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What you describe sounds HOT! Where's that video hiding?!

If this was recorded with a higher quality camera, on a massage table, and allowed us to hear them moaning and the slapping of ass cheeks, I would have rated it my favorite porno of all time.

 

I need to find me a masseur like this guy, anyone have any recommendations?

Maybe the escort section? lol, I give this one points for feeling authentic / genuinely amateur, but this so far from being a massage video -- it's not even nuru -- it's literally 10% sex simulation/oily dry humping; 10% sex simulation with additional body contact; 80% straight up fucking.

It's not easy to find quality massage videos that emphasize intimacy, emotional connection, body-to-body contact -- convincingly natural, without any choreographed hardcore elements. I loathe fucking in massage videos...HE is great, but less so if it starts 90 seconds into the clip...where's the build-up, gentlemen?!

Is the stove warming up?

Pretty sure the gas is on, pilot light's just out...

Would love to know about him, too...he's been on my radar for a few weeks now. His massage profile is fairly new, but he's been on rentmen for a while: https://rent.men/hommedujour

I’ve seen Andy a number of times. The massage is actually quite good - B+/A- - but I found him to have a sort of dark, depressed, introspective attitude. He spent a lot of time complaining about his exes and men in general and other clients; it was far from sexy. He also said again and again that he was a therapeutic masseur, that he was tired of guys reaching out for sex; and more would happen only if he wanted it to. So I’m surprised to see the RM ad say he’s open to sensual/erotic...

Thank you for that insight, it's really helpful. I'd reached out to him, and while he seemed responsive and nice, it was a bit odd...he called me 'baby', wouldn't directly answer any of my (purely platonic/technical) questions. I have a high threshold for awkward interaction, particularly through text, but it made me hold off for a bit.

This has some info, but it's old: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-andrew-from-ny-visiting-san-diego.126448/

I'm curious about him too, but can't find anything recent -- if you come across anything, please share! He's now on MF, too: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32265/

Hadn't seen that pic before, but agree, it seems odd...hard to think it's not a deliberate choice. Is he saying, "I'm straight; don't try anything" or "I'm straight; welcome to your straight guy fantasy"? Regardless of intent, it makes him less appealing to me, personally.

i have seen ryan, dieter, rob and anthony while i lived in nyc (did i mention daddy fetish?). if you can schedule time, you can't go wrong with any of them

It seems that there are a lot of us Scorpios in this thread...

Cannot say enough good things about Rob. Pictures don't do him justice although I see he just put up a few new ones that are more on the mark.

Awesome...I connected with him today and plan to see him next week when he's back in town...fingers crossed!

Here is Rob's therapeutic profile (face included):

 

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/massagebymuscle.shtml

bencleve, you're my hero...thank you! Definitely going to give him a try...

I've recommended and continue to recommend Rob whom I think would be a great fit for you and checks most of the boxes (not super tall but otherwise great). He is currently unavailable but when he gets back to town he would be worth seeing.

 

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/muscledmasseur.shtml

I like Rob's profile an have had him bookmarked for a while -- love his body, seems nice and smart...I'm just really hesitant to make an appointment with someone whose face I can't see...

Ryan is amazing. I suggest, if you are comfortable to do so, you tell him you are a bit new to this. He will take very good care of you.

If you ever see him available in NYC, Dieter is great. He works between NYC and Berlin. He is more mature and ticks all the boxes for my daddy fetish

http://www.bestgermanmassage.com/gallery.html

Ah, a fellow Scorpio...I should definitely trust you, then. This is really helpful, thank you! Glad to see Ryan has so many fans...definitely leaning toward him.

Awesome, thanks so much for the extra info!

Thanks very much for the recommendation! I live in Manhattan and can easily get to other boroughs if needed. From the way he worded his profile, he's definitely along the lines of the type of masseur I'm looking for...seems really nice and caring.

Would love to hear if others have additional recommendations.

Hey Guys --

First off, thanks to all of you who make this community what it is. I've been a lurker for a few months and have really enjoyed reading about your experiences and insights. I'm new to m4m massage and eager to explore.

I've only had one massage by a guy who's very popular here on the forums. Despite his great reviews, my experience wasn't that good. The massage was weak, I could hear his roommate walking around the whole time, and he ended 15 minutes early...he was cute and sweet, and the ending felt nice; but overall, it was a let down for my first experience. Part of the reason may have been that he seemed really shy, and I had no idea what I was doing...it took 15 minutes and several attempts on his part for me to realize that he was cool with me touching him. We were also the same age, and he was smaller than me, so perhaps the dynamic I was seeking just wasn't in the cards. Whatever the reason, I'm ready to try again!

This time, I'm hoping to find someone who's a bit more on the daddy side. Not in a role-playing sense, but just someone who's a little older, beefier/taller, strong hands, confident in what he's doing, etc. [For reference, I'm 30, 5'10", with an athletic build.] Physical and mental connection are both really important, so ideally he'd be someone who incorporates body contact into his technique and someone who's intuitive and likes to take control mentally/emotionally. I hope I'm making sense.

Would really value your recommendations and appreciate any advice you may have. PMs welcome, of course. Thanks so much, guys.