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I’ve been with Ben three times now, and he’d be a regular hire if we lived in the same city. EXCELLENT provider in every way (starting with his smoking-hot muscled body, oversized cock, and friendly jock demeanor), but I particularly value his communications skills. He hasn’t always gotten back to me immediately, and I’ve had to follow up once or twice—but he’s a busy guy, with a personal life and a bunch of side-hustles, and in general I’d rate him up there among the most responsive and reliable guys I deal with.

 

Here’s the thing. I don’t know exactly what the OP wrote Ben, but I do know that providers generally don’t like long involved communications—anything as long and involved as this post, for instance!—especially if they don’t boil down to: “Hi Ben—I’m into __, and I’d like to hire you for __ hours on ___ date. Are you available? And what’s your rate? Thanks, big guy!” Anything more lengthy or less direct sent to a busy professional is going to get a (private) sigh of exasperation from said professional, and may delay or jeopardize the point of the exercise, which is to get you laid.

Hi, this is OP. I’ve already replied to a couple of comments.

Thanks for assuring me about Ben being OK. I understand that Ben is a human and obviously has stuff in his life too, but the couple of times I reached out to him about sessions and him admitting to not feeling up to talking at the moment made me think. Rest assured that I did try to get to the point those times.

However, like others have said, back in May when I inquired about his services, I could have been more concrete in setting up a time for the future. That’s on me!

Thank you for the reassurance that he is OK. I will wait a couple of days and then ask him what I did on Wednesday about availability in a time I was looking for.

Also, this got a chuckle out of me: “I do know that providers generally don’t like long involved communications—anything as long and involved as this post, for instance!”

I can't imagine he would apologize for "being short" (of stature) unless you made some comment regarding it initially......I presume he thought he was being "short" in the 'rude' sense of the word with his replies to you and wanted to clarify that......

 

based only on your comments in your first post, I think you may be making an inaccurate leap of judgement about Ben's mental 'stability'.......it's entirely possible he's had a hectic week and is not at all focused on replying to indefinite RM inquiries like yours at this point.......

 

Ben has a fine reputation and lots of regulars......as suggested above, it's usually best to quickly get to specific date-and-time planning.....I'd wait a few more days, then message him with a brief note hoping things are cooled down for him and asking if he's available at xxpm on xx date for xx hours at (insert location here)........as always, be polite, professional, to-the-point, and discreet......

 

https://rentmen.eu/MuscleCompanion

You’re more than likely right that he was referring to being “short” in that way and I was just being a MORON!

Regardless, I plan on doing what you say and, once Ben has no doubt calmed down in a few days, will ask what I did on Wednesday about availability during a time I was looking for. You and other users have assured me I’m just being paranoid about all this and that Ben has just ended up having bad times whenever I try to reach out to him. Thank you.

"However, I’ve begun to have second thoughts about getting with him."

 

you have second thoughts? if i were the escort and someone "chatted" with me on 4 separate occasions without setting up a definitive time and date i wouldnt even respond back to him! imagine how many guys just waste an escorts time and never pull the trigger on an appointment. why not just reach out to him the first time when you are ready to see him, ask if "you are available on x day at y time" and get his confidence that you are for real as a client? no need for jibber jabber.

 

if you want to gain an escorts respect then give it to him first.

I don’t think I clarified enough... The first time I contacted Ben and last time on Wednesday I DID want to get to setting up something. I first asked if he was available during a certain date I was, but then the events I described happened, and I let him be like he wanted.

BUT for the time in May, you’re right, I should have been more concrete instead of just seeking info about him! As my title under my username implies, I’m pretty much a newbie in this stuff. Once Ben has cooled down, which I guess would be in a few days, I’ll ask what I did on Wednesday about his availability on a certain date I was looking for.

Did he mean short in stature? or short in his reply?

Based on our texts, it had to have been his stature. His texts weren’t short!

I’ve heard people describe him as a “fireplug.” But I could care less about his height! Either way, it was an incredibly odd comment that came out of left field.

I have had my eyes set on having a session with Bostonian bodybuilder Ben Kieren, also known as MuscleCompanion on RM, for the longest time. All the talk I’ve seen about him has been nothing short of praise and rave about his intelligence, muscularity, etc. However, I’ve begun to have second thoughts about getting with him.

While Ben himself and others state he is a sane, intelligent guy, the first time I reached out to him a few months ago, things seemed off. I first messaged him with a typical “Hi, my name is _____.” message. He responded back with a typical message, but then abruptly said something along the lines of, “Sorry for being so short.” He was referring to his height.

This kind of took me by surprise, as I had just started texting him. I messaged back something along the lines of, “Huh, what do you mean?” Ben then apologized and said he had been having a rough day and needed to go rest for a while. I inferred that someone had made fun of his size, and, seeing as how Ben is a human with feelings too, I politely said it was cool.

A few months later, back around May, I reached out to Ben again. This time around he was very accomodating, talking to me about how and when he started bulking up, where we were from, what his rates were, etc. It all seemed good, and we agreed I could message him in the future when I was free to schedule a session with him.

I’ve gotten a free schedule lately, and I figured now would be the time to reach out to Ben again. On Wednesday morning, I asked about his availability, telling him to feel free to respond when he could. He didn’t respond that morning or evening. I figured, “OK, Ben has a life, too. He’s probably just out vacationing or something.”

Two days passed, and I felt I should message him today... I asked if he had received my messages and to respond whenever a chance was good. Sure enough, Ben responded a couple of hours later, saying he had “a bit of a personal crisis this week” and that he’s needed to “smooth out.” I simply told him that it was OK and to take his time, not wanting to further question him. That would just be nosey, IMO. I don’t know if it was family issues, a mental breakdown, or what.

So, with all this in mind, does anyone know if poor Ben has just been having lousy luck whenever I message him, or is he kind of not “all there?” I know Ben has a life and a brain. But with all these comments he’s made to me, I’m starting to wonder whether or not he is safe to have a session with.

I’m just hoping the guy is OK, too. It seems life’s throwing curveballs at him and his self-esteem. If anybody could weigh in on this, especially those who’ve had experiences with Ben, and let me know what you think, it would be much appreciated. Thank you.

Edited to clarify a statement Ben made.

still active, but doesn't advertise (much) because of having plenty of regulars.....

 

you're in luck!....he'll be on the east coast later this month and into February

 

https://rent.men/V_MUSCLE

Oh my Lord. Wow. I’ve only seen pics of Vin from the 2000’s, early 2010’s... He’s hairier, more muscular, traveling to Boston this February... I think today may be my lucky day! Thanks so much for the info!

Hi all. First-time poster here asking about the West Coast muscle guy Vin Marco. I’m on the East Coast, but have always been a huge admirer of Vin’s, even if he stopped modeling for XXX stuff years ago, and doesn’t advertise much. In spite of that, the only time I ever saw an ad for him was on men4rentnow. I’ve also seen threads here on M4M about Vin. Since I’ve kinda been hoping to one day meet him, I’ve periodically checked his M4RN to see if he’s still active. However, recently I happened to check his M4RN profile... and it was gone. I’ve seen on this forum recently that he’s been inactive with other people recently, too.

I don’t really know what else to say, but does anyone know if Vin is still active? Has he retired from escorting?