HornyRetiree

My advice: pay attention. Learn your limits. Learn what he likes. Trust me, when you focus on what you're doing and his reactions, you'll notice a hitch in his breath when you lick a certain way. Or maybe he likes very light suction. Or maybe he enjoys alot of lube, a firm hand--but not too firm--on his shaft while you gently suck and lick the head of his cock in a motion that simulates penetration. Every guy is different. Some LOVE a finger rubbing behind their balls while you suck. Some love a finger rubbing over their anus or perhaps playing with their nipples. Some really get off on having their balls licked or gently sucked. Does he get off on holding your head and fucking your mouth? If he enjoys deepthroat and you're able to go there, does he enjoy holding your neck so he can feel as his cock penetrates your throat? Does he want lots of saliva?
 
Oh! I almost forgot, many guys like how gagging feels on their cock, plus it adds a psychological dimension that makes them feel very powerful (control over your life) and turned on that you'd submit yourself so completely. If your guy enjoys gagging, you can learn how to control it a bit so it doesn't actually lead to throwing up, but that's an advanced course.
 
Ask him what he likes and explore. Pay attention to his reactions. His breathing. Does his cock throb when you do a certain thing? The list goes on.

My main advice is to 1) intermingle licking/sucking his shaft and sucking on his head, 2) suck and stroke his cock at varying his rates, 3) suck on his balls (at varying points you are doing the above), 4) lick from the head of his cock to his hole in a masterful swoop so it seems effortless and seamless, 5) stroke his cock while you tongue fuck him - if he lets you - 6) finger his ass while you paying attention to his cock - again if he lets you - and 7) kiss him and stroke him when it seems right. At all times, I use as much saliva as possible. And I try to mix things up as much as possible. The highest compliment I have gotten is after the guy came as the result of a blow job he said to me, "It was like you were making love to my cock."
 
P.S. Incorporate nip play if it seems that gets him hard.

Once you accept your physical limits (or even if you just don't feel like deep-throating) remember you can make a guy's cock feel really, really good in other ways. Figure out what he likes done and do it. Believe me they won't even notice what you are not doing if they cum by what you do. Or it has worked that way For me.

Interesting. I find I can most easily deepthroat on my back, with my head hanging off the end of a bed. That creates a nice straight path. On all fours looking straight ahead is a close second.

I find that I can deepthroat much better when 69'ing (depending on the shape and curve) - something about the angle allows me to slurp down quite a mouthful.

no voting is so 2018!

good point!
 
Unfortunately in the eyes of the law in some states urinating in public might get you banned from voting, but thank God not from hiring.

No way... If folks have that much money to "blow", why not spend it on helping someone less fortunate or buying book(s) for a college kid...

Maybe you can try and ask if he does lingam massages. That's penis-centric.

The very first erotic massage I ever had was with David in Seattle (his website is/was DavidInSeattle.com but appears to have expired--so I'm not sure if he's still active or not); it was definitely something I'd describe as a formative experience. The "massage" part took maybe ten minutes before he asked if he could "work on [my] penis" and boy howdy did he. I had the most incredible orgasm of my life thanks to that man.
 
I've had a dozen and a half (maybe more) erotic massages since then, and most were pretty good, but none of these guys really made the experience about my penis and the subsequent orgasm the way that David did. Am I maybe asking for the wrong thing, or not realizing what to ask for in the first place... or did I just sort of stumble across a "once in a lifetime" kind of experience?

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Let me give you a hand to find it!

One for each day of the week - yum!

I too have had great success on SA. Unfortunately, the arrangements rarely last that long. Guys start to flake or want more money or they don't live up to their end. And of course, I've grown bored once or twice. Still a great place to meet some guys for 1-3 month casual relationships. I consider it a portion of my escort stock portfolio. I still prefer to put 80-90% in hourly guys. Better paying dividends

Sadly, I've not met any other escorts in real life. I've reached out to a couple for coffee or brunch (my treat) when I've been traveling to bigger cities, but usually get no response when I say that I'm another escort.
 
I look forward to trying again on my travels with some members of the forum. (Eric, for one)

Treat yourself - do both!

He's someone I really am in a dilemma with, do I suck or do I fuck?

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griffin Barrows ass
 
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The very first time I hired an escort (likely around 1977), the guy was a gymnast attending SF State U.
 
I asked him to do some floor exercises for me while naked; he graciously complied.
 
I've had a very long time interest in this subject!

Why so coy? Naked means naked.

Noice!
 
But if I can't see their dick and/or their butt hole they are not naked

The oldest man I ever met was 82(Sadly he has passed). We would get together for Bible Study before...ahem. Wow I'm going to Hell.

Guilty as charged, octogenarians to the front of the line