dolorespark

No offense to all the posters all of you have had one post and are new members, and all say very similar things, which is making think these responses aren’t really real. Except looky Lou who has messaged me privately. 

I've never had a Thai massage before, but I'm assuming you're clothed the whole time and there's far less likelihood of it turning sensual. What's been everyone's experience with Thai massage and extras?

Thinking about this therapist in San Francisco:
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/46920/

I've never been clothed during a Thai massage..and I've have many from many different providers.
That said....all forms of masage will be organized according to the individual provider, not some universal rule book.
Every session I've had with someone who was from Thailand ended with extras. But Thai trained Americans may often be strictly therapeutic.  Again...all depends on the individual.

Shirtless with loose fitting athletic shorts, and a jock or briefs underneath. I think he is dipping his toe into these waters, realizing the potential, but trying to remain professional. Super real and nice person. If you have zero expectation, then anything is a bonus. the technique is excellent. I do not see this progressing beyond a possible HE and maybe mutual touch, and I think that would be totally vibe based . Keep your hidden fantasies of a therapeutic massage ending with you impaled under a porn star at bay, cause I don't see that outcome happening with anyone. He's just different than the others.

Tried him out. Very good looking and nice guy, but massage was sub-par.

I had a couple of great massages from Mark years ago back when he did sensual massages. Solid massage skills. Haven't tried him recently, though. He did confirm over text that he has retired from sensual bodywork. 

tried Nathan/Jack out. therapeutic only (no draping, though), but the massage itself was excellent (if you like deep pressure)

Quote from a masseur who posts both on both MF and Thumbtack:
 
Masseur: "Thumbtack charges per Lead. Every time you contact someone it's assumed that you have read all the specifics and therefore want to hire them. Your oversight cost me $7"
 
Me: "I had no idea. That's not something they make clear. Sorry"
 
Masseur: "It was included in the fine print when you signed up for the service. So now that you have the knowledge pay more attention..."
 
Notwithstanding that this admonishment was a bit harsh (I didn't include the entire exchange but you can probably get that the overall tone wasn't pleasant), has anyone read this in the 'fine print'? If this is true, then it really is something to consider as I often reach out this way to get more info. Though, I myself certainly won't be booking this particular masseur (his loss, I'm a very generous and extremely respectful client).

This is without a doubt the most vile post I have ever read on this forum. You bring irresponsibility to a whole new level, mister. Truly repugnant. If there’s a positive to this, it’s a wake-up call to us all that there are bad people out there. 

Tried him out. Very good looking and nice guy, but massage was sub-par.

fwiw, exchanged some messages -- purely therapeutic

fwiw, exchanged some messages -- purely therapeutic

it was years ago, but really bad experience with Jameson -- weak massage, very odd personality.

it was years ago, but really bad experience with Jameson -- weak massage, very odd personality.

Ahhh, it's the old "I can say whatever unsolicited nonsense I want, but you're hysterical and overreacting if you express an opinion about what I said". Good stuff.
 
I'll just point out that you were neither asking nor answering a question, so I'll politely decline your advice.

Tried him out. Very good looking and nice guy, but massage was sub-par.

In SF now. Has anyone actually seen him?
https://rentmasseur.com/discreetmassage

Saw him a couple years ago -- massage was great, but we did get a little carried away as I recall. Haven't had a chance to return, but definitely would.

Any experiences:
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/39409/

Any experiences:
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/39409/

Has anyone even gotten a response?

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35801/
 
Has anyone tried him? Wondering about his massage skills (says he's trained) and extras.
 
Previous thread in escorting had limited comments: https://m4m-forum.org/threads/any-411-on-joseph-sterling.133900/

Tried him about a year ago, massage was not very good, tbh.

For those not in the Bay Area, Powell and Montgomery are North-South streets in downtown San Francisco. My guess is that he changed apartments, since they are about 4 blocks apart.

I saw him a couple of times many years ago. HE and allows mutual touching, but all was performed in a perfunctory way. Massage technically was good, but was aloof. Maybe his enthusiasm just varies by client.