boiledeggz

Thank God for all the Nancy Drews on this board

I still don't know how anyone would be able to tell. To the person you are calling, your number should show up like any other phone number, no?

?? How would they know it's google voice? It's just like a regular number.

More reason to use Google voice...

I find this really fascinating... A genetic male who identifies as male but chose to surgically have a vagina created. I'm more interested how this person managed to convince a surgeon to do this given that ethically they usually require people to go through a formal transition process. Another thought just passed my mind.... There have been cases where children are born with indeterminate genitalia, and doctors essentially performed sex reassignment surgery so that these children could be raised as girls. Unfortunately, many of these children would later identify as male, causing severe dsyphoria.

Doesn't seem like there is any female looking breasts though...It looks like a male chest. The whole "it's surgical" phrase in the ad and the no chest scars makes me think this... but who knows.

My thought is that this person was a mtf transgender who decided that it was not for them, and decided to present as male again. There many cases of people who decide to de-transition back to their gender at birth. Further evidence of this is that there are no chest scars where the breasts would have been removed surgically.

The worst experiences in my life have been me doubting my gut instincts. I honestly think we're endowed with that ability to sense danger. I'd have done the same.

I'm saving this video and using it if I ever need to get rid of a viagra induced erection lasting over 4 hours

Fake pictures.... This is a Thai model on instagram.

Well Drained you could also just ignore the people who give "the look" and not apologize or acknowledge their blatant disrespect. I just don't see how apologizing to someone who is being a dick to you is "fighting the good fight." In my view, that unjustified deference is AS HARMFUL as the desperation of the trolls who have no self-awareness or social graces. You're feeding into the stereotype. If we're talking about projecting conventional masculinity, doesn't that mean not letting people run roughshod over you? It's just a thought.

Sean, I agree with your points. By no means do I think we are living in a post-racial society. Trump coming into power is a clear indication of how tenuous the issue of race truly is in America. In less than a decade, the US made a hard "correction" in the opposite direction. Discrimination is still rampant, it's just more hidden because no one wants to be filmed and end up on the evening news. And YES... I so agree with your comment that hotness is not owned by any one ethnic group. If you went to any of the circuit parties in Asia, especially Bangkok during Songkran, you'd just be overwhelmed by all the impossibly gorgeous Asian guys on display. Drained, when I refer to the "smart and savvy" Asian guys who date other Asian guys, I'm referring to US born, thoroughly American guys. I do not agree with your interpretation that this group of guys is mostly foreign born. Upbringing plays a big part, but I feel there is something much greater at play. But Drained, you brought up a good point......How can two people in similar environments end up with such divergent views? I think it boils down to the mindset of the individual. Are you an individualist who rejects the false, racist narratives that society forces on you? Or are you a conformist who needs the validation of the "in" group to have a sense of self? The same thing plays out with many gay men. As gay men, we've all dealt with persecution and alienation at some point in our lives. But why do some gay men rise above it and embrace their identity, while another subset of gay men live tortured, closeted lives? I don't disagree with your assessment of the realities of being gay and Asian-American. I just find it hard to accept your reaction to it. It's like how you described your dismay at Asian guys who act desperate. For me, I just can't reconcile in my mind the idea that I should apologize for being Asian. Quoththeraven, you make a really good point. When you really drill down to the root cause of homophobia it's really about society's deep-seated misogyny - the hatred of all things considered feminine or "weak". It's the reason why there's nothing worse for a straight man than to be called a "sissy". The same reason why GAY men reject feminine gay guys, and put down "bottoms".

Some of the points made here, while true to a degree, need to be given more context. First off, not all Asian guys are burdened in the same way in terms of self-loathing. There are a subset of Asian guys who struggle tremendously with internalized self-hatred. And in my opinion those are the ones who are only interested in White / Non-Asian men. These Asian guys who only prefer men of races other then their own tend to have severe issues involving self-esteem because they seek a kind of validation of their own viability and attractiveness through White men. To be clear, I'm 100% for equal opportunity dating / sex. It's the act of excluding one's own race that really disturbs me. THEN we get to another group of Asian-American guys who actively seek out and date OTHER ASIANS. These guys tend to be confident in their attractiveness and place in the gay dating world. They do not pine away waiting for White / Non-Asian men to validate their existence or desirability. In fact, I would say that the majority of under 30 Asian guy prefer to date exclusively other Asians. They are smart and savvy and will not allow society to dictate how they feel about themselves. It's the ones who exclude their own race that wrestle the hardest with feelings of inferiority. Which makes perfect sense, because if they can't find others in their own race sexy, how could they possibly view themselves as sexy / desirable. This deep-seated uneasiness in one's own skin spills over into many aspects of their lives, often resulting in deep depression and loneliness. My Asian friends who are into other young Asian guys have very active dating and sex lives. They're not waiting around for White men to validate them at all. Some of the points made are outdated. Being in my 30s, I have seen things change tremendously in terms of the gay Asian male identity. When I was just coming out, it was just assumed that Asian guys were pining away for some white savior to come and sweep them off their feet. Now the Asian guys are built, sexy, successful, and most want to date other confident, sexy, Asian guys. Things are clearly still not great in terms of discrimination, but they have changed drastically.

Google voice, pseudonym, cash.....

Can you elaborate? That place has been so over the top for a while.

Seriously, why do you care what they think? They took the job agreeing to the terms. They're supposed to be serving your needs. Hell they're paid to do so. Who cares what they think, their job is to pretend they're having an amazing time. Their job is to create a fantasy. It's not an actual date where you have to offer the best version of yourself to get another date. You just pay them. I see so much of this weird deference shown to escort on here. Some of the posters here seem really hard up for companionship. Of course there has to be mutual respect, but I see so much over the top efforts to please the escort. It's a transaction, stop deluding yourself they actually care.

LOL at all the guys from the spas writing in broken English trying to drum up business. We all know your posts are fake. I have to give some of you guys credit. You've graduated from just posting fake reviews to creating several sock puppet accounts talking back and forth with each other trying to create a convincing conversation.

Here's a thought, why don't you get a massage from him and then report on actual facts instead of ruminating on potential outcomes based on an "interaction" you had with him (which if you broke it down was not an actual interaction at all).

The reality is that it's mostly bullshit. They know why people use their services and charge accordingly. Let's not kid ourselves about overhead .

@Jeff1970 Just curious, have you been experiencing some personal challenges lately? You seem to be on the warpath with any and all for seemingly no reason.

If that one was posted, I would have said the same. I don't go scouring for weird ads, though.

I don't see how you got racist out of that. I'm referring to the sheer oddness of his ad.

File this one under what the fuck.

If the entire time during the massage you must be clenching your ass tight and be on guard because rape is a possibility, well why the fuck get a massage at all? That sounds awful. To be on edge from the get-go is the total opposite of what a massage should be. Here's an important fact about sociopaths and assholes who take advantage of people - they are master manipulators and appear to be "nice" and "sane" but will turn on you on a dime. If someone has been lulled into a relaxed mood and not on guard, someone physically stronger can force penetration. Sure you can push them off, but it ALREADY HAPPENED. Worst yet, if the masseur was already close to climax, and they pushed in AT THAT MOMENT, they could cum inside you. You can push them off, but it already happened. It is not unreasonable to expect a safe experience.

This whole incident is so wrong on so many levels. The masseur clearly has no idea about professional boundaries or just common human decency. You do not assume anything about what the other person wants, just because it's an "erotic massage". That can mean so many things to different people, and the most decent thing to do is ask before you shove your cock in someone. On top of that, he did it bareback. That indicates to me a sociopathic mentality where that person has little regard for the other person, only their own pleasure. It's truly sick. And not everyone is equipped to deal with a situation like that. Many people have issues of self-esteem where they lack the ability to speak up for themselves. Something that is natural to you and me, like yelling "get the fuck off me" is not so obvious to someone who has chronic low self-esteem. Does that mean they deserve to get taken advantage of? Absolutely not. The time it takes for someone to shove their dick inside you can be a split second, and if they were grinding on you and already close to cumming, the moment they pop inside, they can instantly cum. That is too little time for anyone to react. The client could be cool with the masseur grinding on them, but doesn't mean you can then put your bare cock in. I recall some nutty politician saying that rape cannot happen if a woman doesn't want it to, because her "body would reject it."