of Mateo on masseur finder and they yanked it and sent it back to me as unacceptable because I used the words "difficult time" (to describe my current tough situation). i couldn't figure out what the hell the problem was and then they told me that the phrase "ult time" was flagged as "inappropriate". I was like, WHAT?!? I was using the word "difficult". But apparently "ult time" flagged in the system as meaning "ultimate" and that could potentially be code for a masseur offering services that would be consider the "ultimate time". That's how bizarre and ridiculous this all is now.
Anyway, I asked a friend today who also advertises and he explained that masseurfinder used to have 3 sections that were something like therapeutic, sensual and erotic. Then I guess they yanked the erotic and changed the sensual category to something else. now they have "heal" and "relax". He said Heal is code for strictly therapeutic and Relax is code for sensual. So I think you guys got it backwards. A shirtless picture is more appropriate in the relax category than in the heal section. It makes sense if you think about it. Heal is a word that more describes what therapeutic work does and relax much more describes what a sensual appointment gives you.
For what it's worth, my friend also told me that if I thought I had aggravation with trying to post a fair review of a massage therapist, that it's nothing compared to the hoops they gotta jump through with the wording of their ads. apparently it's even worse with massagem4m. he said they will cancel and block a masseur's ad who has accepted any reviews that have inappropriate content. he said they have to police their own reviews under the fear of cancellation if any words get through that the massagem4m lawyers have an issue with. He said words like "sensual" or "affectionate" in a review can get the masseur's ad cancelled if they don't block the review from being published. Which explains why so many of our reviews are not showing up. nice world we live in now, huh? And nobody's gonna fight it in the government because nobody wants to admit they use these kinds of services. The puritans win once again!