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I don't think it's surprising. From his time in porn he would have been accustomed to frequent and rigorous testing (or noticed cases of STIs) and be quite aware of the risks of having unprotected sex with people whose status he has no way of knowing, or of knowing how careful they have been. Escorting is a far less controlled environment than filming porn, so potentially more risky, or that may well be his assessment.

I saw him and thought he was very sweet. Slightly on the spectrum, but eager and fun.

You've reported a couple bad experiences from guys on RM. Is there any reason you haven't reviewed any of them? It would be good for that community to know about your experiences. I don't think many people on RM would ever make it to this forum.