adonis only sends email on fri/sat and for the nude parties (I believe the next one is this upcoming Friday). Fairytail is open on Mondays but fewer dancers available. Nowhere Bar near union sq also has dancers on Mondays.
I actually prefer the West Village bars, mostly The Monster at 80 Grove St and Duplex is across the street. However, Rise Bar 859 9th av and Hardware are good options near Port Authority.