Gadfly22

Whaaaaat? You didn't have sex with him? I kept reading and reading (and reading!) and thinking - ok they're finally about to get it on but noooooooooooo! The thread is titled True travel SEX stories after all! Mr. moderator - I think a warning is in order! 😝

Or maybe 144?

This inane thread has gone on for 12 pages (and 2 years) alternating between posting pics of cute young guys and the next post saying "Wow I'd love to ________ him!" Yuk yuk that's a real knee slapper! Does anyone have an actual anecdote about your next door neighbors delectable offspring? Can't say I have an interesting story but my neighbor does have a gorgeous college age son. He's away at school but he comes home for a visit every week or so. Never spoken to him but I've tried to make eye contact. Not sure what I'd do if he showed interest. His dad would probably kill me!

Twins? Hot! IMO Duaredu is cuter but his brother definitely has a bigger dick. Wonder if they ever did side by side comparisons while they were growing up?

That would be a great bumper sticker for an scort: Bringing excitement, intimacy & healing to a broken world!

Guess not! 😅

Speaking of pecs - was in Shoprite a couple weeks ago when in walked a couple of early 20-something cuties (might have been younger actually). One had light brown hair, the other was blonde, breathtakingly gorgeous! I was drooling! But the thing was they were wearing t-shirts with cut off sleeves. They both had cut off so much sleeve that you could totally see their (not huge but very well defined) pecs and dark brown nipples! HOT! When they passed by me my jaw was on the floor. I immediately stopped shopping and followed them from a discrete distance. Wasn't really getting a good look so after a few minutes I dropped all pretense, walked by them, then turned around and came back the other way. Did that a couple times actually. They didn't seem to pay me much nevermind, so I wasn't worried. Between that and the shopping I must have been in there for an hour! 😱

I gotta eat some durian! Woof! 😜

Yeah but they did. I thought having a faceless profile I would just occasionally message I guy I liked or someone who said in their profile they were into older and we would take it from there. Instead of that I have been inundated with taps and messages, some from very hot young guys and I'm just trying to find out why (and not getting much help BTW, except for @JEC - thanks). I thought so too but see above. Any ideas still appreciated.

I didn’t. Just found it odd that’s all. I understand but in both cases they contacted me first and they didn’t send me dic pics (lots of other guys did BTW). I did send a real face pic and offered to meet in person to show them the goods - they each live less than 5 minutes away according to the locator. I still think it was some kind of scam. Just trying to figure out how it works.

Manchester United playing a team called “Young Boys” in champions league in a couple weeks. I don’t even know what country they are from but I can’t wait to see it! Woof! 😛

So I’m on Grindr and surprisingly I’m getting some taps and messages despite the fact that my profile contains next to no information. Just screen name, age, and location. Two of the messages I get are from totally cute young guys so I reply. We exchange pleasantries, I point out that I’m way older than they are. They say that’s fine. They ask for pics. I send a face pic, surprisingly both guys are ok with it. I ask if they want to meet. In both cases they ask for a dic pic (without sending one of theirs). I tell them I don’t want to do that but if they want to meet up I’ll show them whatever they want to see and if they’re not happy I’ll go - they both live less than 5 minutes away. In both cases they ghosted me after that and in one case the guy blocked me. I think so at least, the whole conversation seems to have been deleted. Anyway my question to the guys with experience on the app is - what’s going on here? Is this common behavior? Are these guys scammers, pic collectors? In neither case did they ask for money or even suggest that was what they were after. How do you suggest I proceed in the future? Is it possible to meet a guy on Grindr without sending them pics of a dick first?

I saw something interesting at the b ball court in my neighborhood last Friday. I was taking a break after my bike ride checking out the guys. It was getting late, only one guy there, kinda cute. I wanted to wait until he left but it was late, getting dark so I hang out for a while, nothing happening so I start to go. I walk my bike past the court and out of nowhere pops this gorgeous bronzed shirtless GOD! WTH is he getting here so late for? And then it occurred to me just what you wrote in your post. Maybe he’s looking to hook up. I walk slowly so I can see what he’s up to. He does some stretching then starts running sprints along the court. I wanna go back and see if anything transpired between him and the other guy (who was still there) but I thought that would be creepy so I biked home. That would have been so hot! Its been raining here since Saturday so I haven’t been back to the park. May never know what happened. Never saw that dude before but I’m gonna be sure to hang around till it gets dark from now on! 😝🤪😜

Agree that Connery will always be equated with Bond and NSNA was god awful (more like a bad spoof of a Bond film). But I don’t agree that his performance in “Diamonds” set the standard. I like the film and Shirley Bassey’s title song is terrific (in fact all 3 of her Bond themes are great) but Connery is irritatingly unctuous in the lead role and by ‘71 he didn’t even look the part anymore, fat and unathletic. He hated the producers and he skipped “Her Majesty’s Secret Service” so I think he knew it was his last go round as Bond and basically mailed it in.

I’m trying to create an account on Grindr. I downloaded the app no problem, typed in all the requested info hit create account and all I get is an hour glass. I let it go on more than 15 minutes? How long does this sh*t take? Also tried logging in using apple/google - typed in username, did thumbprint ID hit ok. It said you are now logged in and proceeded to redirect me to the same login page. Same thing with google. Anyone know what I am doing wrong?

That makes my next question moot. 😜 [You can probably figure out what it was.] I don’t inquire about the personal lives of my subordinates insofar as I can avoid it and they return the favor. I have told most everyone that I more than occasionally socialize with outside working hours and I have been with my company so long that I imagine anyone who cares to know does. But its nice that we keep it professional in the office. Edit: Sorry getting way off topic.

None of my business but I’ll ask anyway. Are you out at work? If so has that fact that you are gay caused any problems? I’d imagine not in this day and age, especially in CA, just curious.

Might I see you in it? Can’t get more real than “Emergency!” though. I used to watch that back in the day. In fact I watched it during lunch today - first time in years. Randolph Mantooth was so cute! Who is Rampart, BTW?

Did he say why he quit the forum? He was one of my favorite posters and I learned a lot from him. At the time he dropped off the face of the earth I heard he was very sick. Just curious.

Why are firefighters so preoccupied with where their next meal is coming from? I think they spend way more time shopping, cooking and eating than fighting fires. Can’t they just work 8 hours then go home and eat like normal people?

Knew he looked familiar. Never got with him but I almost did a couple years back. Pic #13 is him with Latin Romeo from rent-masseur. The last time I got a massage from him he kept trying to persuade me to have a 3 way with him and his British bf who as it turns out is UKguy. I was tempted but I didn’t have a lot of money on me so I had to pass. Small world! BTW - he must be verse. To entice me In to the 3 way LR showed me some pics of himself pounding UKguys ass. Hot! BTW (2) - that shot of his hard dick with a quarter laid across the girth is inspired! Should be required for all profiles on RM!

Yeah I suppose you’re right. Even as thoroughly lacking in self confidence ad I am it probably wouldn’t have hurt anything to say hi. No one else was around. Maybe next time if there is one. I gotta stop obsessing over this guy. I have hardly done anything since I got vaccinated (6 weeks ago). No beach, no biking other than in my neighborhood and haven’t seen any friends. Just one trip to see my dad on Father’s Day. Not sure if its a good idea to start having fun again with the new variant spreading but we’ll see i guess.

Just back from biking and I saw my guy again and just like last time he was shooting baskets by himself. This time it wasn’t about to rain so I continued my ride. When I got back he was still there so I took a break and watched him for a while. After about 10 minutes he started to get his things together to go. My heart was racing. He walked back using the same shortcut path through the middle of the park that he did the previous time I saw him but this time I was sitting there quietly sipping on my bottled water trying not to look too obvious. He got closer and I was like ok finally my dream is about to come true! He got closer and closer. I didn’t dare look up, I just listened. He got to where I was..... and kept going. No acknowledgement whatsoever. I guess I should have expected that. Like someone said in a previous thread - rejection is best when its blunt. 😔 The whole thing had a very Third Man feel to it. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=N8Njr-jbj2s Maybe I’ll go to the beach tomorrow. 😐

Wow I had exactly the same thing happen to me. I was musing about my first time in a gay bar in another thread and I was gonna say just what you said but I thought it was getting too much into the weeds. Just more evidence that Hollywood and the msm are not on our side no matter how much they claim to be. We are only a thing of amusement to them and those of us who aren’t flamboyant or entertaining in some way are of no use to them. It would be understandable if it were 20 - 30 years ago when, as @Lucky so astutely pointed out, even some of us believed the stereotype. But the problem is they’re still propping up this image. Did any of you watch the coverage of the pride “festivities” on channel 7 last month? I could only watch for about 20 minutes before I wanted to throw up. Nothing but freaks, fems, and drag queens, which is fine if that’s what you are, but it would never have occurred to that smug, smirking reporter to interview anyone remotely normal looking. Disgusting! Anyone remember her name?

Don’t ever use these scam artists. My neighbor used them to clear out her (not even completely furnished) one bedroom apt. She donated most of the larger pieces to the Salvation Army and trashed all the smaller stuff. Anyway they were there less than 2 hours. 1500 bucks it came to! What a racket!