ScottLMT

Yeah just state what you aren't comfortable and they should respect that. "The customer is always right!"

I have a feeling if he's not really draping you well and your cock is popping out, he likes what he sees. Especially if he is stretching your legs and drape moves around and doesn't really cover you back up again. Part of me feels like it could be awkward if you bluntly asked for release. When I've worked on glutes and inner thighs, sometimes the guy has to adjust themselves to make themselves more comfortable. They would push their boner down and I would "accidentally" rub their cock while massaging their inner thigh. And there are times where I do have to move cock and balls out of the way to get to a muscle. Maybe ask for work on these areas so it gives him an excuse to get more handsy. Guys notoriously have tight adductors. The highest one is the pectineus and you usually have to push the ball sack up to get to it's origin. Depending on how your boner is. Some guys point up so it's on the stomach. If that's the case, request abdominal massage which is therapeutically great (such a neglected part, usually never gets massaged) but I usually have to move a cock around to get to the lower abs.

I was there Saturday, I had a fun time. I only go a couple times a year so I'm really just happy to be in a room with naked guys ;-) I agree with the assessment that some dancers are very popular and you just see them constantly walking to the back and you never get a chance. If you see someone you like be patient and pounce, don't wait for them to come up to you. My friend waited patiently while a dancer talked to a guy for 15 minutes and as soon as he they were done walked up and said hi. A minute later they were in the back.

Just remember the "extras" are usually secondary to a great massage. I've found some of the best therapists are ones who have received a lot of massages from different people. They know what feels good. Some of the best massages I've received were from non-licensed guys.

I've had people start with underwear on, and when it's time to work on glutes they take them off. If they complain about tight glutes or low back pain, I'll say direct work on the skin is best and I'll ask if I can pull them down a bit.

usually it's a matter of glide, normally you notice a difference when you switch from and oil to cream, but that's usually as a therapist, on the table they both may feel the same.

Yeah, not all Biotone products are hypoallergenic. So I'd ask them what the product name on the bottle is. And the contact dermatitis could come from something you were fine with before. I had a coworker that developed it on her arms from the lotion that we were required to use at the spa. She was fine there for over a year, then became sensitive to it. She had to make sure she washed her arms thoroughly after each massage.

Does he do any hamstring stretches? maybe request some. loose draping + hamstring stretches = things pop out

I'm never offended if someone calls me a masseuse. They know I'm a guy. I don't care what you call me, just as long as you call.

Thank you Stock Bar, sorry I didn't want to get anyone in trouble. I don't expect you to be able to fix these situations if you are not aware. I just wanted to have a good time and enjoy your establishment and I did. You were very gracious to our group and have some of the best dancers I've ever seen/felt ;-)

It was my first time in that space Saturday night. I enjoyed it more than the Paddles space. A bigger space would be better, felt cramped at times. Sometimes a guy would catch your eye, then you'd never see them again. I interacted with some of the headliners and the guys from LA and found them to be enjoyable. But since I only go to the nude party a few times a year, I think I'm probably more lax in standards, I'm just happy that Tim puts these events on.

stand your ground. I had a similar experience with another dancer earlier this month. He tried to charge me for 5 songs when it had just been 3. I paid him for 3 and told him he was one of the best dances I've ever had, until he tried to hustle me. The owner was sitting next to me by the bar, told him about it, but didn't name names. The dancer later came up to apologize saying that he was tired so he counted wrong. The next night he apologized again and offered to give me a free dance, I appreciate his offer but declined. Its such a common occurrence to be over charged for songs, that now I always start a stop watch when a lap dance starts.