That's funny. Another VERY well known companion told me that LA has not been working out for him. Is there a reason for that? Too many possibilities available? LA presents a niche market (e.g., young, blonde, windsurfers)?
I'm kind of like you. Even if I go into a situation thinking I am going to bottom the fact that I love to rim and tend not be passive makes me end up on top. Even when I am a bottom, I guess I end up a "power bottom." In some ways I am looking for a total top and I need to learn to adjust my own behavior to make that happen.