If you don’t mind a short-ish muscle guy, there is “Gabriel Cross”:
https://rentmen.eu/GabrielCross
He is very attentive, he is a very bright, happy guy, very much a good listener and can do everything you describe, and much more if you feel like it! (I am told he is a great top, I have tried him and found him to be a great bottom).
He provided me with an unrushed, very enjoyable time.
He loves a man’s body: I felt as if he was into me, even though I am not good looking.
If you would like to see more before deciding you can find some of his porn leaked on pornhub, etc. Just search for his stage name, “Gabriel Cross”.
He is strongly recommended not just by me, but by others on this forum, like @JEC.
Let us know who you choose and how it went!