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Wow. Nice! The deep kiss is something very unusual for a masseur to offer. And unless I feel strong connection / attraction not sure if I’d be comfortable with a deep kiss. (I’m assuming French Kiss).

In an earlier post @Drod1474 mentioned an undressing ritual. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-mark-good-touch-from-austin-visiting-san-diego.132954/#post-1478538 For me, an undressing experience would be very sensual. Undressing each other would complement the massage experience and take it to a more intimate level. I’ve never experienced it. I would like to know if anyone one else have had an undressing ritual / experience. And how was it.

A lot of these best practices go both ways.

Always express gratitude for tips. Can be a quick text right after the session.

Make it clear when the massage is over. It has happened to me that sometimes the masseur just starts packing and because I lost track of time I had no clue that the session was over.

I've done it and it was HOT! He was hard the whole time... he did not finish, he said it was difficult for him, even with girlfriends takes a long time. Easy with porn he said. The porn might be a problem, and the reason why takes so long without the porn, he said. I wished I could have done oral... but he was not prepared to go that far yet...

Could you go into more detail about your blindfolding experience and other elements that made you pleasantly surprised? I'd be apprehensive if a new masseur blindfolds me... maybe if I've seen him for a while, I'd be open to that. But I wonder what's the magic of being blindfolded and what other elements are nice to add to the massage experience. By the way, your message @NYMassageAddict reminds me of this https://mailer.chaosmen.com/2014/04-11-14/1392_chaosmen_ransom_santiago_edge_hires_001.jpg

This goes both ways. If you have pets disclose this in advance due to allergies and lock them up. I don’t have allergies but I don’t appreciate cats and dogs around me when I’m getting a massage and worse... when a cat or dog use my clothes as a bed

Damn

If you are in a rush, better to apologize and reschedule than to cut the session short and rush it. I had this masseur that is very good. But one time he had something to do after the session and was running late or something. He cut the session short 10 minutes he didn’t apologize or anything... there were other minor issues... but this was not acceptable for me. I never hired him again.

DO NOT use free streaming apps for MUSIC... Is very annoying to trying to relax with some music when suddenly there are ads about getting out of debt or bail bonds, etc... better not to have music at all. And also the ads played say A LOT about you.

Any info on this masseur? https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/18940/ Travel schedule May 27 - 28: San Diego, CA June 5 - July 10: New York, NY Massage Pricing outcalls 60 min. $140 90 min. $180 incalls 60 min. $120 90 min. $180

Got it. My mistake. I thought you were discussing just generic private dancers... but this is Private_dancer.

I'm confused. Who are you guys talking about ?

I've read from some forum members that they would never hire a straight masseur... ? Honestly I really do not care that much... if he delivers a good massage and the extras are acceptable... is all good with me. I've hired masseurs with nice extras and they are married to a woman and have kids... that's their business and it does not bother me.

Maybe this perk can be reserved for repeat and nice customers.

At 120 dollars for 60 minutes I’d expect at least sensual nude

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This is a very important one! And never feel obligated to do something you don’t feel comfortable or goes beyond your own boundaries.

Thanks! Very helpful information.

This has come up a couple of times... the shower thing. I have never experienced. How frequent is this for you? Did the masseur and you shower together? Was that part of the time you hired him or that went beyond that?

Here is the new link https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35217/ 323 706 7779

Thanks! This is important I think. Where to look for a good attorney that understands this business? Is there like a YELP place for attorneys?

I have never experienced this. Usually they offer the shower, but they do not shower with you... or not together. How as with you... both of you shower together?

Great thanks! He did ask me how much did it cost to get certified, I was not sure, but I told him it was maybe between 5K to 10K and thousand of hours of training. Is this correct?