You're extremely patient -- much more than me. And your last line is spot on.
I've never had an issue with the few times I've hired escorts, but masseurs have been a bit of an issue. I don't mind providers running late or needing to reschedule; however, being ghosted a few times has been annoying. I texted one provider 3 times about a session (once around noon, then around 8 p.m. that evening, then around 6:30 p.m. the next day); he never replied. Another said he would get back to me about an appointment but didn't; and the third one rescheduled me for a time that would work better for him (which was absolutely fine) -- and didn't reply when I reached out to confirm. They were all guys I had seen multiple times over the years, so it was frustrating, but I moved on and found providers who communicated better.