Active-participatory
This is an expression that in recent years is becoming very fashionable in gay jargon . The definition of this situational sexual behavior ; is that of the asset that in the posture used is allowed to penetrate orally also consenting to caresses in the anal part without ever reaching penetration by this route. The social origin of this behavior can be seen from two approaches; such as that many gays change from an active to versatile role with the respective socialization of this change and the second will be by the variation of the content of the words used in gay slang .
Despite the criticism of several sectors who think it is a disguised way of saying they are versatile, it should not be confused with this term, since unlike the versatile, active-participatory despite its flexibility in sexual participation does not consider that being penetrated is a means of obtaining pleasure. "Anything goes except to be penetrated . " It is a very common phrase among active-participatory.
Translated from Spanish on Wikipedia.