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I think you need to ask yourself one question @Coolwave35: is there any possible universe in which he's going to offer a better experience than you just had with @RyanChambers?

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I'm not an expert on the detailed workings of the RM site, but -- if a provider puts in a string of random cities, does that do something to the search functions that causes him to pop up when someone searches a city? I think so. In which case, could someone play the "let's see where there's business" game with the search function? Throw in ten cities, see if you get a nibble, and then go only to that city?

Ok, well, then maybe his ardor waned or he has been rethinking what he likes. I think you could solve this easily with an email to him. "Hi (name), I just wanted to look in on you. We've always had a great time together, but the last two times it felt like something was off. Are you ok? Did I do something that upset you? Just hoping to understand. Thanks."

Oh my heavens, how can you all not see it? The orientation of the ley lines in his underwear, coupled with the rising chi of his bulge, indicates a strong inclination toward both supernatural and traditional modes of sexual gratification. Thus while he is content to please his partner as either top or bottom, he can also comfortably allow himself to be a conduit for both prana and mana energy, thus indicating his willingness to role play as a Roman gladiator, Celtic warrior, or New Jersey Turnpike service station attendant. Also, if you tilt your head to the left, his briefs look like a man rowing a kayak.

Prior thread exists. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/127016-411-on-adamva/#comment-1839966 Seems member @weldon79 reported a very good experience, gave him a 'run, don't walk, to meet him' review. Make of that what you will, I guess.

It's all about presentation. These two lines say basically the same thing, but one sounds arrogant and the other sounds kind. "Tell me what you want in the first message, my time is valuable." "You can tell me up front the kind of experience you want. I want us to figure out right away whether I'm the right guy for you, or not." And you can put stock lines like that in your smart phone's NOTES function and cut and paste them into a text in seconds.

If I'm reading it right, you noticed the change after that one incident? If so, I think you gotta address it. It's possible that he was turned off or disappointed. I'm not saying he's right or wrong to feel that, but that may have happened. You should clear the air on that before another rendezvous-vous to avoid disappointment. Also possible, if you really mentioned heart attack or other injury, that he was scared that he'd actually hurt you (or was putting you at risk) and was holding back. Also worth clearing the air. And if his ardor or interest just waned, well, then you just gotta move on. Hope that helps. Let us know.

I'll go one further. If someone's asking me for $300 an hour but won't answer a few reasonable questions intended to make sure it works out well -- for both of us -- then imma keep looking.

I think @Coolwave35's story about getting to spend two days behind a provider's keyboard is extremely eye-opening. Y'all know the adage about walking a mile in someone else's shoes? He did, and shared it with us. Thanks for doing that, CW. That was a hugely valuable insight, at least to me.

Time management and weeding the window shoppers may well be driving some of the brevity, entirely possible. IMO there are some generational aspects. Gen X writes texts like emails, full sentences with punctuation. Get Z is syllables, abbreviations, no punctuation. I've heard Gen Z'ers say that a period on the end of a text stresses them out, they think the texter is upset with them. It's like their version of TYPING IN ALL CAPS (which grandma and grandpa do without even noticing...). Gen X gets the shudders at the mere suggestion that they not. put. a. period. on. a. sentence.

I'll defer to someone who's an attorney with experience in this field, but my sense is that federal law is pretty weak here as long as you're not selling it and everyone is of age. The person who didn't consent to posting it might try to sue civilly for humiliation or damages (i.e., maybe it cost them a job?) if they can show the harm.

Fair ‘nuff. 👍🏼

If you don’t mind the question, how come? Is it an aesthetic thing or a matter of principle?

I thought @glutes was potentially taking the plunge but perhaps never connected.

He’s got some new pictures that look… unusual. I can’t tell whether it’s lighting, makeup, or minor plastic surgery, but he looks subtly different. I couldn’t help but think of Soldier, who has had a pretty dramatic change of look in the last year or so.

Right URL? The one above is for MateoUJA. Travelxlboy's Retnmen page is at this link: https://app.rent.men/travelxlboy

Has anyone met these gents? https://app.rent.men/JhonDl https://app.rent.men/RomeoAntonio https://app.rent.men/JayRae (currently in Colombia but usually on Long Island) ?

I can’t give you a percentage, but consider discounting that number at least to some extent. Some are using those listings solely to drive people to their OF/JFF sites. Others are dipping a toe (or other appendage) into the pool to see what it’s all about because social media/internet and somewhat less social stigma makes it a lot easier to slap up an ad and see what happens. The number of people truly escorting and taking it seriously likely hasn’t changed much. And they’re still heavily concentrated in a few urban centers. IMHO. It’s my observation, others may see it differently and I respect that.

Not sure why my search function isn’t working on mobile, but @Ali Gator if you search around for threads on Tyler in Boston, you should find some. Opinions seem to divide on the gent — some have reported positive experiences, others more flaky experiences.

Today he blocked me. That may also indicate that he’s monitoring this forum, just so ya’ know.

A few updates... His name is now Brazilian_Papi https://app.rent.men/Brazilian_Papi He has his first review and it's a 1.0. Let's see how long it stays up. Yesterday his travels were all listed as ranging across Texas. As of now, he's in NYC and he’s apparently willing to travel around upstate NY, NYC, and New Jersey in a way that suggests he's unaware that New York is not the size of Delaware. This is fun. 🙂