I think it all depends on your expectations. I am much older than you, average build, and what you would call follicularly challenged. I went just wanting to lay by the pool during the day to get a tan and then attend the Forum events (dinner and pool party) to interact with all the people who wrote on the Forum. I did not expect anything else to occur and my expectations were always met and I had a really nice time. I think if you go expecting sex romps (unless you are going to pay for them) your expectations probably won't be met. However, as in life, things crop up that you just can't plan for.