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Not only is he headless, which isn't a problem for me, but he doesn't state what he does and doesn't do and THAT IS a problem for me. Is he a top? Is he a bottom? Does he kiss? Is he into mutual oral? As far as I'm concerned his ad is totally worthless!!!!!

Greetings and Happy Holidays to all. 2020 is right around the corner. To those of you planning, or even considering, on attending the Palm Springs weekend in April it is DEFINITELY time to make transportation and hotel reservations. From what I read here I realize that many of you have already done so - great. I'm not terribly concerned about those of you who will be returning as you already know the routine. However, each year we have some new guys attending, which is absolutely fantastic, and I want to encourage them to get going with those reservations. April is the height of the Palm Springs season and hotels book up quickly. I'm sincerely looking forward to seeing and visiting with lot's of "old" friends and hopefully lot's of new attendees as well. Let's make the 2020 Palm Springs Weekend the biggest and the best yet.

I have seriously considered hiring him in the past BUT he doesn't list kissing as something he is into and that is an absolute deal breaker for me.

In all my years of hiring I have NEVER set up a get together solely by using rentmen. I use rentmen only for eye candy and to make an initial contact. If the escorts responds positively to my rentmen contact I give him my cell number and my email address and we proceed from there. Nowadays most guys prefer to text and I've adjusted to that fact. I have never gone through all the complicated rig amole of burner phones and special email addresses in order to maintain anonymity. I have always believed, and still do, that if my life would be destroyed if the fact that I hire escort should become public then I should NOT be hiring escorts. There is absolutely NO way to guarantee absolute anonymity - the entire concept is a fiction. If a prospective client won't provide the escort with simple contact information then I strongly recommend that the escort ignore the jerk and move on.

Talk about a memory from the distant past. Just after I started hiring, about seventeen year ago, I drove to San Diego (Mission Bay) and got together with Miller for lunch and some play time. He had a great body and was very participatory. I totally enjoyed myself even though I was somewhat clueless, at the time, regarding all the possible activities we might have tried. Damn he was fun!!!!!

I haven't done a 3-way in a number of years. When I was doing them my regular escort and I would select a guy we BOTH found hot and interesting. We then worked out, in some detail, how to choreography the scene. We would then contact our choice and explain to him exactly what we planned to do. In three-ways planning is absolutely essential if it is going to be successful. Arranging a three-way with an escort couple can be tricky. I have done only two. One was an absolute disaster as during the session the two wouldn’t touch each other thus I found myself turning from one to the other. The other couple three-way was incredible. We did everything I could possibly have hoped for with each other. We virtually set the sheets on fire. The session if one of my most memorable.

Anybody have an experience with the Atlanta guy? https://rentmen.eu/RomanCharter

Well if he ever decided to visit the West Coast I'm more than ready to take him for a spin.

This question has come up periodically over the sixteen years I have participated on this site. I believe that I’m the buyer in this market and not the seller. I always provide the escort with whom I’m communicating a complete physical description of myself including age, weight, height, ethnicity and physical condition. I NEVER provide a photograph My refusal to provide escorts with a photograph has absolutely nothing to do with issues of discretion or insecurity. It has totally to do with what I consider an appropriate request and an inappropriate one. I usually hire escorts based on their photographs and self- descriptions on rentmen. If they accept clients on the basis of physical appearance I believe that they seriously need to consider an occupation change. If an escort required a photograph of me for ANY reason I would find that request insulting and immediately terminate all further communication. Now if my memory serves me correctly I have NEVER been asked to provide a photograph by a prospective hire.

Hey MikeBiDude that is exactly what I did at the end of the trip to France. Great minds - right.

If I intend to do a considerable amount of driving after a long flight I ALWAYS pick up the car and then spend the night at a hotel very near the airport. I did that last fall when I spend three weeks driving in Burgundy and the Loire Valley of France. I drove over a thousand miles during the trip. At the end of it I spend the last night in the same hotel as the first. For me, at least, this system makes for a very relaxing beginning and ending of a trip.

Welcome to the forum Bentley_xxl. Glad to hear you are planning to attend the Palm Springs Weekend. One MAJOR advantage with this site, over others, is that those of us who participate here are accustomed to hiring escorts. As a rule, there are always exceptions, we appreciate the services escorts provide and treat them politely and with respect. One thing you might consider is that the guys here are generally older - 50+. I for example am 79. When I look at your photographs I find that you are very much the physical type of guy I like to hire. My problem is that the number of activities you list as being into is very limited. P.S. Rereading your profile I see that you are a Scorpio, so am I thus if we ever manage to get together we should be able to set the sheets afire.

In his photographs on the above site there are a couple of shot of him flipping off the camera - a major turn off for me. One of the photographs shows him with a woman - a major turn off for me. In several photographs he is shown demeaning a guy - a major turn off for me. In all the photographs he has posted there isn't one cock shot - a major turn off for me. On the positive side he does have a great body even though he has decorated it with way too much ugly ink - just my opinion.

Thought I would separate this topic from the Palm Springs Weekend thread. As I have aged I have come to hate long flights more and more. Living on the West Coast, as I do, means Europe is, at least, a ten or eleven hour flight. I still have a couple more European trips to do but that will be enough for me. I am planning a non stop flight to Singapore which entails being in the air for eighteen or nineteen hours. I am going business class and if the price gets too outrageous before I plan to go I'M NOT GOING. Three to five hours is about all I'm up to anymore. That consideration will allow me to visit most places in the United States, Canada, and Mexico and that's just fine with me.

I'm a pie lover but pumpkin pie is my least favorite -- for some reason pumpkin always tastes soapy to me. When I was growing up a distant relative always brought a mincemeat pie for the family Thanksgiving Dinner. She made it with venison and it was to die for. Unfortunately when she died she took the recipe with her. Would love to find a recipe.

He lives in Orange County as do I. He is very much my type. However, it will be a cold day in hell when I send a prospective hire money up front. Just another foolish guy testing the waters.

On another thread a poster mentioned a classy thing an escort had done. Based on his comment I decided to start a separate threat regarding some of the really classy things some of these guys have done for us clients. All of the escorts, who post, on this site that I know personally, are in my opinion classy guys. However, one incident that took place nine or ten years ago still stands out in my mind. I was staying in Austin, Texas at the time and Benjamin Nicholas agreed to drive over from San Antonio to spend an evening with me. This was our first, and unfortunately only, meeting. We went out to a very nice dinner and near the end of it I excused myself to go to the restroom. When I returned, to my dismay I learned that he had already paid the bill. No matter how much I asked, no matter how much I pleaded, no matter how much I demanded he would NOT allow me to reimburse him. PURE CLASS!!!!!

At one time he lived here in Southern California. I contacted him, a couple of years ago, but did not see him as his fee was way over the top. Unfortunately I can't remember what his fee was - sorry. His response to my inquiries was prompt and polite.

I will not be leaving a considerable amount of money to anyone as my major financial asset is my pension. I do, however, have a goodly number of very valuable possessions. I have every intention of leaving those items to individuals and institutions who hopefully will appreciate and enjoy them as much as I have. Some of those items might be left to one or two escorts of whom I'm very fond. I've made arrangements for a number of my books to go to the Library of Congress. I've spent years collecting first edition recollections of Brits who were in Indian during the 1857-58 Mutiny and the Library has expressed an interest in having them. I have already donated over 300 of my personal books to a local library. I also have a large collection of Southwest Native American Arts and Crafts. The entire collection is being left to the Gift Shop of the Heard Museum in Phoenix with the money from their sale going to scholarships for young Native Americans to learn how to make item like those in my collection. I sincerely believe that what we decide to do with our money and our possessions upon our death is our individual business and no one else’s. P.S. In the above I failed to mention that I have two wonderful nephews who are both VERY successful financially. They each make considerably over $300,000 a year. There are some family heirlooms that they will, of course, be getting. I constantly get the same financial advice from them both – “Spend it all we don’t want it and we don't need it”

Yea I got the double entendre RealAvalon, BUT we do have some attendees who aren't the meat lovers (carnivores) I am. Thus I am always on the look out for new and interesting food to prepare for the Sunday Pool Party.

RealAvalon very interesting point. I love to cook and frequently entertain my extended family during the holidays. I have one niece who is a vegetarian -- no problem I can and will prepare dishes she can eat. I have another niece who is a vegan -- major problem. She won't eat any food that has been prepared using cookware that has been used preparing meat, dairy or eggs. She thinks I’m being difficult when I tell her to bring her own food. I’m not about to equip my kitchen with a separate set of cookware just to satisfy her. I am indeed a carnivore. My idea of a perfect death is a major heart attack at 95 with a great glass of red wine in one hand and a blood rare steak in the other. P.S. If anybody has some excellent vegetarian hors d’oeuvres they are willing to share I’m more than willing to give them a whirl.

As I've stated many times before I've been involved in this hiring game for over seventeen years. After that many years I simply cannot imagine what an escort can do for me in an hour that would be worth $500. Additionally a discount of $50 for the second hour I personally find insulting. Maybe he will find takers in the New York marked but I seriously doubt that fee will wash in other markets even including mine in L.A.

I'd go with Rainer. He states clearly that he is versatile and is into kissing, anal and oral. Joey on the other hand doesn't state anything that he is into.

As a longtime observer of both the porn industry and the male escort business I have come to a number of, what I consider, interesting conclusions. The porn world is an extremely dangerous one for participants. If one looks back over the last fifteen or twenty year it is astounding how many porn performers have committed suicide or died of drug overdoses. The porn industry is riddled with drugs and tends to devoir its own. A porn performer it at his peak/most valuable when he makes his first film/DVD – from then on it is, in most cases, a downhill trajectory. Two “stars”/performers come immediately to my mind, Josh Weston and Mathew Rush. Josh Weston first danced at the Nob Hill in San Francisco and began escorting at about the same time. I met him just after his first Falcon DVD was released. He was a very sweet guy who was actually rather shy. He virtually gave up escorting to pursue a career in porn. It was NOT a pleasant experience watching his descent into oblivion. He eventually died young, in his sleep, of a variety of too many drugs. Mathew Rush was a poster boy for the porn performer who was extremely disdainful of guys who escorted. He insisted in numerous interviews that he was an actor not a prostitute. Yet as his porn career waned he ventured into escorting on several occasions but seemed unable to make a success of it. He has also had serious problems with drugs and if I remember correctly has had a couple of run ins with the law. Frankly the real money is in escorting; NOT in porn. However, a number of guy have successfully used porn in order to promote a career in escorting. There are a number of guys, who post on this site, who have had very successful career escorting for five, ten, fifteen or more years. They are intelligent, personable, mostly drug free, damn good businessmen and they invest their earnings in the future. I have great respect for these guy. They have given me an enormous amount pleasure.

My sister is currently under treatment at a local National Cancer Institute research facility. Her oncologist is about a 35 year old drop dead gorgeous Iranian bodybuilder type. Recently we were talking about a trip he had made to France and he stated that he hadn't spent any time in Paris. Since he was wearing a wedding ring I asked if he and his wife had already visited Paris. He responded that he had but his "husband" had not. When I said that that would teach me NOT to make assumptions he simply laughed and said it happened all the time. Damn do I envy that husband. Not only is this guy drop dead gorgeous he is also one of the leading international authorities in his area of cancer research -- talk about having it all!!