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    Good Grief got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Who was your teenage crush (the guy that made you realize you REALLY liked guys) ?   
    My Three Sons' Don Grady perhaps? Hope so!
     
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    Good Grief got a reaction from + WmClarke in Who was your teenage crush (the guy that made you realize you REALLY liked guys) ?   
    My Three Sons' Don Grady perhaps? Hope so!
     
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    Good Grief reacted to + deej in Who was your teenage crush (the guy that made you realize you REALLY liked guys) ?   
    The thing I remember about that album cover is that you COULD NOT find the album in the bin with unbroken shrink-wrap. Everyone sliced it open to find out if there was anything behind that zipper.
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    Good Grief got a reaction from + easygoingpal in Who was your teenage crush (the guy that made you realize you REALLY liked guys) ?   
    Haha! I, too. Have to say this Rolling Stones jacket was a hit with me at Sears!
     

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    Good Grief reacted to Kippy in Who was your teenage crush (the guy that made you realize you REALLY liked guys) ?   
    I have to say Brad Pitt was hotter in "A River Runs Through It"!http://tse4.mm.bing.net/th?id=OIP.nrhknvHlaoSIWaRMPwnyXwDJEs&w=178&h=266&c=7&qlt=90&o=4&pid=1.7
     
    Kipp
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    Good Grief got a reaction from + easygoingpal in Who was your teenage crush (the guy that made you realize you REALLY liked guys) ?   
    What's Up Doc?
     
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    Good Grief got a reaction from coriolis888 in Advice for a First Time   
    Be super careful about who you might invite to your home. They will have your address and can obtain your real name, even if you don't divulge it.
     
    I say this because early in my hiring career I had a fellow come to my home. Had a great time, sex and all. Pretty soon, he started making demands and threatening to "out" me in my community if I didn't meet the demands.
     
    I hired an attorney and had an agreement written up. Not without some expense on my part.
     
    Extortion. Simply.
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    Good Grief got a reaction from + honcho in Who was your teenage crush (the guy that made you realize you REALLY liked guys) ?   
    He too.....
     
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    Good Grief reacted to Kippy in Who was your teenage crush (the guy that made you realize you REALLY liked guys) ?   
    It was Bobby Sherman--
     
    Then:
     
    Now:

     
    It was the hair and that smile in 1970!
     
    Kipp
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    Good Grief got a reaction from + WilliamM in Who was your teenage crush (the guy that made you realize you REALLY liked guys) ?   
    He too.....
     
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    Good Grief reacted to Despardo in Who was your teenage crush (the guy that made you realize you REALLY liked guys) ?   
    The handsomest man in Hollywood.
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    Good Grief got a reaction from + Tarte Gogo in Who was your teenage crush (the guy that made you realize you REALLY liked guys) ?   
    Yep! Buster Crabbe!
     
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    Good Grief got a reaction from Mydavid in Advice for a First Time   
    Be super careful about who you might invite to your home. They will have your address and can obtain your real name, even if you don't divulge it.
     
    I say this because early in my hiring career I had a fellow come to my home. Had a great time, sex and all. Pretty soon, he started making demands and threatening to "out" me in my community if I didn't meet the demands.
     
    I hired an attorney and had an agreement written up. Not without some expense on my part.
     
    Extortion. Simply.
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    Good Grief got a reaction from + Tarte Gogo in Who was your teenage crush (the guy that made you realize you REALLY liked guys) ?   
    Alain Delon.
     
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    Good Grief got a reaction from Mydavid in Advice for a First Time   
    @SurfTrvlr77
     
    Just be careful. I was not - and have been, within this thread, told how I wasn't in many ways.
     
    Bright side - I've spent multiple weekends, more than half a dozen in the last year with a fantastic guy, no longer advertising. None of those at his place or mine, always a travel location.
     
    He knows my true name, I know his. He knows my company name, I know his employers name. We have each other's cell numbers - no fuck numbers. He's met my sons. He and I have the utmost of respect for each other. We're both good guys.
     
    It works.
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    Good Grief got a reaction from Mydavid in Advice for a First Time   
    I was never stupid enough to leave cash or jewelry (though I, personally, don't wear it other than a cheap Timex) laying about. Never left my wallet on the back of the toilet.
     
    THOUGH, I did have an address that was evidently extremely easy to google (or otherwise) to learn the true name of the resident (me) and my occupation and my associations.
     
    I paid pretty to shut the fucker up.
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    Good Grief got a reaction from LivingnLA in Advice for a First Time   
    @SurfTrvlr77
     
    Just be careful. I was not - and have been, within this thread, told how I wasn't in many ways.
     
    Bright side - I've spent multiple weekends, more than half a dozen in the last year with a fantastic guy, no longer advertising. None of those at his place or mine, always a travel location.
     
    He knows my true name, I know his. He knows my company name, I know his employers name. We have each other's cell numbers - no fuck numbers. He's met my sons. He and I have the utmost of respect for each other. We're both good guys.
     
    It works.
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    Good Grief got a reaction from Maxl in Advice for a First Time   
    Be super careful about who you might invite to your home. They will have your address and can obtain your real name, even if you don't divulge it.
     
    I say this because early in my hiring career I had a fellow come to my home. Had a great time, sex and all. Pretty soon, he started making demands and threatening to "out" me in my community if I didn't meet the demands.
     
    I hired an attorney and had an agreement written up. Not without some expense on my part.
     
    Extortion. Simply.
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    Good Grief reacted to LivingnLA in Advice for a First Time   
    Many clients have no trouble hiring to their home. Use basic common sense when you're inviting an unknown stranger into your home and it may work for you.
     
    It would never work for me. Here are some reasons why and perhaps they will help you as you think through the scenario.
     
    1. I'm not out nor do I have anything to be outed about (I'm happily bisexual) but I do have facets of my life that would be harmed by someone publicizing the hiring of an escort and/or my enjoyment of sex with men.
     
    2. My job is sensitive and some-what public, so the risk of extortion is real and possible. Are you a teacher? A doctor? An executive at a public company? A politician? Someone who is a "well known" citizen may face some negatives by being outed as a person who hires male escorts, even if they live in West Hollywood.
     
    3. I have made certain promises at home about discretion and safety, so escorts will never--to the best of my ability--know enough about me to cause me to break those promises. I love my wife too much to risk her disappointment or cause her pain given her generosity in allowing me the ability to fulfill these needs.
     
    4. One or more of my kids are too young to understand why dad hires escorts sometimes, so again, privacy matters.
     
    5. Lastly, I won't risk inviting a potentially dangerous stranger into my home or even allowing them to know where I live. Plus there's no way to ever make sure the house would be empty without raising questions or suspicions.
     
    For me, hiring an escort means also getting a hotel room. Given my first experience, I won't go to a complete stranger's home either. It's too risky. I use a VoIP number for calls and texts and a throw-away email for those communications. There are other steps I take, but that's for another post. Good luck!
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    Good Grief got a reaction from s1conrad in Who was your teenage crush (the guy that made you realize you REALLY liked guys) ?   
    Alain Delon.
     
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    Good Grief got a reaction from SurfTrvlr77 in Advice for a First Time   
    Be super careful about who you might invite to your home. They will have your address and can obtain your real name, even if you don't divulge it.
     
    I say this because early in my hiring career I had a fellow come to my home. Had a great time, sex and all. Pretty soon, he started making demands and threatening to "out" me in my community if I didn't meet the demands.
     
    I hired an attorney and had an agreement written up. Not without some expense on my part.
     
    Extortion. Simply.
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    Good Grief reacted to OneFinger in Advice for a First Time   
    My hard rule is NOT to have an escort come to my home. I value my privacy. I even use a "disposable" Google Voice number and an "escort only" e-mail when making arrangements.
     
    I started hiring over 25 years ago and have never regretted it. But, I've also learned to be very cautious. Good Grief has a very valid concern about the potential for extortion.
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