It is a funny situation. I have seen the same escort for many years. There have been times however when I just wanted him to experience something (e.g., a band or a play) because I knew he would enjoy it and it would make me happy to take him. So we would do these things. In some ways it was hard to make sure that the non-sexual experiences would stay that way but it always happened. Except for one time. We watched a movie that I wanted him to see at my place and then we started to drink some wine. Then some quasi-cuddling started and it then became what I did not want to happen. I felt awful and actually kept saying each step of the way, "Don't do that because then this is going to happen." And of course it did. But that was the only time.