I understand what you are saying, been there. I don't get why people need to give asshole responses after you share your story. I haven't done it with hookers, but with a trainer, with a guy I had a crush on, and a lover. All happened in one year, but all had money problems and I helped them out to be kind (with a little bit of hoping they liked me back), but I also put out the expectation they would pay me back if I lent them money. Never got a cent back from any of them. One of them even keeps trying, and won't take no for an answer. I'm sorry for your experience, it sucks.