Nibay

Jake was my first massage in a non-spa setting. I’ll always remember my first. Haha Great massage and an even better guy. I wish him the best.

I think the conflicting take on Pasha is coming from people who are looking for different things from the massage experience.
 
For those looking for a massage with technical skills and a happy end (albeit a somewhat detached HE) then Pasha checks all the necessary boxes. For those looking for a massage experience that incorporates a more fluid playful sensual experience with a masseur who is also engaging and friendly, then Pasha will likely be found lacking.
 
For many people on this site, it’s not simply the massage that they are seeking but rather the more subtler connection with the masseur. I have been to Pasha a few times, and while I have found him to be excellent in many areas, overall he is not the experience I was looking for.

I think the conflicting take on Pasha is coming from people who are looking for different things from the massage experience.
 
For those looking for a massage with technical skills and a happy end (albeit a somewhat detached HE) then Pasha checks all the necessary boxes. For those looking for a massage experience that incorporates a more fluid playful sensual experience with a masseur who is also engaging and friendly, then Pasha will likely be found lacking.
 
For many people on this site, it’s not simply the massage that they are seeking but rather the more subtler connection with the masseur. I have been to Pasha a few times, and while I have found him to be excellent in many areas, overall he is not the experience I was looking for.

Although not on the XXL side, Chris in Hell Kitchen is packing nicely. He’s one of my favorite and just a real sweet guy.

Let me find Chris’s link. I think he’s only on RentMasseur these days. Best/ NB

I think the conflicting take on Pasha is coming from people who are looking for different things from the massage experience.
 
For those looking for a massage with technical skills and a happy end (albeit a somewhat detached HE) then Pasha checks all the necessary boxes. For those looking for a massage experience that incorporates a more fluid playful sensual experience with a masseur who is also engaging and friendly, then Pasha will likely be found lacking.
 
For many people on this site, it’s not simply the massage that they are seeking but rather the more subtler connection with the masseur. I have been to Pasha a few times, and while I have found him to be excellent in many areas, overall he is not the experience I was looking for.

Here’s another. Wow!
 

Yeah, this guy is a complete trainwreck (saw him years ago), but relatively harmless. I usually do my research, but I booked him last minute on a holiday weekend if I recall. So fortunate to have had so many great experiences with other masseurs. I am lucky that it was with this guy, that I consider one of my worst and not some dangerous situation.

This was all I needed.

Years ago, I was kind of shy and didn’t know that it was appropriate to even take it “there”. That said, in the past few years I have open to taking it there if there is mutual chemistry. Like a few other who commented on here, I tend to go for guys I find attractive and whom I think may find me attractive as well. I am generally not into the guys with perfect bods, and much prefer someone who I connect with personally over a typical “hot” bod. When I am with masseur and they go for the glute area, I usually arch my hips and give some sighs of approval. I have been pleasantly pleased with my track record of late. Haha

Although not on the XXL side, Chris in Hell Kitchen is packing nicely. He’s one of my favorite and just a real sweet guy.

Years ago, I was kind of shy and didn’t know that it was appropriate to even take it “there”. That said, in the past few years I have open to taking it there if there is mutual chemistry. Like a few other who commented on here, I tend to go for guys I find attractive and whom I think may find me attractive as well. I am generally not into the guys with perfect bods, and much prefer someone who I connect with personally over a typical “hot” bod. When I am with masseur and they go for the glute area, I usually arch my hips and give some sighs of approval. I have been pleasantly pleased with my track record of late. Haha

Jake was my first massage in a non-spa setting. I’ll always remember my first. Haha Great massage and an even better guy. I wish him the best.

Years ago, I was kind of shy and didn’t know that it was appropriate to even take it “there”. That said, in the past few years I have open to taking it there if there is mutual chemistry. Like a few other who commented on here, I tend to go for guys I find attractive and whom I think may find me attractive as well. I am generally not into the guys with perfect bods, and much prefer someone who I connect with personally over a typical “hot” bod. When I am with masseur and they go for the glute area, I usually arch my hips and give some sighs of approval. I have been pleasantly pleased with my track record of late. Haha

Yup, that is him.

Gonna best @Nibay to it.
https://rentmasseur.com/ChrisGoesDeepNYC
Should be this Chris and I’d have to concur he does have a nice piece and gives a very legit massage.

Years ago, I was kind of shy and didn’t know that it was appropriate to even take it “there”. That said, in the past few years I have open to taking it there if there is mutual chemistry. Like a few other who commented on here, I tend to go for guys I find attractive and whom I think may find me attractive as well. I am generally not into the guys with perfect bods, and much prefer someone who I connect with personally over a typical “hot” bod. When I am with masseur and they go for the glute area, I usually arch my hips and give some sighs of approval. I have been pleasantly pleased with my track record of late. Haha

Agreed, but wow. It’s huge. ?

Agreed, but wow. It’s huge. ?

Agreed, but wow. It’s huge. ?

At least for me, Pasha is not sensual at all during the massage.

I would privately give him constructive but honest feedback . If you cannot wrote a genuine positive public review, then I would skip it.

I suspect that he was more interested in generating favorable reviews than actually delivering on the best experience for his clients.

I suspect that he was more interested in generating favorable reviews than actually delivering on the best experience for his clients.

This literally happened to me yesterday as well. It was the first, and only, massage I terminated early. Like you, I feel the provider is in desperate need of this gig. At the end, we settled up, and I headed my own way. The provider texted me and said he truly enjoyed working on my body, and asked if I would leave a review for him.
 
I politely responded, “I’m genuinely grateful for the time you spent with me today! However, my experience today doesn’t line up with the other reviews I saw of you online, and I would rather keep my experience to myself. If you’re open to feedback, I can give you my thoughts. Otherwise, I’ll leave off with it being a pleasure to have met you today!”
 
He never responded, so I assume he wasn’t receptive to constructive criticism.