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SuperJunior

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  1. I don't think today's social media access has a lot to do with my ideas re: my appearance/desirability. Since I came out about 30 years ago, I've always been the last picked among my friends. I rarely hooked up at bars and have never been cruised in any other place that seems to happen to many men I know (gym, Kroger, pool, party, etc). I used to be jealous that my sex/romantic life was dull compared to the exuberant courses of my friends and peers, but it just became evident that folks are different. Some of us are beige. If everyone were exceptional looking, no one would be. It didn't affect me until I was in my late thirties and I started getting depressed when I'd hang out and remain alone. I stopped going to bars and focused more on visiting with friends and making new pastimes. That led to outright celibacy rather than a twice-a-year dalliance, but I am certainly more content. Sorry for meandering. I just meant to say that in person experiences taught me that I'm not of interest to most men outside friendship, not Grindr, etc.and I'm okay with my looks although they are far from my best feature.

  2. I will be also staying at Canyon Club. I am also a first timer, and I am very shy in social settings. Do not feel alone.

     

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    I didn’t know this would be be your first time. Seems there are a lot of us.

  3. Do you like to rim, be rimmed, both, curious, or never done?

     

    Both. If I have to choose, I suppose I'd be the rimmer. A great session of 69 rimming is just the best, though.

  4. I'm curious: do y'all send thank you notes to your doctors/dentists/lawyers/therapists after an appointment? Do y'all expect to receive them? I realize we don't all have the same understanding of the nature of client/escort relationships, but I tend to think of them as professional visits, so I never automatically send thank you notes or expect to receive them, unless I would like the relationship to develop into a different kind of friendship.

     

    LOL. I understand this statement, but I've never deeply kissed my doctor/dentist/lawyer/therapist during anal intercourse. Or at any time, for that matter. I think there's a different type of gratitude being expressed by OP. I have sent some of those folks thank you cards and fruit baskets, on occasion. They really appreciate the gesture. Must be a gentleman thing. :p:D:rolleyes:

  5. HBO's Oz and True Blood are great and have interesting, complex, same-sex representation. Sometime very HOT complex same sex representation. I'm very hesitant to name the best show of all time, queer-adjacent or otherwise. How can Monty Python's Flying Circus be compared to The Twilight Zone to I Love Lucy to The Tonight Show to Battlestar Gallactica to Batman to The West Wing? That damned eye of the beholder is always hanging out on the corner with its cigarettes and rock-and-roll. I'm sure all the recommendations here are worth watching. You have an advantage over those of us who watched as they aired in that they've all ended. You can watch as much or as little as you like!

  6. It’s a friendly rivalry. I’m not sure competition is the right descritpor. It’s like rock, paper, scissors; but with coconut oil and jockstraps. Cock, rimmer, scissors position? Anyway, it’s great to have all the hotties gather at Canyon Club. The winners will end up at INNdulge. :p

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