JBrian72

You made the right decision. PM me for some recommendations if you'd like.

The very first one was Robert Conrad, star of "The Wild, Wild West"....

I was interested in hiring Mark (SoTe), but the conversation I had with him online turned me off. I decided to contact him through Adam4Adam a week before my trip to Chicago in March so that we could chat instead of exchanging emails. I waited until I knew exactly what my availability was before asking for specifics. He mentioned that he was in Oak Park and could not host but he could drive to my hotel in River North. I asked him how much it would be, and he said:
 
"160 therapeutic massage
That includes travel & parking fee
If you want something more sensual or erotic that's more"
 
When I asked him if the 160 rate was for one hour, this was his reply:
 
"I find guys want and trained talented therapist who understands the body AND can make you feel amazing and satisfied. I do both but I need to be compensated.
I hate when guys just expect a hand job or a fuck for free."
 
I had never mentioned anything more than a massage, though it was Adam4Adam. I apologized for wasting his time. Seeing the comments from @Jacque, @Capitano, and @JBrian72 confirms that I made the right decision. There are too many really good therapists in Chicago (see my post #54 in this thread) to pay rates like that to someone who thinks he is the only one.

Downright yummy!

Saw Mark once. Descent massage but basically tried to top me several times to the point i had to end it. i wasnt there to be a bottom, i wanted a relaxing massage. He should try to escort more.

Sensual Massage is focused on the actual touch of the skin. Stimulating the skin and the senses. It may be very soft, or firm. It may excite and even turn you on and it may include a happy ending. But its goal is to stimulate and soothe.
 
Therapeutic Massage is focused on the muscle and tissues underneath the skin. It includes many portions of the sensual massage, but it is focused on moving the muscles, breaking down adhesions, stretch, increase the range of movement and enhancing the body fluid movement. It may turn you on and it may or may not include a happy ending. But its goal is to relax.
 
Erotic Massage is focused on erogenous zones and turning you on. It is meant to stimulate your awareness, instead of your skin. Your skin may be stimulated, but the focus is on increasing your awareness and sexual presence. It may include stroking your cock or edging you. It may include your nipples, nape of your neck, hands, feet, ass, taint, cock, or anything else that may turn you on and heighten your senses. It is usual to expect a happy ending, or use it as a prelude to something more sexual. A happy ending is not unusual. But the goal is to turn you on.
 
It more blunt terms... sensual is rubbing; therapeutic is massaging; and erotic is foreplay.
 
Just my tuppence.

I took the plunge. Sweet kid. Greeted and said goodbye with a nice hug. Table. Nice apartment. At times the massage was really great; and others I thought this isn't good and I wondered how much training he's had.
 
No extras. He didn't offer. I didn't ask. (Though his ad says something like rates 'start at' $110' so 'your mileage may vary.')
 
If something happens, I prefer it to be organic. But that's just me. Ultimately, I just want a nice, strong, professional massage. I mostly got one, but I'm not sure I'd repeat. I might.

Exact same experience here!

I've seen Mark (sotemark). VERY interactive, perhaps more than I would have liked. Nice guy, but not in the greatest shape and talks way too much - tried to analyze me and I just wanted to relax. I might repeat.

I've seen Mark (sotemark). VERY interactive, perhaps more than I would have liked. Nice guy, but not in the greatest shape and talks way too much - tried to analyze me and I just wanted to relax. I might repeat.

What a flake, how difficult is it to mean what you say and say what you mean?
 
He might be better with outcalls in LV but when he travels and you try to schedule an incall, it can be a total runaround. I am still not sure what his issue was.
 
My first attempt to schedule a 90-minute appointment, sent around noon, waited for his answer till early evening and the story was "I can only do 9:30 PM or later."
OK, I ask: "are you sure you won't be too tired for a 90 minute appointment?" to which he says "oh, no, no problem," so we schedule 9:30-11 PM. Just when I am about to get in the car, I get a message saying that he may be able to do only 60 minutes. No explanation, but OK, I suggest that we try the following day instead, to which he agrees.
 
The following afternoon, I text asking about his availability. He gets back to me after another longish delay, and we agree to 7:30-9 PM. This time, I am already in my car when I get another message "hey, I may only be able to do one hour, I hope that's ok." WTF?! If you don't want to do 90 minute appointments don't list them in your ad. And don't agree to one at 6 pm only to change your mind at 6:15 pm. And what's up with "I MAY be able to do only 60," you are either able or not and you should know it. Sorry for trying to spend at least $220 on you, my bad!

And here's an even later response about Zach..he's done some pretty impressive porn under the name, Airman Zach.
You can check him out by going onto pornhub and putting Airman Zach in the search box.
Very, very hot!

Those photos feel like they're 20 years old...

So many gorgeous men. I can't help but wonder how many of them made it through the '80's

Wow! Thanks for replying in a sound and professional way. Means a lot to me.

Just got a massage from Wally. I was VEEEERY happy.

Shit you are better than me..I normally do call things off because not only have you wasted my time, but that is 3.50 dollars ATM fees I will never get back!

Simon Dunn
http://www.alanilagan.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/1simon-dunn-001003.jpg
and to see the goods, click here

I am set to meet with him next week in SD. He does go to school and works another job. I wish the internet and a site like RM was available when I was a college kid attending Stanford. I would have totally been spending every weekend flying or driving wherever to meet clients . Rather I was doing valet work and waiting tables and struggling. I have discovered with these young college guys that they know what they have to offer. If they are fun, smart, clean and safe and respectful they can clean up and still have time to do the college scene and go to school.

Here's some links - a bit mixed:
 
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-marco-or-mike-in-la.121144/#post-1219924
 
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/marco-brazilian-visiting-la.119268/
 
https://rentmen.com/Brazilianmuscle

I had a good experience with Marco. He usually travels with another masseur (they might be partners) so he offered a 4 hand, which I accepted and had a nice time. In great shape exactly like pics.

Nick is terrific. Sweetest kid, gorgeous body, conscientious masseur. But just mutual touch/release, nothing more.