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  1. There is a free website that basically serves as a temp VPN and allows you to access blocked content such as backpage ads in Canada at http://www.unblock123.com/site/backpage.com/

    There are many VPN subscription services that are reasonably priced and offer more reliable access than some of the free ones. (Check this CNET review.) As a married man, I invested in one a couple of years ago so I could get a different IP address when accessing certain websites from home. It also comes in handy when I am on the road and want protection while on an open network. The one I have (Private Internet Access) also allows me to get an IP address in lots of different countries (Canada, UK, Netherlands, Australia, etc.), and that could really come in handy with all these changes.

  2. No, I don't have an account. At the very top right-hand side of the home page the "search, new, advertise, about, and login" menu appears. If you click on the "search" option and then select a city from the drop-down menu or type in a city, I believe you will see the "heal/relax" menu appear in a separate box.

    The "heal/relax" menu will appear, but I don't think it matters which one you choose. It looks like either one gives you the same set of masseurs.

  3. Ditto. Except the hotel room size sometimes dictates as well. I don’t like bed massages.

    I agree, @Pstome. I remember a massage at an Aloft Hotel where the masseur had to wedge the table into a spot that fit, and then he had to do contortions between the table and wall or table and bed as he was giving the massage.

     

    Another issue I seem to have with hotel rooms is getting them warm enough so that I don't freeze during a massage. It's kind of funny, because otherwise, hotel rooms always seem stuffy. For some reason, during a massage in a hotel room, I often feel like it's too cool or drafty, even if I set the thermostat to 80.

     

    There are advantages in going to their place, including lower rates and they already have a massage setup. There are also advantages to having them come to your hotel room, especially the fact that you don't have to get back to your hotel after it's over. For me, it varies from situation to situation.

  4. It depends on where I am. For example, in cities like Chicago, New York, London, and San Francisco that have excellent public transportation, I almost always go to them. In locations where therapists have a car and my hotel doesn't charge for parking, I will usually schedule an outcall, especially if I don't know my way around. A lot of whether I schedule at their place or my hotel also depends on the differential between the incall/outcall rates, as well.

  5. Yeah, I'll follow your advice. I have some experience getting massages. I enjoy when the masseurs do some original movements... and sprinkle sensuality throughout. I do not enjoy when they go to the erotic portion of the massage. I like it when they focus on feet, hands. Also glutes and adductors. Feels nice. I enjoy the build up....

    It sounds like you and I like the same type of massage. Of the videos you posted, this is the one that seems to reflect the type I like to get and give:

     

    https://www.xvideos.com/video1018310/levi_poulter_happy_ending_massage

  6. The whole booze/weed argument is stupid...hopefully it’s all tongue-in-cheek? Barely short of PNP

     

    This whole thread is turning into a lot of posters living vicariously through this massage fantasy.

    Comparing a drink or 420 to PNP is like comparing a playful massage to a gang bang.

     

    FYI, when I smoked with my long time massage therapist (repeat, long time massage therapist), the massage was a bit more playful than any of the other massages I had ever received from him. He stripped to a jock and allowed MT with no HE, but it took months to get beyond that. The 420 didn't make either of us lose control or do anything stupid, but it did make things more relaxed.

  7. I was a member for about a year, mostly just "free mode" and giving the occasional tips to models I liked. There are some really hot Romanian and Bulgarian (my favorite flavors) men on there. I would only buy credits when a special for something like 300 credits for $25 would pop up. I paid for a few private shows, but they were mainly just opportunities to see the model who never bared it all in public chat get naked.

     

    I don't think I spent more than $400 in that year. The private shows can be ridiculously expensive, some as much as $10/minute, as I recall. I would only go private if I could make an offer. I found it more of a drain on my time than money. They closed my account and refunded my last two purchases because of "risky activity" on it. I don't know if they had a problem with my use of a VPN or if it was because I would sometimes ask models where they were. Either way, I have not missed it.

  8. As fun as it sounds, it is kind of a version of #MeToo. I would be really hesitant with a masseur, no matter how good looking they are, taking the offer of some "weed they just got" or anything else that would make me possibly unaware of what I was doing. Literally in a passive position on their massage table in their hands. Especially with all the crazy people out there plus STD's.

    In this case, he truly was a "long time massage therapist" whom I had been seeing for over 2 years. Every massage I had ever gotten from him had been 100% professional, but during the months leading up to this, we had made small talk during massages about him being a stoner and how I had been before I got married. He was probably risking a lot more, like his license, by offering it than I was accepting it. But I would never recommend accepting anything to drink (unless from an unopened container) or smoke from a therapist or anyone else I did not know very well.

  9. Very often, the guy isn’t ugly, just not the one that is in the pictures. So when he arrives at their door, some clients think: “Yeah, I could fuck this, I am horny from the anticipation, and he is available right now!” And so the client still, gets laid, and the guy still gets paid. That is why a fake ad can work for some.

    Been there, done that, but not since I found this forum.

  10. https://london.craigslist.co.uk/ths/d/male-masseur-60-inc/6487511472.html

     

    I have a couple of trips to London in the next few months and thought I would poke around. I found Danny on Planet Romeo's "Hunqz" and googled his phone number to find the CL ad. His Planet Romeo ad (Rugby-tantric) gives a little more info. He is 34 years and 6 feet tall.

     

    I know it's a long shot, but does anyone have any experience with him?

  11. Speaking from my own personal experience, I've definitely let people slip between the cracks. I'd say these instances were not intentional, but it can happen. For me, RM messages and personal emails seem to be the most common ways where someone can be lost in the shuffle. Maybe this info can add some insight from a provider perspective.

    Agreed. I have had this happen with quite a few masseurs, and at least half the time when I follow up, the response is an apology for having missed the earlier message. If you're really interested in meeting someone, it's not a bad idea to write again. If that doesn't get a response either, as others said it's time to move on.

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