cj2001

Very sweet guy. But also pretty shy I'd say. Massage B- for me. Pressure not as deep as I like. But he is open to MT and his upper body is killer. He's got some good moves and I did leave happy but feeling like he'll get better with more time.

Looking for an event for a bachelor party for a friend. Would this work for that? We want some level of debauchery but not sure if this would be fun for a group of 6 or so guy friends who have never hooked up/ are not interested in one another sexually if that makes sense. And not sure if any of us would even do private lap dances or just dance/ enjoy the eye candy. I live in NYC most of the year and LA is just so lacking in fun, interactive if you want it to be, hedonistic go-go/ stripper nights at the clubs. If we were there, we'd do Monster or Pieces or maybe The Cock. Thanks!

He blocked me on rentmassuer and rentmen. I am very respectful of peoples' time but also do my due diligence and ask several important questions. I'm guessing he didn't like that I asked a couple of them multiple times because he didn't answer completely? No clue. Still though, I was happy enough to book and when I went to his profile to get his # I saw this:

He was very nice, handsome and pleasant to chat with. Massage was B+ - sensual if a bit soft for my taste. But it seemed like he kept checking something on a shelf near the table and although he disrobed beforehand, he definitely kept his body in positions which made it impossible for me to touch him. The last moments were fine but again, positioned in such a way that it was literally impossible to touch more than his arms. Very pricey for the experience for me.

Thanks will check him out...

Thanks. Right - NYC and/ or LA. We're back and forth a lot.

My partner and I (20 years) have been off sexually for awhile. Wondering if anyone knows a provider who has experience in or would be the right temperament to help us reconnect sexually. We do couples counseling but I'm looking for someone to be there in the room to help ignite and broker and shape and guide us through several sessions to find new common ground. I've looked at some of the retreats and tantric type options but wondering if there's someone who'd approach it almost as a therapist. Thanks!

Definitely had a HE w/ Pasha in the past. It's been several years. Touch was also encouraged. Not super interactive but def something.

Not on the gay masseur sites. Probably totally therapeutic but wondering if there is any sensuality to his work. I generally prefer 90% therapeutic with 10% sensual/ teasing and wondering if he might deliver that. https://www.instagram.com/zkmassage/

SamGL is my fav for deep tissue. Also very sensual/ erotic. (And just really handsome and se*y.) But I need to figure out how to better balance the two. Sometimes it's 50m of massage and not quite enough of the rest and sometimes more like half and half. I assume depending on his mood as my signals are usually consistent.

You can find his FB or Insta and some articles by just searching his name. Also a gofundme to help with end of life expenses. Vinny Vega. RIP. He was a sweetheart.

I knew him. And it's been all over social media and other media.

Vinny sadly passed away last week. Should probably archive this thread.

I made an appt with him one night for the next afternoon. Then as I was getting to the subway he cancelled via text cause I hadn’t confirmed. I made the appt 12ish hours earlier. Looking for my next regular - and we have mutual friends who promised he's a nice guy and dedicated. High hopes dashed.

I just had a different/ maybe more annoying experience. Late the other night I made an appt with someone for the following afternoon - and as I was heading down the subway steps he texted to cancel because I hadn’t confirmed that day. I mean, I’d made the appt 12 hours before. If you need a different type of conformation you should probably tell potential clients. On the hunt for a new regular and he and I have mutual friends who said he was sweet and amazing so I had high hopes.