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Table, always. There are maybe one or two masseurs I know who can deliver a really good massage on a bed, but otherwise a proper massage table makes a huge difference.

$300 /hour condom only

I really think these guys’ pics are enhanced. When I met him, he was really short and on the slim/skinny side. In these photos, he looks a lot more athletic, and they don’t really show how short he is. From what I remember, he also came across as more on the femme side. Also, the massage table he used was like a toy massage bed. Really small. I barely fit on it and honestly thought it was going to collapse at some point. 😆

This screams cheap service trying desperately to look expensive, despite all the diamonds, gold sparkles, and luxury effects. I don’t know who designed this, but it looks like they typed: “Make it luxury.” Then clicked: “More luxury.” Then: “MORE luxury.” Then: “Add diamonds.” Then: “Not enough diamonds.” 😂 The funny part is that the prices themselves don’t bother me. It’s the graphic. It looks less like a premium service menu and more like a VIP package for a cryptocurrency conference at a casino. The giant stock-photo diamonds, the gold sparkles, the decorative borders, the flourishes, the glowing effects… looks awful and cheap Real luxury branding is usually simple and confident. This graphic looks like it’s trying to fight me for attention from every direction at the same time.

It says "ask me" for position, but from the porn I've seen, he's usually been a bottom. I've seen some of his stuff on Active Duty and a solo scene on ChaosMen. Some of his porn names are Lambert, Scott Millie... https://rentmen.eu/WestCoastJesse

Back in San Diego

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Checking his IG, he doesn’t mention anything massage-related. It’s basically just a shrine to his own muscles. Makes me wonder if he actually knows massage, or if it’s one of those situations where you’re paying for the “experience” of being near him 🤔

Only outcalls at the moment

Yeah. This same provider sometimes throws random trivia questions at me, and if I get them right, he extends the session by 30 minutes 🤭

I have a provider who randomly gives me gifts out of nowhere. Honestly, it makes me a little uncomfortable sometimes because they’re usually $200+ 😅 One time he wanted to give me an Apple Watch, but then remembered I’d told him my company already provides my phone, watch, and tablet. He’s still given me several gifts just because, especially around Christmas. I’ll randomly give him $50 or $100 gift cards here and there too, so it’s not completely one-sided.

When I like a provider and want to know their birthday so I can wish them a happy birthday, I’ll casually ask their sign or something like that. Boom, birthday unlocked 🙂

He enjoys knitting. He's done some cool stuff

to cross reference https://rent.men/BeardedRemi

https://rentmasseur.com/quequeerr

https://rentmasseur.com/DeepTissueDaddy

Curious what others do when it’s their favorite masseur/provider’s birthday 🤔 Do you usually send a quick “happy birthday” text or message? Or do you keep it strictly business and not mention it at all? Also, if you see them shortly after their birthday, do you ever bring a small gift, tip a little extra? Or is that crossing the line into “too personal”? Interested to hear how others handle it and what’s considered normal etiquette in this client-provider universe.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/52236/

Yeah. AI is getting better by the day… 😯

He could be on tour 🤷🏻‍♂️

AI Summary of ALL previous comments. This thread is honestly fascinating because it slowly evolved into an unofficial “client handbook” for sensual/erotic massage providers over several years. The overall vibe is less about technique and more about professionalism, authenticity, atmosphere, and emotional intelligence. Overall Forum Consensus The biggest takeaway from the entire thread: The actual massage matters… but the experience matters even more. Again and again people came back to: honesty, consistency, communication, hygiene, atmosphere, and making clients feel respected instead of processed like transactions. A mediocre massage with warmth and professionalism often beats a technically great massage with awkwardness, ego, deception, or poor communication. The Major Themes 1. False Advertising Is the #1 Sin This was probably the strongest recurring complaint. People HATE: heavily edited photos, old photos, misleading body pics, “therapeutic only” ads with erotic imagery, claiming training/certifications they clearly don’t have, promising amenities that don’t exist, charging for one thing then changing terms later. The recent AI-photo comment fits perfectly into the thread’s long-running theme: “Do not use AI to alter your pictures. We notice.” That’s basically the modern version of: “show current body hair,” “look like your photos,” “don’t oversell yourself.” The forum clearly values authenticity over perfection. 2. Professionalism = Huge Turn-On People repeatedly said that simple professionalism creates loyalty: being on time, confirming appointments, not cancelling last minute, not rushing sessions, communicating delays, not checking phones constantly, respecting the booked duration. One recurring emotional theme: Clients hate feeling like: an ATM, a backup option, or cattle being processed. That’s why your older quote about not soliciting constantly and instead building rapport resonated with people. The forum strongly agrees that: connection creates repeat business more than aggressive marketing. 3. Atmosphere Matters WAY More Than Many Providers Think A surprising amount of discussion focused on ambiance: music, lighting, cleanliness, sheets, scents, temperature, interruptions, pets, roommates, parking, ads playing on Spotify/YouTube. The “Spotify ad suddenly playing during massage” topic became almost legendary in the thread 😂 People were basically saying: the fantasy collapses instantly when an ad about debt consolidation or bail bonds suddenly starts blasting. Also repeatedly mentioned: heated tables, warmed oils, quality lotion, clean linens, avoiding rancid smells, trimming nails, fresh breath, no cigarette smell. Very “hospitality business” mindset. 4. Emotional Presence > Pure Technique This may have been the deepest insight in the entire thread. Several posters—including actual providers—said the best sessions happen when the client feels: desired, attended to, emotionally present with, and not judged. One provider put it beautifully: “Treat each client as if he is the most beautiful and sexy guy in the world for the time he is with you.” That idea came up repeatedly in different forms: eye contact, reading body language, not seeming bored, adapting energy, not talking too much, making the client feel special. The thread basically argues that sensual massage is partly: hospitality, performance, emotional intelligence, and energy management. Not just rubbing muscles. 5. Boundaries Matter Too Interesting nuance: The thread is NOT “anything goes.” A lot of experienced posters stressed: know your limits, communicate clearly, don’t get pressured, don’t promise what you can’t provide, don’t blur massage into escorting unless intentional. There’s actually a strong undercurrent of: “You can be erotic and still professional.” 6. Regulars Are the Real Business Many providers emphasized: repeat clients are everything, consistency matters, regulars deserve flexibility, loyalty goes both ways. The thread repeatedly frames this less as “quick cash” and more as: relationship-based service work. Some even compared it to building a long-term client book in other industries. Funniest / Most Memorable Running Topics The anti–Johnson’s Baby Oil campaign 😂 This came up MULTIPLE times. People were passionately against it. The music disasters Examples included: YouTube ads, pop dance music, notification sounds, answering texts mid-session, cheap phone speakers. Basically: “Please don’t destroy the mood with a Subway commercial.” Pets ruining the fantasy Several horror stories: dogs staring during massages, cats on clothes, allergies, roommates unexpectedly appearing. The Evolution of the Thread One cool thing: You can actually see the culture evolve over time. 2018: practical basics, setup, oils, timing, professionalism. 2019–2021: branding, communication, reviews, follow-up etiquette, emotional connection. 2024–2026: authenticity, photo editing, texting boundaries, image management, “don’t make this feel like Grindr.” The newer posts feel more cynical and more focused on authenticity because people are burned out from over-filtered marketing and transactional behavior. Bottom-Line Summary The forum’s collective philosophy basically became: The best masseurs: look like their photos, communicate clearly, create a relaxing environment, stay emotionally present, respect boundaries, avoid desperation, and make clients feel valued instead of processed. And the fastest way to lose clients is: misleading advertising, bad communication, rushing, phone addiction, obvious thirst for money, or creating a disconnect between fantasy and reality. Honestly, for a random internet forum thread, there’s a weird amount of solid business psychology in it.

Do not use AI to alter your pictures. We notice. And when we meet you in person and the pics are heavily edited, it’s honestly a letdown. At that point the forum comment will be: “He does NOT look like his pictures”. 🤷‍♂️

@Ryan Gressel You can also review the BEST PRACTICES thread