It is my understanding that they supposedly help bottoms relax. I've seen a fair number of escorts use them in sessions and I've always just wondered whether they're really necessary. Part of me feels they just make the encounter dirty as poppers are basically a drug and I'm not into PNP. But I'm also not really bothered when an escort uses poppers, it's mostly just a very minor issue.
Oh believe me, it's most likely nothing more than infatuation. I met an incredible brazilian the last time I was in London and I legit thought I was in love. Took me a while after I got back to calm down and realize that it was just an infatuation.
There was a statistic somewhere that men with HIV are 30 to 40% more likely to get cancer because of their compromised immune systems. This applies even if they're on meds and are undetectable.
I've said before that it feels like a lot of escorts have read some guide about what you're supposed to do because I've experienced the goodbye kiss repeatedly (sometimes even a hug+ a kiss) with a number of different escorts.
I honestly don't remember how I found the forum. It was probably through googling an escort and seeing a thread from here in the search results.
The forum slowly grows by hobbyists coming across it in one form or another. I don't know how you'd pursue an aggressive growth strategy, or why for that matter. The last thing you want is to attract the attention of the feds and have the site shut down like backpage and rentboy.