matt842

The latest massage at my chiropractor was with a male therapist. Most of the therapists are women. I had tried this particular male therapist before, but when I tried to reschedule him he had moved on. Lately he showed up again so jumped at the chance. He was so soothing. A serene, masculine young man. Nice body. Not super muscular. Just strong and lean. His skills had improved so much, and I do need that kind of healing massage. At one point he was standing at the end of the table behind my head, manipulating my shoulders and arms. He leaned across my body and his firm flat stomach leaned against my face. Felt nice. I'd never had one of the therapists lean into me like that. Maybe it was unintentional and meant nothing, but I liked and hope it happens again. I'd like to find out if he offers massage outside the clinic but worry the question would seem inappropriate. For now, I enjoy thinking about how nice my sultry, strong, lean therapist made me feel. Look forward to his soothing hands on again.

I've had so many memorable ones, for good and bad reasons, that I needed to think about this for a few days before I responded. At first, I thought it might be the first time a therapist I had seen frequently was comfortable enough with me to take the massage to a different level. But after thinking about it, without a doubt, it was this one:
 
I used to travel to the West Coast for work a lot. Before one of the trips in 2011, I was looking through ads and saw one in the LA area that caught my eye. I don't remember if it was in massagem4m or masseurfinder, but it was in the therapeutic section, and he was very explicit that his massage was strictly therapeutic. This was a little over a year after my first massage from a man, so I will still looking more for a "therapeutic with the possibility of sensual elements" than the "explicit guarantee of an erotic" massage experience. We exchanged a couple of emails and planned on a two-hour appointment my last evening in the area. When I got to his place that evening, he was wearing a tight white tank top and greeted me with a huge smile. We hit it off instantly, and I felt comfortable with him from the second he laid his hands on me. I usually like to lie there and enjoy, but we chatted during most of the massage. Yet, I was completely relaxed. His hands were magic, and he paid attention to the little things and pointed out things he noticed about my body that no therapist had ever taken the time to mention. His work on my feet was tremendous, to the point that I had to force myself to stay awake because I didn't want to miss a second of the time with him. As the massage drew to a close, his touch became more sensual. It wasn't anything outright erotic, but it was enough to arouse me. He took off his tank and shorts, and I could see he was aroused too. He had a beautiful musclecub body that was covered in fur, and we enjoyed a fun post-session interactive session together. I had arrived at his place at 9 p.m. and didn't leave until well after 1 a.m.
 
During subsequent trips to his area over the next year-and-a-half, I always made sure that I scheduled a session with him. Most of them turned out like the first one with a variation here or there. Maybe he would take off his shirt earlier in the massage, or he would rub against me at some point in the session and things would turn to fun. He did always give me the full massage time, though. That first one was still the most memorable, mainly because of the way things evolved and my instant comfort with him.

Nice find. I would be interested to know as well.

Has anyone seen Joe Strunk in Chicago for a session? Definitely seems legit and trained. Wondering about his technique.
 
http://www.joestrunkmassage.com

I've had so many memorable ones, for good and bad reasons, that I needed to think about this for a few days before I responded. At first, I thought it might be the first time a therapist I had seen frequently was comfortable enough with me to take the massage to a different level. But after thinking about it, without a doubt, it was this one:
 
I used to travel to the West Coast for work a lot. Before one of the trips in 2011, I was looking through ads and saw one in the LA area that caught my eye. I don't remember if it was in massagem4m or masseurfinder, but it was in the therapeutic section, and he was very explicit that his massage was strictly therapeutic. This was a little over a year after my first massage from a man, so I will still looking more for a "therapeutic with the possibility of sensual elements" than the "explicit guarantee of an erotic" massage experience. We exchanged a couple of emails and planned on a two-hour appointment my last evening in the area. When I got to his place that evening, he was wearing a tight white tank top and greeted me with a huge smile. We hit it off instantly, and I felt comfortable with him from the second he laid his hands on me. I usually like to lie there and enjoy, but we chatted during most of the massage. Yet, I was completely relaxed. His hands were magic, and he paid attention to the little things and pointed out things he noticed about my body that no therapist had ever taken the time to mention. His work on my feet was tremendous, to the point that I had to force myself to stay awake because I didn't want to miss a second of the time with him. As the massage drew to a close, his touch became more sensual. It wasn't anything outright erotic, but it was enough to arouse me. He took off his tank and shorts, and I could see he was aroused too. He had a beautiful musclecub body that was covered in fur, and we enjoyed a fun post-session interactive session together. I had arrived at his place at 9 p.m. and didn't leave until well after 1 a.m.
 
During subsequent trips to his area over the next year-and-a-half, I always made sure that I scheduled a session with him. Most of them turned out like the first one with a variation here or there. Maybe he would take off his shirt earlier in the massage, or he would rub against me at some point in the session and things would turn to fun. He did always give me the full massage time, though. That first one was still the most memorable, mainly because of the way things evolved and my instant comfort with him.

I've had so many memorable ones, for good and bad reasons, that I needed to think about this for a few days before I responded. At first, I thought it might be the first time a therapist I had seen frequently was comfortable enough with me to take the massage to a different level. But after thinking about it, without a doubt, it was this one:
 
I used to travel to the West Coast for work a lot. Before one of the trips in 2011, I was looking through ads and saw one in the LA area that caught my eye. I don't remember if it was in massagem4m or masseurfinder, but it was in the therapeutic section, and he was very explicit that his massage was strictly therapeutic. This was a little over a year after my first massage from a man, so I will still looking more for a "therapeutic with the possibility of sensual elements" than the "explicit guarantee of an erotic" massage experience. We exchanged a couple of emails and planned on a two-hour appointment my last evening in the area. When I got to his place that evening, he was wearing a tight white tank top and greeted me with a huge smile. We hit it off instantly, and I felt comfortable with him from the second he laid his hands on me. I usually like to lie there and enjoy, but we chatted during most of the massage. Yet, I was completely relaxed. His hands were magic, and he paid attention to the little things and pointed out things he noticed about my body that no therapist had ever taken the time to mention. His work on my feet was tremendous, to the point that I had to force myself to stay awake because I didn't want to miss a second of the time with him. As the massage drew to a close, his touch became more sensual. It wasn't anything outright erotic, but it was enough to arouse me. He took off his tank and shorts, and I could see he was aroused too. He had a beautiful musclecub body that was covered in fur, and we enjoyed a fun post-session interactive session together. I had arrived at his place at 9 p.m. and didn't leave until well after 1 a.m.
 
During subsequent trips to his area over the next year-and-a-half, I always made sure that I scheduled a session with him. Most of them turned out like the first one with a variation here or there. Maybe he would take off his shirt earlier in the massage, or he would rub against me at some point in the session and things would turn to fun. He did always give me the full massage time, though. That first one was still the most memorable, mainly because of the way things evolved and my instant comfort with him.

I've had so many memorable ones, for good and bad reasons, that I needed to think about this for a few days before I responded. At first, I thought it might be the first time a therapist I had seen frequently was comfortable enough with me to take the massage to a different level. But after thinking about it, without a doubt, it was this one:
 
I used to travel to the West Coast for work a lot. Before one of the trips in 2011, I was looking through ads and saw one in the LA area that caught my eye. I don't remember if it was in massagem4m or masseurfinder, but it was in the therapeutic section, and he was very explicit that his massage was strictly therapeutic. This was a little over a year after my first massage from a man, so I will still looking more for a "therapeutic with the possibility of sensual elements" than the "explicit guarantee of an erotic" massage experience. We exchanged a couple of emails and planned on a two-hour appointment my last evening in the area. When I got to his place that evening, he was wearing a tight white tank top and greeted me with a huge smile. We hit it off instantly, and I felt comfortable with him from the second he laid his hands on me. I usually like to lie there and enjoy, but we chatted during most of the massage. Yet, I was completely relaxed. His hands were magic, and he paid attention to the little things and pointed out things he noticed about my body that no therapist had ever taken the time to mention. His work on my feet was tremendous, to the point that I had to force myself to stay awake because I didn't want to miss a second of the time with him. As the massage drew to a close, his touch became more sensual. It wasn't anything outright erotic, but it was enough to arouse me. He took off his tank and shorts, and I could see he was aroused too. He had a beautiful musclecub body that was covered in fur, and we enjoyed a fun post-session interactive session together. I had arrived at his place at 9 p.m. and didn't leave until well after 1 a.m.
 
During subsequent trips to his area over the next year-and-a-half, I always made sure that I scheduled a session with him. Most of them turned out like the first one with a variation here or there. Maybe he would take off his shirt earlier in the massage, or he would rub against me at some point in the session and things would turn to fun. He did always give me the full massage time, though. That first one was still the most memorable, mainly because of the way things evolved and my instant comfort with him.

I've had so many memorable ones, for good and bad reasons, that I needed to think about this for a few days before I responded. At first, I thought it might be the first time a therapist I had seen frequently was comfortable enough with me to take the massage to a different level. But after thinking about it, without a doubt, it was this one:
 
I used to travel to the West Coast for work a lot. Before one of the trips in 2011, I was looking through ads and saw one in the LA area that caught my eye. I don't remember if it was in massagem4m or masseurfinder, but it was in the therapeutic section, and he was very explicit that his massage was strictly therapeutic. This was a little over a year after my first massage from a man, so I will still looking more for a "therapeutic with the possibility of sensual elements" than the "explicit guarantee of an erotic" massage experience. We exchanged a couple of emails and planned on a two-hour appointment my last evening in the area. When I got to his place that evening, he was wearing a tight white tank top and greeted me with a huge smile. We hit it off instantly, and I felt comfortable with him from the second he laid his hands on me. I usually like to lie there and enjoy, but we chatted during most of the massage. Yet, I was completely relaxed. His hands were magic, and he paid attention to the little things and pointed out things he noticed about my body that no therapist had ever taken the time to mention. His work on my feet was tremendous, to the point that I had to force myself to stay awake because I didn't want to miss a second of the time with him. As the massage drew to a close, his touch became more sensual. It wasn't anything outright erotic, but it was enough to arouse me. He took off his tank and shorts, and I could see he was aroused too. He had a beautiful musclecub body that was covered in fur, and we enjoyed a fun post-session interactive session together. I had arrived at his place at 9 p.m. and didn't leave until well after 1 a.m.
 
During subsequent trips to his area over the next year-and-a-half, I always made sure that I scheduled a session with him. Most of them turned out like the first one with a variation here or there. Maybe he would take off his shirt earlier in the massage, or he would rub against me at some point in the session and things would turn to fun. He did always give me the full massage time, though. That first one was still the most memorable, mainly because of the way things evolved and my instant comfort with him.

I've had so many memorable ones, for good and bad reasons, that I needed to think about this for a few days before I responded. At first, I thought it might be the first time a therapist I had seen frequently was comfortable enough with me to take the massage to a different level. But after thinking about it, without a doubt, it was this one:
 
I used to travel to the West Coast for work a lot. Before one of the trips in 2011, I was looking through ads and saw one in the LA area that caught my eye. I don't remember if it was in massagem4m or masseurfinder, but it was in the therapeutic section, and he was very explicit that his massage was strictly therapeutic. This was a little over a year after my first massage from a man, so I will still looking more for a "therapeutic with the possibility of sensual elements" than the "explicit guarantee of an erotic" massage experience. We exchanged a couple of emails and planned on a two-hour appointment my last evening in the area. When I got to his place that evening, he was wearing a tight white tank top and greeted me with a huge smile. We hit it off instantly, and I felt comfortable with him from the second he laid his hands on me. I usually like to lie there and enjoy, but we chatted during most of the massage. Yet, I was completely relaxed. His hands were magic, and he paid attention to the little things and pointed out things he noticed about my body that no therapist had ever taken the time to mention. His work on my feet was tremendous, to the point that I had to force myself to stay awake because I didn't want to miss a second of the time with him. As the massage drew to a close, his touch became more sensual. It wasn't anything outright erotic, but it was enough to arouse me. He took off his tank and shorts, and I could see he was aroused too. He had a beautiful musclecub body that was covered in fur, and we enjoyed a fun post-session interactive session together. I had arrived at his place at 9 p.m. and didn't leave until well after 1 a.m.
 
During subsequent trips to his area over the next year-and-a-half, I always made sure that I scheduled a session with him. Most of them turned out like the first one with a variation here or there. Maybe he would take off his shirt earlier in the massage, or he would rub against me at some point in the session and things would turn to fun. He did always give me the full massage time, though. That first one was still the most memorable, mainly because of the way things evolved and my instant comfort with him.

I've had so many memorable ones, for good and bad reasons, that I needed to think about this for a few days before I responded. At first, I thought it might be the first time a therapist I had seen frequently was comfortable enough with me to take the massage to a different level. But after thinking about it, without a doubt, it was this one:
 
I used to travel to the West Coast for work a lot. Before one of the trips in 2011, I was looking through ads and saw one in the LA area that caught my eye. I don't remember if it was in massagem4m or masseurfinder, but it was in the therapeutic section, and he was very explicit that his massage was strictly therapeutic. This was a little over a year after my first massage from a man, so I will still looking more for a "therapeutic with the possibility of sensual elements" than the "explicit guarantee of an erotic" massage experience. We exchanged a couple of emails and planned on a two-hour appointment my last evening in the area. When I got to his place that evening, he was wearing a tight white tank top and greeted me with a huge smile. We hit it off instantly, and I felt comfortable with him from the second he laid his hands on me. I usually like to lie there and enjoy, but we chatted during most of the massage. Yet, I was completely relaxed. His hands were magic, and he paid attention to the little things and pointed out things he noticed about my body that no therapist had ever taken the time to mention. His work on my feet was tremendous, to the point that I had to force myself to stay awake because I didn't want to miss a second of the time with him. As the massage drew to a close, his touch became more sensual. It wasn't anything outright erotic, but it was enough to arouse me. He took off his tank and shorts, and I could see he was aroused too. He had a beautiful musclecub body that was covered in fur, and we enjoyed a fun post-session interactive session together. I had arrived at his place at 9 p.m. and didn't leave until well after 1 a.m.
 
During subsequent trips to his area over the next year-and-a-half, I always made sure that I scheduled a session with him. Most of them turned out like the first one with a variation here or there. Maybe he would take off his shirt earlier in the massage, or he would rub against me at some point in the session and things would turn to fun. He did always give me the full massage time, though. That first one was still the most memorable, mainly because of the way things evolved and my instant comfort with him.

On one of my very first massage sessions I went to this guy's apartment, and it was VERY memorable. When he showed me to the massage room, we had to walk thru the kitchen. His roommate was in his boxers at the sink washing dishes and nodded and said hello. His roommate was HOT with a bulge in his boxers. I then reached the massage room and stripped and got on the table. The masseur was also naked, and the massage was very good. A few times he brushed up against me and I could tell he was hard, but I was to nervous to do anything. At one point I heard his roommate at the door asking my masseur if he could lend a hand. (?) They asked if I would mind, and of course I said sure, he could help. (my first 4 hands) I do work out alot, and am very muscular, and they both started massaging me, both of them naked, commenting on my muscular body. Before I knew it, I had 2 large erect cocks in my face, and I took turns sucking each of them. They were both super huge...easily 9" each. The roommate then asked if I would mind if he stood on the massage table and shoot on me. (Of course I wanted that!) So he did....a huge load. He then climbed off the table and then my masseur asked if he could fuck me. I was now super horny after all this, and he bent me over the table and rammed me hard and fast for 5 minutes, pulled out, and shot all over my ass. All this time I was stroking myself, and came right as he was shooting on my ass. We were all wiped out, and went to their bed and laid around for about 20 minutes talking about the whole thing. We all laughed and said it was better than any porn film we had ever seen. How could I ever forget this massage? Very memorable!

About two years ago I went to the doctor complaining about a sore shoulder. Doctor told me it was from sleeping on my side and my shoulder digging into the mattress. Gave my some mild muscle relaxers but suggested I try a more holistic approach - try a massage, she said. After a few days I scheduled my very first massage appointment with Ryan. Nice guy, certainly better looking than I could have hoped for, was a few years younger and more muscled, but I played it cool and we talked about my shoulder and he was very professional about it.
 
As I had arrived freshly showered, he asked me to disrobe and get on the table. He got started and we talked while he worked. Just random banter, we didn't really have that much in common. I'm not really shy - but have found that most people have more of a sense of modesty than I have. So I was surprised when I realized, after a few minutes, that he was naked as well. I was also pleasantly surprised by how much time he spent working on other parts of my body, not just those affected by my shoulder issues. (By that I mean my butt cheeks, clear?) When he asked me to turn over, after a very nice technical massage, I was further surprised to see how excited he was. And as he worked his way up from my legs to my groin, well, let's just say the excitement was mutual. Then there was the eye contact and the playful smiles... It was a truly awesome happy ending and he was very open to me indulging my urge to touch him as he worked up to it.
 
When my legs recovered from a case of the rubbers, I got in the shower to rinse off. Guess who joined me to wash my back!!! Yup - best massage ever!

I'm resurrecting this thread, because I get to Chicago a couple of times a year, and I have had some of my best massage experiences during the past 7 years in Chicago. I have met some of the masseurs referenced in this thread, including a few that there are inquiries about. I hope my insights are helpful, and I am willing to answer any questions either here or by PM.
 
Brad (http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/brad_007.shtml) gave me my first m2m massage back in 2010 when he was in Las Vegas. He was very respectful of my boundaries and gave me an experience I reminisced about for years. I found him again during a visit to Chicago in 2016, and he responded politely to my inquiry, even though I am sure I sounded like a stalker. I will second the comments by @bencleve29 that he is very nice and very fun. He knows what he is doing, and he does it very well. Definitely worth a visit.
 
Collin (http://www.massagem4m.com/il/chicago/13723/) was someone I visited early in my massage experiences. As @Racketjock mentioned, he's very sweet and offers a full spa experience: massage (though, as I remember, very soft touch), release, scrub, bath, smoothie and cookie. He's a Turkish furball and quite the conversationalist, both things I remember nearly 7 years later. The comment that it's a ritual and you're along for the ride is spot on, and that's not necessarily a bad thing.
 
I have visited Franz (http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/franz.shtml) twice, and I enjoyed each visit. His touch is not deep, but it is relaxing. He is even more handsome and built than his pictures (though I have not seen him since 2014). Communication before the appointment was easy both times, and he is easy to talk to. He's pretty far north, but not far from public transportation. After the massage in 2014, he was headed into the city and gave me a ride back to my hotel.
 
I got a massage from Ethan (http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/ethanworx2.shtml) in 2012. We communicated a bit before the appointment. At that time, his ad mentioned that his massage was sensual "as all massage is," or something to that effect. He asked me what that meant to me, and I told him "relaxing and maybe teasing touch but not necessarily a release," and he said that was what he meant. That's how the massage was: very relaxing with a little teasing, legitimate intimacy (if that makes sense) but no release. I don't know if a different response would have resulted in a different massage, but I was very satisfied with the massage.
 
I saw Kevin (http://www.massagem4m.com/il/chicago/12403/) in 2013. I didn't have any issues with him being flaky. We had a nice conversation by phone to set up the appointment. He has a very sexy voice and, even though he was not as technically proficient as many masseurs, I was happy with the experience. I can validate everything that @Capitano said in post #50.
 
I got a very nice massage from Jeff (http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/jeffsmassage.shtml) in 2015. He's not far from Wrigley Field, and he has a relaxing setup. He did a masterful job of integrating the therapeutic, sensual, and erotic elements seamlessly, so much so that I fell asleep a couple of times during the massage.
 
I also got a great massage from beardoboi87 on Adam4Adam during a visit to San Diego in 2016. He recently moved to Chicago. He's a very sweet younger guy with a hipster beard. We had a nice conversation before the massage started, and his touch is very relaxing. He was extremely generous with his time and was comfortable with mutual touch.
 
After writing all of this and reflecting on the massages, I would happily see any of these guys again. Chicago presents a challenge: so many great experiences, and so many others that I would like to try. If only every city I visited had the same "problem"!

Cheyenne Jacksonhttp://mediad.publicbroadcasting.net/p/kalw/files/201407/CheyenneJacksonHiRes_MG_5704-2.jpg


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And the infamous jerk-off (allegedly) may be found here.

You made the right decision. PM me for some recommendations if you'd like.

I was interested in hiring Mark (SoTe), but the conversation I had with him online turned me off. I decided to contact him through Adam4Adam a week before my trip to Chicago in March so that we could chat instead of exchanging emails. I waited until I knew exactly what my availability was before asking for specifics. He mentioned that he was in Oak Park and could not host but he could drive to my hotel in River North. I asked him how much it would be, and he said:
 
"160 therapeutic massage
That includes travel & parking fee
If you want something more sensual or erotic that's more"
 
When I asked him if the 160 rate was for one hour, this was his reply:
 
"I find guys want and trained talented therapist who understands the body AND can make you feel amazing and satisfied. I do both but I need to be compensated.
I hate when guys just expect a hand job or a fuck for free."
 
I had never mentioned anything more than a massage, though it was Adam4Adam. I apologized for wasting his time. Seeing the comments from @Jacque, @Capitano, and @JBrian72 confirms that I made the right decision. There are too many really good therapists in Chicago (see my post #54 in this thread) to pay rates like that to someone who thinks he is the only one.

I was interested in hiring Mark (SoTe), but the conversation I had with him online turned me off. I decided to contact him through Adam4Adam a week before my trip to Chicago in March so that we could chat instead of exchanging emails. I waited until I knew exactly what my availability was before asking for specifics. He mentioned that he was in Oak Park and could not host but he could drive to my hotel in River North. I asked him how much it would be, and he said:
 
"160 therapeutic massage
That includes travel & parking fee
If you want something more sensual or erotic that's more"
 
When I asked him if the 160 rate was for one hour, this was his reply:
 
"I find guys want and trained talented therapist who understands the body AND can make you feel amazing and satisfied. I do both but I need to be compensated.
I hate when guys just expect a hand job or a fuck for free."
 
I had never mentioned anything more than a massage, though it was Adam4Adam. I apologized for wasting his time. Seeing the comments from @Jacque, @Capitano, and @JBrian72 confirms that I made the right decision. There are too many really good therapists in Chicago (see my post #54 in this thread) to pay rates like that to someone who thinks he is the only one.

Call me cheap, but $200 is as high as I would go for anyone.

Jake Arrieta, Chicago Cubs (I don't think these pics violate the TOS, do they?)
http://a.espncdn.com/photo/2016/0705/r99842_3000x4500cc.jpg http://a.espncdn.com/photo/2016/0705/r99836_2667x4500cc.jpg

Jake Arrieta, Chicago Cubs (I don't think these pics violate the TOS, do they?)
http://a.espncdn.com/photo/2016/0705/r99842_3000x4500cc.jpg http://a.espncdn.com/photo/2016/0705/r99836_2667x4500cc.jpg

Jake Arrieta, Chicago Cubs (I don't think these pics violate the TOS, do they?)
http://a.espncdn.com/photo/2016/0705/r99842_3000x4500cc.jpg http://a.espncdn.com/photo/2016/0705/r99836_2667x4500cc.jpg

I want to thank all of the contributors to this thread. I now realize that what I had considered my "bad" massage experiences (a HE that hurt, a "therapist" who didn't know what he was doing, etc.) were not that bad at all!

I want to thank all of the contributors to this thread. I now realize that what I had considered my "bad" massage experiences (a HE that hurt, a "therapist" who didn't know what he was doing, etc.) were not that bad at all!

I want to thank all of the contributors to this thread. I now realize that what I had considered my "bad" massage experiences (a HE that hurt, a "therapist" who didn't know what he was doing, etc.) were not that bad at all!

I want to thank all of the contributors to this thread. I now realize that what I had considered my "bad" massage experiences (a HE that hurt, a "therapist" who didn't know what he was doing, etc.) were not that bad at all!