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i would say the photos are more like 20 years old!  

The first truly erotic massage experience i enjoyed was at a legit spa/salon quite a few years ago in Toronto. The facility had a mens changing area with showers, sauna, hot tub, etc. Had been going for some time but had started seeing a new MT that I thought was very good... and very sexy. Later learned he did martial arts and was incredibly fit! This particular day I had booked a longer session than normal and went a bit early to shower and hot tub before my massage. I noticed my MT came into the change room a couple of times before our time, including when I was coming out of the water. Fast forward a bit to being in a massage room - private but not fully given ceiling heights between rooms. He would typically put a blanket on me in addition to the sheet - after the hot tub I was quite warm, so I said something to the effect of "can we not use the blanket - I'm hot". Suddenly his mouth was by my ear and he whispered "yes you are". After that moment the whole experience became more and more sensual. The fact that we were in the middle of this spa made it all the more intense. After increasingly adventurous touching and exploring I again heard that whisper asking me if I would fuck him!! Later learned that he was generally straight but increasingly bi-curious and wanted to explore further. He was prepared with protection and I enjoyed being able to give him what he wanted (and I wanted!). All undertaken with muffled noise and a heightened sense of being in a somewhat public place which made it all the more exciting. Any wonder I became hooked on erotic massage? lol

The first truly erotic massage experience i enjoyed was at a legit spa/salon quite a few years ago in Toronto. The facility had a mens changing area with showers, sauna, hot tub, etc. Had been going for some time but had started seeing a new MT that I thought was very good... and very sexy. Later learned he did martial arts and was incredibly fit! This particular day I had booked a longer session than normal and went a bit early to shower and hot tub before my massage. I noticed my MT came into the change room a couple of times before our time, including when I was coming out of the water. Fast forward a bit to being in a massage room - private but not fully given ceiling heights between rooms. He would typically put a blanket on me in addition to the sheet - after the hot tub I was quite warm, so I said something to the effect of "can we not use the blanket - I'm hot". Suddenly his mouth was by my ear and he whispered "yes you are". After that moment the whole experience became more and more sensual. The fact that we were in the middle of this spa made it all the more intense. After increasingly adventurous touching and exploring I again heard that whisper asking me if I would fuck him!! Later learned that he was generally straight but increasingly bi-curious and wanted to explore further. He was prepared with protection and I enjoyed being able to give him what he wanted (and I wanted!). All undertaken with muffled noise and a heightened sense of being in a somewhat public place which made it all the more exciting. Any wonder I became hooked on erotic massage? lol

The first truly erotic massage experience i enjoyed was at a legit spa/salon quite a few years ago in Toronto. The facility had a mens changing area with showers, sauna, hot tub, etc. Had been going for some time but had started seeing a new MT that I thought was very good... and very sexy. Later learned he did martial arts and was incredibly fit! This particular day I had booked a longer session than normal and went a bit early to shower and hot tub before my massage. I noticed my MT came into the change room a couple of times before our time, including when I was coming out of the water. Fast forward a bit to being in a massage room - private but not fully given ceiling heights between rooms. He would typically put a blanket on me in addition to the sheet - after the hot tub I was quite warm, so I said something to the effect of "can we not use the blanket - I'm hot". Suddenly his mouth was by my ear and he whispered "yes you are". After that moment the whole experience became more and more sensual. The fact that we were in the middle of this spa made it all the more intense. After increasingly adventurous touching and exploring I again heard that whisper asking me if I would fuck him!! Later learned that he was generally straight but increasingly bi-curious and wanted to explore further. He was prepared with protection and I enjoyed being able to give him what he wanted (and I wanted!). All undertaken with muffled noise and a heightened sense of being in a somewhat public place which made it all the more exciting. Any wonder I became hooked on erotic massage? lol

So my experience with Adam was incredibly odd and disappointing.  Everything seemed fine then he insisted on a phone call to book appointment.  Fine.  On the call he was very scattered and indecisive about scheduling.  I had to reinforce I wanted an outcall and we agreed I would cover parking.  He left late but messaged me, and then when he got near me asked about parking.  I gave him a few options and he then indicated he couldn't find parking and was heading home.  I walked the dog shortly after this - plenty of street parking plus the fact that there is underground parking in front of my building that I had agreed to cover.  He then continued to text me indicating that this was all my fault, that I wasn't helpful, etc.  He even called ME "clueless" before I blocked him.  Very very odd and seemingly erratic/unstable behavior.   

Finally, a Japanese spa vid that I hadn’t seen before. And the client is truly the hunkiest of hunks who ultimately takes charge after the masseur goes for a ride.
https://m.boyfriendtv.com/videos/743468/ryuji-and-sakaki-riichi-massage/?utm_source=awn&utm_medium=tgp&utm_campaign=cpc

The first truly erotic massage experience i enjoyed was at a legit spa/salon quite a few years ago in Toronto. The facility had a mens changing area with showers, sauna, hot tub, etc. Had been going for some time but had started seeing a new MT that I thought was very good... and very sexy. Later learned he did martial arts and was incredibly fit! This particular day I had booked a longer session than normal and went a bit early to shower and hot tub before my massage. I noticed my MT came into the change room a couple of times before our time, including when I was coming out of the water. Fast forward a bit to being in a massage room - private but not fully given ceiling heights between rooms. He would typically put a blanket on me in addition to the sheet - after the hot tub I was quite warm, so I said something to the effect of "can we not use the blanket - I'm hot". Suddenly his mouth was by my ear and he whispered "yes you are". After that moment the whole experience became more and more sensual. The fact that we were in the middle of this spa made it all the more intense. After increasingly adventurous touching and exploring I again heard that whisper asking me if I would fuck him!! Later learned that he was generally straight but increasingly bi-curious and wanted to explore further. He was prepared with protection and I enjoyed being able to give him what he wanted (and I wanted!). All undertaken with muffled noise and a heightened sense of being in a somewhat public place which made it all the more exciting. Any wonder I became hooked on erotic massage? lol

Agreed.  plus YMMV right?  setting unwarranted expectations may not be helpful
 

Fluent in English?

Pushing back on the kissing question, mutual touch is a reasonable checkbox in an erotic massage questionnaire.  Kissing is an escort thing.  You, easygoingpal, may have had lots of luck seducing masseurs into it :-) and that's great, but masseur kissing is not a common expectation; it would fall in the category of an over-expectation.  

My #1 most favorite massage ever turned into one hilarious fuckfest, and I told someone about this masseur... he went... and he said it was the worst experience he's ever had lmao! So YMMV! He started grabbing too early, ended up getting no massage because the masseur thought he just wanted to get straight into the extras, then he lowballed the starting offer, and refused to take my advice and bring ur own condom, as some places won't have them because they are pretty incriminating if found during raids. It just went to hell after that hahaha.
 
So to me, YMMV = You're not me and I'm not you, so our experiences may differ.

Monarchy, thank you for responding to your post. It means a lot to me, coming from you, who is an active and valuable participant in this site. I've been following--struggling not to weigh in on--your discussion on the "good attitude" thread. Race and racism is one of the often brutal dimensions of m4m massage--and every human, including sexual, interaction.
 
I also appreciate your putting my post in the context of my others too, but I think you are not reading what I'm saying correctly (I also acknowledge that I may not always be communicating effectively!). I don't believe in an ideal massage world (or any ideal world), and I don't want the same experience from all masseurs (or even the same masseur, if I see him more than once). I am not looking for an escort (although I'm sure I will someday; it sounds fun!). I also don't see this site as a place to direct me to masseurs who give escort-style extras. I find it somewhat distasteful, in fact, when posters seem to be bragging that they got sex for the price of a massage. It's exciting to get more than the basics of an erotic massage, but it's disrespectful to expect or even ask (at least in the initial outreach) for more than masseurs are advertising. And if they give "more," which is delightful, I hope the client tips appropriately (i.e., escort price).
 
I guess everyone has some deep desire for the "ideal" massage, but I understand that the ideal is, in its pure form, not possible in this vale of sorrows called life. Before I found this site, however, I hired several masseurs I would never have chosen, once I had started using it. I rarely have massages now that I leave disappointed from, and I owe that, in large part, to my brothers on this site. The couple of threads I've initiated, however, are attempts to be part of making this site even better. Even great things can be better. I think we can help each other understand what to expect generally and from specific masseurs, especially when it comes to what constitutes an erotic massage. We all already know what a "legit," therapeutic massage is.
 
What hasn't been helpful in anticipating if a masseur will provide erotic "basics" (I'm not talking about kissing, sucking, rimming, fucking, much less "connection") is when a poster writes, "YMMV." If YMMV means a masseur advertising erotic massage may not disrobe, may keep away from any of my own touching, and may avoid my private parts, I wish the poster would write that instead. That flags false advertising.
 
Too often, too, YMMV also seems like an opportunity to boast ("I got extras, but I've got a big dick / I'm young / I'm good looking / I'm irresistible, so YMMV."). We all know our place in the "marketplace of desire," so that use of YMMV can feel a little punishing.
 
Finally, I've gotten "extras" many times myself, but if someone PMs me about a masseur who gave them to me, I always try to emphasize that I don't know if that is a standard part of their massage. I don't think it's necessary to add "YMMV," since I think everyone understands what I mean.

maybe it's time to define "erotic massage" vs sensual. I know for providers their views are highly different! As a result there are varied expectations. I've had erotic sessions that were purely nude, MT, HE and others that were more... fully interactive.

I texted to inquire about rates & more info. Took him a few days to reply, but he seemed polite and thorough. Trying to coordinate our schedules...I’ll update if/when I see him.

Also, if you search Jackson Grant you may find some porn references

The first truly erotic massage experience i enjoyed was at a legit spa/salon quite a few years ago in Toronto. The facility had a mens changing area with showers, sauna, hot tub, etc. Had been going for some time but had started seeing a new MT that I thought was very good... and very sexy. Later learned he did martial arts and was incredibly fit! This particular day I had booked a longer session than normal and went a bit early to shower and hot tub before my massage. I noticed my MT came into the change room a couple of times before our time, including when I was coming out of the water. Fast forward a bit to being in a massage room - private but not fully given ceiling heights between rooms. He would typically put a blanket on me in addition to the sheet - after the hot tub I was quite warm, so I said something to the effect of "can we not use the blanket - I'm hot". Suddenly his mouth was by my ear and he whispered "yes you are". After that moment the whole experience became more and more sensual. The fact that we were in the middle of this spa made it all the more intense. After increasingly adventurous touching and exploring I again heard that whisper asking me if I would fuck him!! Later learned that he was generally straight but increasingly bi-curious and wanted to explore further. He was prepared with protection and I enjoyed being able to give him what he wanted (and I wanted!). All undertaken with muffled noise and a heightened sense of being in a somewhat public place which made it all the more exciting. Any wonder I became hooked on erotic massage? lol

...for therapeutic only. He'll upcharge if you're looking for anything else.

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The first truly erotic massage experience i enjoyed was at a legit spa/salon quite a few years ago in Toronto. The facility had a mens changing area with showers, sauna, hot tub, etc. Had been going for some time but had started seeing a new MT that I thought was very good... and very sexy. Later learned he did martial arts and was incredibly fit! This particular day I had booked a longer session than normal and went a bit early to shower and hot tub before my massage. I noticed my MT came into the change room a couple of times before our time, including when I was coming out of the water. Fast forward a bit to being in a massage room - private but not fully given ceiling heights between rooms. He would typically put a blanket on me in addition to the sheet - after the hot tub I was quite warm, so I said something to the effect of "can we not use the blanket - I'm hot". Suddenly his mouth was by my ear and he whispered "yes you are". After that moment the whole experience became more and more sensual. The fact that we were in the middle of this spa made it all the more intense. After increasingly adventurous touching and exploring I again heard that whisper asking me if I would fuck him!! Later learned that he was generally straight but increasingly bi-curious and wanted to explore further. He was prepared with protection and I enjoyed being able to give him what he wanted (and I wanted!). All undertaken with muffled noise and a heightened sense of being in a somewhat public place which made it all the more exciting. Any wonder I became hooked on erotic massage? lol

The first truly erotic massage experience i enjoyed was at a legit spa/salon quite a few years ago in Toronto. The facility had a mens changing area with showers, sauna, hot tub, etc. Had been going for some time but had started seeing a new MT that I thought was very good... and very sexy. Later learned he did martial arts and was incredibly fit! This particular day I had booked a longer session than normal and went a bit early to shower and hot tub before my massage. I noticed my MT came into the change room a couple of times before our time, including when I was coming out of the water. Fast forward a bit to being in a massage room - private but not fully given ceiling heights between rooms. He would typically put a blanket on me in addition to the sheet - after the hot tub I was quite warm, so I said something to the effect of "can we not use the blanket - I'm hot". Suddenly his mouth was by my ear and he whispered "yes you are". After that moment the whole experience became more and more sensual. The fact that we were in the middle of this spa made it all the more intense. After increasingly adventurous touching and exploring I again heard that whisper asking me if I would fuck him!! Later learned that he was generally straight but increasingly bi-curious and wanted to explore further. He was prepared with protection and I enjoyed being able to give him what he wanted (and I wanted!). All undertaken with muffled noise and a heightened sense of being in a somewhat public place which made it all the more exciting. Any wonder I became hooked on erotic massage? lol

The first truly erotic massage experience i enjoyed was at a legit spa/salon quite a few years ago in Toronto. The facility had a mens changing area with showers, sauna, hot tub, etc. Had been going for some time but had started seeing a new MT that I thought was very good... and very sexy. Later learned he did martial arts and was incredibly fit! This particular day I had booked a longer session than normal and went a bit early to shower and hot tub before my massage. I noticed my MT came into the change room a couple of times before our time, including when I was coming out of the water. Fast forward a bit to being in a massage room - private but not fully given ceiling heights between rooms. He would typically put a blanket on me in addition to the sheet - after the hot tub I was quite warm, so I said something to the effect of "can we not use the blanket - I'm hot". Suddenly his mouth was by my ear and he whispered "yes you are". After that moment the whole experience became more and more sensual. The fact that we were in the middle of this spa made it all the more intense. After increasingly adventurous touching and exploring I again heard that whisper asking me if I would fuck him!! Later learned that he was generally straight but increasingly bi-curious and wanted to explore further. He was prepared with protection and I enjoyed being able to give him what he wanted (and I wanted!). All undertaken with muffled noise and a heightened sense of being in a somewhat public place which made it all the more exciting. Any wonder I became hooked on erotic massage? lol

I hired him the other day. He's very sexy and lean, most like picture 8, to answer your question @dutchal. Fairly decent massage, made worth it by fun extras and interaction. Shorted me a bit on time but what can you do.

AKA Latin_masseur... Anyone see him lately?
 
https://rentmasseur.com/Handsomely

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