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Caveat emptor. Like it is said in another thread, with Bel Ami boys, it is "feast or fast".....

First of all, congratulations on seeking and finding outside counseling. As to your question, a totally sexless relation definitely would lead me to incredible frustration and resentment. In my particular case, although sex in my 15-year-old relationship has gone down to a minimum, it is very much still there and, to compensate, my boyfriend allows me to see escorts whenever I feel the urge, no questions asked. Isn't your partner being overly selfish? I couldn't agree more with those two comments. It seems to me that your partner wants to have his cake and eat it too, whatever the reasons are for his forswearing sex altogether.

My partner of 15 years knows that I hire escorts, and I know that he does too. In fact, our most important rule is that "extra curricular" activities can take place with escorts ONLY. Non-commercial hook ups are off limits. Another rule is that we tell each other everything, before and after the deed. The system has worked well for the two of us.

Good luck, @Reluctant Daddy. I hope that whatever you decide works for you.

Sorry to hear about your situation, @Reluctant Daddy. You have received great advice here. Let me share my experience. Very good points. I have been in a relationship myself for 15 years now. Although I am 10 years older than my partner, my sexual appetite is a lot bigger than his, and I do mean a lot. We still have sex occasionally --and it is always magnificent when it happens--, but not nearly as often as I would like, and he actually encourages me to satisfy my hunger somewhere else. The most important rule is that my flings happen ONLY with an escort, precisely for the reasons mentioned by @nate_sf above. Non-commercial hook ups are strictly off limits. Believe me, I take him up on his offer, and I am a frequent hirer. My sweetheart also does it every blue moon or so, and we are both happy campers. I sincerely hope that your situation takes a turn for the better.

Ridiculous. What about "I play with both femininity and androgyny" ? Well, after all he is only 21, he likes using "biiiig" words.

Definitely agree with @inthepit3 and @marylander1940.

I am pretty sure Kevin Warhol does not escort, @BabyBoomer and [uSER=12070]@NYClocker[/uSER]. If he did, I would have already made him a regular of mine, believe me! I have asked some Bel Ami boys I have had the privilege to meet, and their answer has always been that Kevin is kind of in a different league, that he is "a superstar". The same, I'm afraid, would apply to Kris Evans, who is in Budapest. Now, I guess that if we could get to George Duroy himself, and if money were no object, maybe, just maybe, we could fulfill the fantasy. Wishful thinking, let's keep on dreaming. :rolleyes:

He is definitely gorgeous and his ad sounds fantastic. Somebody taking one for the team?

Yes, yes, please share, @Chance, please do. We all want to know!

Yummy, @jjkrkwood, just yummy

Different strokes....He has another big one on his leg. I hate tattoos, but this kid is so damn sexual that I am willing to forget. Not that I will ever get close to him (I live in Prague and I have tried to no avail ), but his videos are great, great, great jack off material.....

I find his tattoo absolutely hideous, but the kid is just too damn sexy. His performances on Bel Ami videos are simply scorching hot....

Kevin Warhol is a true dreamboat....

You are right. Inflation is what it is.

I have never paid anybody that amount for an hourly session, and I don't think I ever will.

Beautiful boy, beautiful.

Digress, @adriano46, digress, please continue digressing. Pretty please.

No, @latbear4blk, in my book he needs both to shave AND get rid of the tattoos. In other words, he is not for me.

His tattoos are a total no-no.

I do have a problem, @BaronArtz. I couldn't care less what they think about how I look. It is not that. This is why: Exactly my thought. You never know where your pic will end up. Like @greatnorthernp says, "Some of us who hire are very public figures whose lives would be negatively impacted should the pics be made public."

I am with @AdamSmith on this one. Go for it (him)!

Spectacular body, indeed! I don't care about the hair, not a bit, but why on earth does he have all that ink? Too bad...

Yes, I have met rimmers-but-no-kissers. Once, after a particularly heavy rimming session --which was thoroughly enjoyable, the guy had talent-- I asked the escort:"why don't you kiss?". He replied: "because kissing is too intimate". His reply floored me. He had just had his tongue up my ass and licked my nether region, for God's sake! Fortunately, I found a boy in Prague who is a fantastic kisser AND an amazing rimmer. Paradise!

I wish I could make exceptions, @TruHart1, I wish I could. My problem? Without passionate, intimate, deep kissing, I simply do NOt get hard, no matter how hot the guy is, or how well he sucks, or how much Cialis I swallow . Believe me, I have tried. I am just wired that way.